Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[Megamegan]

Jessica, you are dealing with some seriously difficult stuff! Keep an eye out for constipation- after my surgery I had it SO BAD and that was the worst part of it all, I was using any and all methods to get it out and it was so horrific. I had to be on a heavy dose of Colace for several days- if you're even on the brink of constipation I would do colace!!! If pushing causes your cath to come out then you definitely don't need constipation too. Anyway I'm sorry it's been so rough, I hope you're getting lots of support from DH during this time

 

[Jrepp]

Thanks. Hubby is being awesome! He had one night where he was like screw it.....I wound up sleeping so to speak on the couch and missed my meds but ever since he has been a total angel.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Well ladies, I just started getting some brown discharge. There's a little black to it but that's probably just really old blood from my HSG. I'm guessing AF will be in full force tonight or tomorrow a.m. Well at least I didn't waist my last frer today so I have it for if I'm late next cycle since I'm going to be testing only on the day AF is suppose to show for the next couple months (or im going to try super hard to...its one of the things I'm doing dif w slowing down on ttc so I don't obsess) so idk maybe the vitex is causing back pain and some pinching type cramping. I'm also thinking maybe I did O on CD14 because I never have an LP shorter than 13 days and if anything I would have thought the vitex would make it longer.

So now I'm just waiting for my enzymes to get here, stopping the vitex and just taking the enzymes and prenatals. I'm excited to see if the hsg will be able to push through in 3-5 months (I haven't fully decided when we will go back yet). I'm also going to look into a whole bunch of other natural remedies for unblocking tubes so hopefullyyyy something works it sucks AF had to show and I didn't get my miracle but that's ok. It'll happen one day, I have alot of faith for that.

so who is left waiting to test still? Good luck!!!

Jrepp, omgosh I was soo constipated after my surgery...even just after my HSG. But with my surgery it was horrible and it was soo hard to push because its hard to use certain muscles in ur stomach. Ugh. I'd end up freaking out with the balloon falling out at home. Itd scare me. Get better!!!

 

[Megamegan]

Jess- Good!! That is helpful.

Mary- I'm sorry I am sure you'll have better luck with those enzymes and the second HSG, your positive attitude I'm sure helps!!!

AFM... still no brown spotting for me... but feeling the cramps and especially in my hips, which I guess has probably happened before but it's just more pronounced now. I suppose my LP might be lengthening, it's not out of the question... just curious to see what my temp does tomorrow morning. If it's still up, I am hoping for an Easter egg BFP! Keep your fingers crossed tight tight tight!!!

 

[Megamegan]

OMG. I'm having the worst stabbing pain in the center low part of my abdomen, around where my uterus is, it is NOT AF cramps at all. It hurts!!! Any of you previously pregnant people ever feel something like this? This is just not normal at all. It's kind of spreading to my whole belly. It's making me kind of incapacitated at the moment. Holy crap.

**overreacting** lol...

 

[chelsealynnb]

OMG. I'm having the worst stabbing pain in the center low part of my abdomen, around where my uterus is, it is NOT AF cramps at all. It hurts!!! Any of you previously pregnant people ever feel something like this? This is just not normal at all. It's kind of spreading to my whole belly. It's making me kind of incapacitated at the moment. Holy crap.

**overreacting** lol...

I had that once with pregnancy #4. It was implanting. It hurt so bad that it took my breath away!!

 

[chelsealynnb]

Stupid internet cheapies!! I took another this evening, got another faint line!! I just want a clear answer. I know it's still so early though. Maybe I should use DH's urine on one and see if anything shows
https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test-gallery/image.php?galleryid=259136

 

[Wishing1010]

Chelsea, that's a pretty decent line, in my opinion!!

 

[sunshine85]

Well I usually know when I O because I get strong right or left ovary pain and very wet down there. I felt this yesterday and we dtd twice. My ovu calendar says I ovulate the 21st but who the hell knows lol I plan on baby dancing at least once a day until two days after the 21st just to be sure. My calendar says today is a very fertile day and as I type this I felt a twinge of right ovary pain again. Been nauseous all day too ugh...joint pains and acid reflux or heartburn...blah

 

[chelsealynnb]

Well I usually know when I O because I get strong right or left ovary pain and very wet down there. I felt this yesterday and we dtd twice. My ovu calendar says I ovulate the 21st but who the hell knows lol I plan on baby dancing at least once a day until two days after the 21st just to be sure. My calendar says today is a very fertile day and as I type this I felt a twinge of right ovary pain again. Been nauseous all day too ugh...joint pains and acid reflux or heartburn...blah

Sounds like you're getting tons of BD'ing in!

 

[sunshine85]

Well I usually know when I O because I get strong right or left ovary pain and very wet down there. I felt this yesterday and we dtd twice. My ovu calendar says I ovulate the 21st but who the hell knows lol I plan on baby dancing at least once a day until two days after the 21st just to be sure. My calendar says today is a very fertile day and as I type this I felt a twinge of right ovary pain again. Been nauseous all day too ugh...joint pains and acid reflux or heartburn...blah

Sounds like you're getting tons of BD'ing in!

Chels, I am trying girly would love a take home rainbow baby. But this is only cycle two trying. Btw, your line looks fabulous!

 

[tuesdaysbaby]

Hi There,

I'm not sure if I'm allowed to intrude in here… but am I able to join in?
I always need people to speak to, especially during the TWW! We are on cycle 4 of TTC baby one and I'm doing charting for the first time this month on advice of my acupuncturist and I'm really loving it! Feel like I'm in control of some small thing.

I'm due around May 5th for AF going by a 30 day (average) cycle but could be a couple days earlier.

xx

 

[sunshine85]

Hi There,

I'm not sure if I'm allowed to intrude in here… but am I able to join in?
I always need people to speak to, especially during the TWW! We are on cycle 4 of TTC baby one and I'm doing charting for the first time this month on advice of my acupuncturist and I'm really loving it! Feel like I'm in control of some small thing.

I'm due around May 5th for AF going by a 30 day (average) cycle but could be a couple days earlier.

xx

Welcome! lets hope stays away for us all

 

[Megamegan]

Welcome tuesdaysbaby!! Good luck to you I'm doing acupuncture this cycle as well... did you do it at all before TTC? I find it really relaxes me and it helping with some neck pain I have, but not sure about success with TTC yet, waiting on my period any day now!

Chelsea, Thanks for the input, and btw I can see that line... I know it sucks to be in limbo unsure if it's going to get darker... Keeping my fingers crossed for ya!! I have zero line on a test still, so I'm definitely leaning towards AF coming tomorrow or Monday, but I'm still hoping that I get a late BFP

 

[tuesdaysbaby]

Hi There,

I'm not sure if I'm allowed to intrude in here… but am I able to join in?
I always need people to speak to, especially during the TWW! We are on cycle 4 of TTC baby one and I'm doing charting for the first time this month on advice of my acupuncturist and I'm really loving it! Feel like I'm in control of some small thing.

I'm due around May 5th for AF going by a 30 day (average) cycle but could be a couple days earlier.

xx

Welcome! lets hope stays away for us all

Thank you! Yes, no AF thank you, for any of us!

I've seen most of you ladies around on BnB but it's nice to have an actual thread… can be a bit lonely otherwise this journey!

 

[tuesdaysbaby]

Welcome tuesdaysbaby!! Good luck to you I'm doing acupuncture this cycle as well... did you do it at all before TTC? I find it really relaxes me and it helping with some neck pain I have, but not sure about success with TTC yet, waiting on my period any day now!

Chelsea, Thanks for the input, and btw I can see that line... I know it sucks to be in limbo unsure if it's going to get darker... Keeping my fingers crossed for ya!! I have zero line on a test still, so I'm definitely leaning towards AF coming tomorrow or Monday, but I'm still hoping that I get a late BFP

Hi Megamegan,

Thank you for the welcome

I didn't do it before TTC, but I find it really relaxing too, which is important for me as I don't ever really truly relax… I'm always thinking about something else or worrying or unable to stop thinking about getting pregnant! I fell asleep at the last session, within 5 minutes - I felt like I was floating and my acupuncturist said that the needles she put in can do that to you, the light floating feeling that is. I loved it. I need it in my life every day! Haha. I hope that it helps both of us, even if it is just a stress relief and that helps us on our way to BFPs!

Fingers crossed that AF does NOT come visit you! x

 

[sunshine85]

Hi There,

I'm not sure if I'm allowed to intrude in here… but am I able to join in?
I always need people to speak to, especially during the TWW! We are on cycle 4 of TTC baby one and I'm doing charting for the first time this month on advice of my acupuncturist and I'm really loving it! Feel like I'm in control of some small thing.

I'm due around May 5th for AF going by a 30 day (average) cycle but could be a couple days earlier.

xx

Welcome! lets hope stays away for us all

 

[sunshine85]

Dammit now these right ovary pains are getting stronger....had them yesterday and was sure it was O...but now I feel them and checked my calendar its a friggin high fertile day for me today

 

[aidensmommy1]

Stupid internet cheapies!! I took another this evening, got another faint line!! I just want a clear answer. I know it's still so early though. Maybe I should use DH's urine on one and see if anything shows
https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test-gallery/image.php?galleryid=259136

I can def see this one soo much better. I couldn't see the last ones at all but I can actually see this so the line must be getting some what darker. FX for an even better one in the a.m!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Idk if I should count today as CD1 or tomorrow...like I'm spotting but at times its more so idk...what would u ladies count it as? Its basically right in between spotting and having a light flow if that makes any sense...

And omg wishing I have horrible cramps like u described!! I never ever ever cramp this bad. I'm almost in tears at times! I've read vitex can cause strong cramps and that's def true! It'll still be more than worth taking it when I start trying harder again tho..i can take these horrid cramps for a baby lol so I realized my enzymes weren't even ordered yet today!! I didn't hit the submit button some how! Ugh. But they'll be here by Fri the 25th so I can start them in 6 days . I'm wishing I had just started them last cycle just so id already have it going in my system but I was being hopeful for a miracle bfp and didn't want to mess with anything. But at least I get to start them now and I'm sure I'll be all fixed up within the next 3-6 months. FX for that!

Mega, I reallyyy hope u get ur Easter bfp!! That'd be amazing! Ur temp did jump today...its the same temp abouts as this dpo last cycle but from what I read its the pattern, not the temps that really matter. I really hope u get it. Its been a pretty bad month and we need another bfp in here!! Good luck and ill be checking in first thing in the a.m! FX!