Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[Wishing1010]

I'm glad your foot is better but sorry about your back!!! I hope it heals up soon for you!!!! And I hate when people act like that at work. It's fine if they need something but the second the can point the spotlight at someone else's problems, they do. So annoying! Shit happens, ya know?!

And OMG, I'm getting my hair done as I type

Will watch your video update soon, Jess!!! Are you feeling any better?

SweetMelodies, it's a tough road and I'm sorry you are here with us. Most of us are going to try NTNP for a bit while we focus on other things. TTC can be the worse and best experience of your life. Hang in there, Hun!!

 

[AmySan]

Yeah! This girl actually had the audacity to say that you should schedule off - she is the one that up and left for 5 days (because they insist on driving) for a funeral for someone she hardly knew...and that was ok...who covered for her then? Duh...My receptionist is so wishy washy and wants to be in the popular group that I am SURE whenever I am gone, she calls the other girls like...Ughhh I knowwww can you take this for Aammmy...It's really bs.

Post a picture once your hair is done!!! Other than Jess and I and IBeach, I don't know what anyone looks like! Would be nice to put a face to names! Everyone post selfies! lol

 

[Jrepp]

I'm sorry sweet melodies. You will get a bfp soon! As much as I know it sucks to hear, try not to stress too hard.

I'm not feeling much better, and I actually fell in the tub a bit ago (hubby was babysitting but got a call from work). I spoke to the doctor and she is re filling my prescription for Percocet! Post a pic of your haircut

 

[aidensmommy1]

I will post a pic ladies when I can figure it all out. Uve all explained it but I just cant seem to do it from my phone and dont have my computer (its completely broken!). But I will try and get a pic on here for u all

ive been having really weird stabbing pains in my vag all day today and some pressure in my abdomen and I keep getting on and off pains where my kidneys are again. I'm thinking it may be from my HSG tho. I just hope its normal and I'm not experiencing any type of infection. If it gets bad ill call the doctor but right now its def manageable..the shooting pain in my vag is just uncomfortable and there nothing I can do to make it better. It could even be a side affect from the vitex. As long as its not an infection, I'll be more then fine.

Today and yes have been long days with lots of tears and I am exhausted! I do have ONE frer left!!! I'm so excited!! Dh has had it hidden since last cycle and that's why last cycle I found one I didn't know about...he grabbed a two pack and put. One under the sink and hid the other for this month knowing id prob use mine before 12dpo when I really want one lol.
Oh yea, I wanted to tell u all about dinner tonight. Dh, Aiden, and I went out for pizza tonight and aiden randomly said to us "I'm not going to Zac's tonight" (zac is his dads name) and I was like do u mean daddy? And he said "I call him zac. I dont like to call him daddy" and I said who's ur daddy then? And he said "I think that nahums my dad". Lol it was like music to dh's ears. I explained to aiden tho that yes Nahum is his step dad but that he has a daddy but it showed what he thinks. (his dad has maybe been around 2 1/2 out of the 6yrs of aidens life and has always just called whenever it was convenient and then suddenly 6 months ago he thinks he should have 50/50 and be able to claim aiden lol. I honestly think this is all his way to try and get money out of being a father when I dont even make him pay child support nor does he buy ANYTHING. Its sad. But yeah it made dhs night hearing aiden basically say he thought of him as his dad

Alright well goodnight ladies and I will update with what frer says in the a.m! FX!

Amy I am sooo happy it worked!! That's awesome!

 

[chelsealynnb]

So I took another test this morning, 9dpo FMU and I still see that line! I wish I could trust these cheapies more. What do you ladies think?

 

[chelsealynnb]

Here it is super crazy tweaked and the link
https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test-gallery/image.php?galleryid=258818

 

[Megamegan]

Chelsea, I'm sorry to say, last cycle I got those almost-lines pretty much every test and they were negative. Then, this cycle Wishing got pink lines that I considered positive but they were also negative. With Wondfo, don't trust it unless it's obviously visible to the naked eye, and then confirm with another test. That's my advice from my experience. You have lots of time still to get a BFP this cycle, good luck!!

 

[chelsealynnb]

Chelsea, I'm sorry to say, last cycle I got those almost-lines pretty much every test and they were negative. Then, this cycle Wishing got pink lines that I considered positive but they were also negative. With Wondfo, don't trust it unless it's obviously visible to the naked eye, and then confirm with another test. That's my advice from my experience. You have lots of time still to get a BFP this cycle, good luck!!

Thanks! Yeah I know they can be so wishy-washy. I'm waiting to see if a real visible line shows up, then back it up with a FRER. I think I'll use a FRER tomorrow morning with FMU. I just wish these tests were more reliable!

 

[aidensmommy1]

I agree with Megan. I also have had those exact lines. Wishing and Mega had really bad batches, only 2 out of my 20 tests showed minor evaps so maybe ull get lucky and have a better batch like I did have (should've saved some!!) And i couldn't really see it besides a little outline in the regular pic but I could def see the tweaked version. FX its the start to ur bfp! U could put this matter to rest by using a frer tomorrow. Odds are if ur getting a line on wondfo, you'll get a more visable/believable line on frer . Good luck!

 

[chelsealynnb]

I took one of my FRERs.... I still don't know!

 

[aidensmommy1]

I dont see anything yet but its still early! Frer was positive when my levels were under 10 so they're def sensitive. And I know wondfos are almost right there with them. I'd try another wondfo tomorrow a.m and if u get a darker line then today, it may have picked it up before frer. The frer box says at 9dpo, only 58% (I think or its right around there) can get a positive. I see many ppl get a positive with frer at about 10dpo.

AFM, I'm saving my frer for tomorrow a.m. I'm pretty sure I'm out given my hsg results so I'm ordering the enzymes today and will start them as soon as they get here I'm excited for that. I feel exhausted thinking about having to keep trying month after month with no results and its just making me realize this is truly the best time to take this semi break. I guess everything does happen for a reason. I needed a break! Hopefully at my next hsg after taking the enzymes, ill get different results and have a better chance FX!

 

[sunshine85]

Hey girlies! Been MIA for a week since I've been housesitting in another county. So as goes my period was April 7th-11th. I went out of town the 12th-16th (wednesday) We wednesday, friday twice, and early this morning (at about 5am). I felt strong right ovary pains yesterday although my ovulation calendar says I am supposed to ovulate on April 21. I am using preseed as well. Not sure if my calendar is wrong on ovulation day since I felt the pains yesterday so I figured I would dtd every day this time around. Ahhh so not sure if I am in the tww according to my ovary pain or if I will wait until the date my ovu calendar says

On that note, very happy to be back and join in on the conversations and waiting together :happy:

to all my ladies xx

 

[Megamegan]

Hi sunshine! Maybe pee on an OPK and see if it's positive?

Afm, still waiting for my brown CM today, and all the sudden I've got this horrible aching pain above my left hip and up my back a little. Along with very slight twinges that come before AF. But I'm crossing my fingers this hip/back pain is pregnancy related since I don't recall feeling this before in all 7 cycles of TTC. I didn't hurt myself or anything and it just started in the middle of my day. There's a first for every ache and pain but I have one more day til AF so I'm remaining cautiously hopeful.

 

[sunshine85]

Hi sunshine! Maybe pee on an OPK and see if it's positive?

Afm, still waiting for my brown CM today, and all the sudden I've got this horrible aching pain above my left hip and up my back a little. Along with very slight twinges that come before AF. But I'm crossing my fingers this hip/back pain is pregnancy related since I don't recall feeling this before in all 7 cycles of TTC. I didn't hurt myself or anything and it just started in the middle of my day. There's a first for every ache and pain but I have one more day til AF so I'm remaining cautiously hopeful.

Thats true. I will go buy one and try it out. I never tried an opk lol where is a good place to buy

 

[Wishing1010]

Hi ladies! Just got back from a 7 mile bike ride! I'm exhausted lol but it felt good

Sounds promising, Megan!!!! FX!

Mary, you aren't out unless the witch shows!

Chelsea, not sure I see anything in FRER but do see the line on the wondfo. As the other ladies have stated, we have seen some bad batches recently so I would be cautiously hopeful until a FRER shows BFP

 

[chelsealynnb]

Thanks everyone! I'm thinking about skipping tomorrow and testing again on Monday. I'm sick of the 'is it there is it not there' guessing game! I want to see a clear line!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Hi sunshine! Maybe pee on an OPK and see if it's positive?

Afm, still waiting for my brown CM today, and all the sudden I've got this horrible aching pain above my left hip and up my back a little. Along with very slight twinges that come before AF. But I'm crossing my fingers this hip/back pain is pregnancy related since I don't recall feeling this before in all 7 cycles of TTC. I didn't hurt myself or anything and it just started in the middle of my day. There's a first for every ache and pain but I have one more day til AF so I'm remaining cautiously hopeful.

I have the same hip/back pain and that's the one symptom that's still giving me some hope. FX its a good sign, at least for u!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Thanks everyone! I'm thinking about skipping tomorrow and testing again on Monday. I'm sick of the 'is it there is it not there' guessing game! I want to see a clear line!

the frer digi "yes" and "no" tests are very very sensitive as well so if ur waiting until the day after tomorrow and dont want the guessing game, that's the most sensitive digi out there. Ive seen it work early for many with just a very faint line on the reg frer line tests. Just wanted to throw out a suggestion good luck and FX!!!!

 

[MolGold]

I hear you ladies cramping and that gives me some hope... I just quit OPKing since I never seem to get +OPKs.. but I am cramping on and off since yesterday Maybe its O day !

Chelsea, I thought I saw something on the FRER.. wait it out a little, 9DPO is still early FX!!

 

[Jrepp]

The frer digis have a sensitivity of 10.8 I believe. They are more sensitive than some dye tests.

Sunshine - I prefer the target brand dip test. It's $16 for 20 tests. You can also get them at walmart and the dollar store.

So this is going to sound gross, but I had to use the bathroom really bad, but pushing hurts. When I was pushing, the catheter came out like 2" and I couldn't push it back in because.....well there was a bulge. The only way to get the catheter back in was to use my finger (don't worry, I washed my hands) and push against my rectum through my vagina. The poop just slid right out and I noticed my vag is full of tubes and ties and stuff. I feel like I got all the bells and whistles going on in there.