Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[Wishing1010]

We BD last night, probably won't again until tomorrow unless DH truly wants it. Not going to force it. I fibbed and told him I am past ovulation already, he seems to be more at ease. Lol, bad me!

 

[sunshine85]

Last tuesday they took blood it was 37hcg, then drew again on wed and fri it was 57 and they took blood again. I am not sure if it is a huge increase but they are going up so I will thank god and not complain

 

[Wishing1010]

Yes, it is great that the levels are increasing!!!!! So happy for you

 

[aidensmommy1]

Pretty sure I just had O pains!

i hope you get your spike tomorrow's temp. AFM, i just keep on googling about charting and temp dips and rise and editing my signature putting my other charting ticker just to keep my DPO counts that FF removed,

it kept my O date even if i put today's temp.

that's exactly where FF will put them back tomorrow FF likes to learn about ur usual temp shifts and all that good stuff and then it can figure things out quicker once it has a common O date to compare to. The dips are soo common on any chart but it can be a good sign too. Its really the overall pattern ur looking for. As long as ur temp goes back up and remains high until AF, that's a great sign FX for u!!

And I wish I could tell u if ull get ur bfp..maybe in a couple days ill have a guess for u lol ill need to see a few temps (my bfp predictions have been off from some beautiful charts that weren't bfps So dont take my prediction to heart! Lol)

 

[aidensmommy1]

We BD last night, probably won't again until tomorrow unless DH truly wants it. Not going to force it. I fibbed and told him I am past ovulation already, he seems to be more at ease. Lol, bad me!

lol it really does seem to help! I didn't mention it and things were better lol

I hope u are oing today! Then we will all be due for AF pretty close to the same time..plus u bd'ed last night FX!

 

[mdscpa]

Pretty sure I just had O pains!

i hope you get your spike tomorrow's temp. AFM, i just keep on googling about charting and temp dips and rise and editing my signature putting my other charting ticker just to keep my DPO counts that FF removed,

it kept my O date even if i put today's temp.

that's exactly where FF will put them back tomorrow FF likes to learn about ur usual temp shifts and all that good stuff and then it can figure things out quicker once it has a common O date to compare to. The dips are soo common on any chart but it can be a good sign too. Its really the overall pattern ur looking for. As long as ur temp goes back up and remains high until AF, that's a great sign FX for u!!

And I wish I could tell u if ull get ur bfp..maybe in a couple days ill have a guess for u lol ill need to see a few temps (my bfp predictions have been off from some beautiful charts that weren't bfps So dont take my prediction to heart! Lol)

Just an update, i just went to the loo and got a LOT i mean a LOT of EWCM it returned after this morning's temp dip and last night's worst cramps on my right side. Now, even my other chart removed the supposed O date. I know temp dip is caused by an estrogen surge and CM quality is also influenced by the same, i really have to check my scope to see if there's ferning there. I feel like i'm O'ing (if May 1st is not) need to BD tonight and the next days. Very sure DH can't wait, lol. Can't wait for tomorrow's temp.

 

[Wishing1010]

Yeah, I may try to see if he wants some loving this evening. If not, it's ok as we did bd last night. Sure hope O does come, I'm ready to be past it!

It'll be nice to be close with it cycles, I know I'm usually crazy off lol

 

[aidensmommy1]

Aidens dads gf doesn't want to tell me or Aiden gram anything about what's going on with his dad apparently. She said to me "I dont want to talk about it", basically like it didn't concern me when I have a child with him! I'm done trying and from now on, he can fight for his son if he wants to have him in his life. Its always been me who tries but not anymore! im putting my foot down! (lol) Even his dads mom agrees with me on the way I feel about him being in aidens life so I dont feel wrong for feeling this way now. I cant believe his gf wont even tell me when his arraignment is! Nor will she tell his mother! And he used his only 5mins to call her I'm guessing. Ugh. I don't get why he finds girls like this. Lol. I just couldn't believe my eyes when I saw a txt saying "idk, I dont want to talk about it". She acts like she's the most important one and the only one hes hurting by going to jail...yea ok, I wish that was the case.

 

[mdscpa]

Yeah, I may try to see if he wants some loving this evening. If not, it's ok as we did bd last night. Sure hope O does come, I'm ready to be past it!

It'll be nice to be close with it cycles, I know I'm usually crazy off lol

There's gonna be loads of crazy people at the same time lol...

to all of us

 

[Wishing1010]

Aidens dads gf doesn't want to tell me or Aiden gram anything about what's going on with his dad apparently. She said to me "I dont want to talk about it", basically like it didn't concern me when I have a child with him! I'm done trying and from now on, he can fight for his son if he wants to have him in his life. Its always been me who tries but not anymore! im putting my foot down! (lol) Even his dads mom agrees with me on the way I feel about him being in aidens life so I dont feel wrong for feeling this way now. I cant believe his gf wont even tell me when his arraignment is! Nor will she tell his mother! And he used his only 5mins to call her I'm guessing. Ugh. I don't get why he finds girls like this. Lol. I just couldn't believe my eyes when I saw a txt saying "idk, I dont want to talk about it". She acts like she's the most important one and the only one hes hurting by going to jail...yea ok, I wish that was the case.

Wow, how insensitive and selfish of her!!! Want me to come beat her up? Lol...in all seriousness though, good for you for not trying to keep him involved anymore. You need to move forward and it sounds like Aiden has a great father now. Eff your ex, he messed up time and time again with no regards to aiden's feelings. He's not the father anymore, just the man who provided the little swimmers!

 

[Jrepp]

We BD last night, probably won't again until tomorrow unless DH truly wants it. Not going to force it. I fibbed and told him I am past ovulation already, he seems to be more at ease. Lol, bad me!

Lol! Some of the things we have to do! I don't know how my hubby isn't all grossed out by the things I show him or tell him. I hope you made it in time, even if you are on a mini break.

Last tuesday they took blood it was 37hcg, then drew again on wed and fri it was 57 and they took blood again. I am not sure if it is a huge increase but they are going up so I will thank god and not complain

I'm confused by your blood test dates. It is going up, which is good.

Aidens dads gf doesn't want to tell me or Aiden gram anything about what's going on with his dad apparently. She said to me "I dont want to talk about it", basically like it didn't concern me when I have a child with him! I'm done trying and from now on, he can fight for his son if he wants to have him in his life. Its always been me who tries but not anymore! im putting my foot down! (lol) Even his dads mom agrees with me on the way I feel about him being in aidens life so I dont feel wrong for feeling this way now. I cant believe his gf wont even tell me when his arraignment is! Nor will she tell his mother! And he used his only 5mins to call her I'm guessing. Ugh. I don't get why he finds girls like this. Lol. I just couldn't believe my eyes when I saw a txt saying "idk, I dont want to talk about it". She acts like she's the most important one and the only one hes hurting by going to jail...yea ok, I wish that was the case.

I don't know what to say about her not letting you guys know. You or his mom could realistically call the courthouse as it is public hearing. I know when I went to jail (arrested for a paid parking ticket....go figure) my hubby and my mom were in constant communication even though we had only been dating for a few months and he was ready to bail me out before they let me out on personal recognizance.

 

[Wishing1010]

Pretty sure I just had O pains!

i hope you get your spike tomorrow's temp. AFM, i just keep on googling about charting and temp dips and rise and editing my signature putting my other charting ticker just to keep my DPO counts that FF removed,

it kept my O date even if i put today's temp.

that's exactly where FF will put them back tomorrow FF likes to learn about ur usual temp shifts and all that good stuff and then it can figure things out quicker once it has a common O date to compare to. The dips are soo common on any chart but it can be a good sign too. Its really the overall pattern ur looking for. As long as ur temp goes back up and remains high until AF, that's a great sign FX for u!!

And I wish I could tell u if ull get ur bfp..maybe in a couple days ill have a guess for u lol ill need to see a few temps (my bfp predictions have been off from some beautiful charts that weren't bfps So dont take my prediction to heart! Lol)

Just an update, i just went to the loo and got a LOT i mean a LOT of EWCM it returned after this morning's temp dip and last night's worst cramps on my right side. Now, even my other chart removed the supposed O date. I know temp dip is caused by an estrogen surge and CM quality is also influenced by the same, i really have to check my scope to see if there's ferning there. I feel like i'm O'ing (if May 1st is not) need to BD tonight and the next days. Very sure DH can't wait, lol. Can't wait for tomorrow's temp.

Ooo!!! Get to BD'ing!!! FX FX FX

 

[Wishing1010]

Yeah, I may try to see if he wants some loving this evening. If not, it's ok as we did bd last night. Sure hope O does come, I'm ready to be past it!

It'll be nice to be close with it cycles, I know I'm usually crazy off lol

There's gonna be loads of crazy people at the same time lol...

to all of us

Hehehe, watch out world! Lol

 

[aidensmommy1]

Pretty sure I just had O pains!

i hope you get your spike tomorrow's temp. AFM, i just keep on googling about charting and temp dips and rise and editing my signature putting my other charting ticker just to keep my DPO counts that FF removed,

it kept my O date even if i put today's temp.

that's exactly where FF will put them back tomorrow FF likes to learn about ur usual temp shifts and all that good stuff and then it can figure things out quicker once it has a common O date to compare to. The dips are soo common on any chart but it can be a good sign too. Its really the overall pattern ur looking for. As long as ur temp goes back up and remains high until AF, that's a great sign FX for u!!

And I wish I could tell u if ull get ur bfp..maybe in a couple days ill have a guess for u lol ill need to see a few temps (my bfp predictions have been off from some beautiful charts that weren't bfps So dont take my prediction to heart! Lol)

Just an update, i just went to the loo and got a LOT i mean a LOT of EWCM it returned after this morning's temp dip and last night's worst cramps on my right side. Now, even my other chart removed the supposed O date. I know temp dip is caused by an estrogen surge and CM quality is also influenced by the same, i really have to check my scope to see if there's ferning there. I feel like i'm O'ing (if May 1st is not) need to BD tonight and the next days. Very sure DH can't wait, lol. Can't wait for tomorrow's temp.

with a second estrogen surge, I usually get EWCM as well. I dont mark it on my chart, I just make a note because it confuses FF on me when it happens lol. Like I said, bd to cover it incase and otherwise I'm pretty sure its just a second surge or may its implantation...? u never know how it can turn out! FX for u!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Aidens dads gf doesn't want to tell me or Aiden gram anything about what's going on with his dad apparently. She said to me "I dont want to talk about it", basically like it didn't concern me when I have a child with him! I'm done trying and from now on, he can fight for his son if he wants to have him in his life. Its always been me who tries but not anymore! im putting my foot down! (lol) Even his dads mom agrees with me on the way I feel about him being in aidens life so I dont feel wrong for feeling this way now. I cant believe his gf wont even tell me when his arraignment is! Nor will she tell his mother! And he used his only 5mins to call her I'm guessing. Ugh. I don't get why he finds girls like this. Lol. I just couldn't believe my eyes when I saw a txt saying "idk, I dont want to talk about it". She acts like she's the most important one and the only one hes hurting by going to jail...yea ok, I wish that was the case.

Wow, how insensitive and selfish of her!!! Want me to come beat her up? Lol...in all seriousness though, good for you for not trying to keep him involved anymore. You need to move forward and it sounds like Aiden has a great father now. Eff your ex, he messed up time and time again with no regards to aiden's feelings. He's not the father anymore, just the man who provided the little swimmers!

lol thank u for this! my family and I all actually referred to him as the sperm donor through out my pregnancy and the first 2yrs of aidens life and then I told everyone they had to stop calling him that because I'm nice lol. And omgosh I wish I could beat her up without getting in trouble haha I feel so much better about everything and feel like I can finally raise aiden the way I want to. I dont want him living this confusing life and his father doesn't understand the difference between when he was a baby and now that he understands things. He def doesn't have aidens best interest at heart like my dh does. Like most everything else, I feel this happened for a reason now.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Jess, I actually told his mother to call the jail this a.m because when my brother was in there we were able to find out when they had court hearings and such so I told her now that she knows she can call them, she can handle it from there and just keep me posted on what's going on. I'm going to try and just start over. Even his mother suspects aiden will be at least 8 before he sees him again and hes just barely 6. That's a long time for a child to not see a parent and then I dont want him getting close again and then his dad messing up.all over again, u know? It'll take court for me to let him build a relationship at this point (unless its only a month until hes out ill be easier on him but 1-2yrs, no way.) Its good to know I can just go down for those records tho . I knew I could call the jail but wasn't sure of anything else. And idk if he got caught just driving or if he had any kind of drugs on him (possibly marijuana?) I guess ill find out shortly

 

[Jrepp]

Finally home! The re appointment went well. She basically said that my fsh levels (can't remember the number) and estradiol levels (86) were perfect before the surgery and the anti mullarian hormone level was on the low range of normal (<1 is normal, mine was 1.18) but it was fine. She said that common protocol is to do a repeat hsg or sis in a month to make sure there was no residual scar tissue or septum, but because of the way my uterus sits in my body, they aren't going to do that yet. So I have to wait until July 12 the or there could be possible implantation issues which commonly end with placental abruption (I'll wait). We the try for 6 months and if nothing happens or I have more losses we go back for further treatment and a seman analysis for hubby.

Oh and she didn't know about the uterus pain, but did say that the stitches will be up there for another 2-3 months, but gave the go ahead for some hot tender lovin. The reason she gave for the stitches was that my cervix points backwards at an angle differently than my uterus so it isn't an nice straight line and the hysteroscope had difficulties staying in place. Apparently there are more than 4 stitches up there, I only found 4 of them.

 

[Wishing1010]

Ooo! So you can DTD now? enjoy!!!!!!! I'm glad you are going to wait until July to TTC again. Better to wait than face another loss. You have your mind in the right place and I'm so happy that you are getting closer and closer to being past all of this!

 

[MarieMo7]

Please tell me she actually used the words "hot tender lovin."
I don't know this doctor, but I would love her forever.

 

[Wishing1010]

Hahaha! That would be awesome! Lol!!!!