Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[AmySan]

Ibeach!! I have missed you so much!!! Please keep posting...I am not trying right now (if you've read) and feel pretty lonely I hope everything is going well for you otherwise!!

 

[AmySan]

I hear you Kenna! Have like 3 fires to put out at work then the rest is waiting until monday..so tired.

Dinner with Mike went ok..was a bit awkward...he wasn't mad about Marbles, but things definitely feel distant. he has a psych appt of his own on Tuesday. Hopefully it goes well.

 

[Jrepp]

Today sucks for me too, although I did get a perfect score on my evaluation.

Amy, I'm glad things went well with Mike even if they were awkward. First dates seem to just be that way.

 

[Jrepp]

While the day is dragging on, send me some questions for the tmi tag video I'm going to be doing this weekend

 

[aidensmommy1]

I am so behind! I'm going to have like 10 pages to catch up on tomorrow! I caught aidens puke bug . It sucks!

I'm sorry everyone is having an icky day. Ugh. I hope this bug is just a 24hr thing for me! I'm guessing it will be because I def feel better then I did this a.m but I still feel terrible. I was telling Kenna that I'm happy I got AF before getting sick or I would have probably thought it was pregnancy related but at the same time this sucks being hit by AF and a bug at once! I just wanted to check in and let u all know why I'm MIA. Ill be back by tomorrow a.m to catch up, I hope.

u all!

 

[iBeach]

Hi girls!

Yes, I read everything every day ( Amy)

Well, as for me: there have been several changes...which may surprise you or not.



For new girls, just a quick backround.... I have been dating a guy (2 years) who had vasectomy about 20 years ago and it was not reversible or we would be able to get any sperm, so I have been TTC with a known donor, my best gay friend. After 7 months of TTC, Vitex, softcups, prenatals,etc...I gave up. I cant take it anymore....for now.

So, moving on...this was my first month of not ttc and it felt weird...relaxed...no expectations....

The NEWS: I AM NOT WITH MY BOYFRIEND ANYMORE
While we were TTC with a donor we felt kind of distance, as I mentioned before. I felt like I didn't need him, because he cant give me a baby anyway. And while we were doing inseminations we hardly had any sex together, he didn't mind at all, but I started to miss the intimacy....

So, we kind of went our own ways....and I am perfectly fine with it.

I decided I will look for someone else who I can have family with. .....if not, I still have my donor who wants to have a baby together, and we would co-parent..........time will tell.

Mary, you mentioned frozen donations...I cant afford to have sperm from my donor frozen and I don't want anonymous donor. I want my child to know who the father is....

Sorry I wrote a book

 

[AmySan]

I am so sorry but glad to hear that you are ok with that!! I could see how that would make intimacy hard. Aside from everything else, TTC put such a wrench in Mike and I's relationship...him feeling like he was a sperm donar :l Ugh. I feel like if we want the same thing, you have to put the work in to try...it isn't always romantic planning sex...but...it is still sex I dunno.

I may be in the same boat with you, soon...as far as looking for someone else. We shall see

Please stick around! Love you!

 

[Wishing1010]

Hi girls!

Yes, I read everything every day ( Amy)

Well, as for me: there have been several changes...which may surprise you or not.



For new girls, just a quick backround.... I have been dating a guy (2 years) who had vasectomy about 20 years ago and it was not reversible or we would be able to get any sperm, so I have been TTC with a known donor, my best gay friend. After 7 months of TTC, Vitex, softcups, prenatals,etc...I gave up. I cant take it anymore....for now.

So, moving on...this was my first month of not ttc and it felt weird...relaxed...no expectations....

The NEWS: I AM NOT WITH MY BOYFRIEND ANYMORE
While we were TTC with a donor we felt kind of distance, as I mentioned before. I felt like I didn't need him, because he cant give me a baby anyway. And while we were doing inseminations we hardly had any sex together, he didn't mind at all, but I started to miss the intimacy....

So, we kind of went our own ways....and I am perfectly fine with it.

I decided I will look for someone else who I can have family with. .....if not, I still have my donor who wants to have a baby together, and we would co-parent..........time will tell.

Mary, you mentioned frozen donations...I cant afford to have sperm from my donor frozen and I don't want anonymous donor. I want my child to know who the father is....

Sorry I wrote a book

Oh wow!!! That was very unexpected but I'm kind of excited bc this still gives you a good chance at getting a BFP. Whether with someone new or still with your donor. I hope you are ok emotionally with all of this, I know break ups are never easy, especially when you've been together for a while.

 

[Wishing1010]

I hear you Kenna! Have like 3 fires to put out at work then the rest is waiting until monday..so tired.

Dinner with Mike went ok..was a bit awkward...he wasn't mad about Marbles, but things definitely feel distant. he has a psych appt of his own on Tuesday. Hopefully it goes well.

I understand the distance you feel, it may take him time to feel, well..safe around you. I don't know how else to put it, not that he thinks you will hurt him but that you will hurt yourself and that scares him. Prove to him you are strong and can resist that urge, and I'm sure you will be super happy in no time!!!!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Hi girls!

Yes, I read everything every day ( Amy)

Well, as for me: there have been several changes...which may surprise you or not.



For new girls, just a quick backround.... I have been dating a guy (2 years) who had vasectomy about 20 years ago and it was not reversible or we would be able to get any sperm, so I have been TTC with a known donor, my best gay friend. After 7 months of TTC, Vitex, softcups, prenatals,etc...I gave up. I cant take it anymore....for now.

So, moving on...this was my first month of not ttc and it felt weird...relaxed...no expectations....

The NEWS: I AM NOT WITH MY BOYFRIEND ANYMORE
While we were TTC with a donor we felt kind of distance, as I mentioned before. I felt like I didn't need him, because he cant give me a baby anyway. And while we were doing inseminations we hardly had any sex together, he didn't mind at all, but I started to miss the intimacy....

So, we kind of went our own ways....and I am perfectly fine with it.

I decided I will look for someone else who I can have family with. .....if not, I still have my donor who wants to have a baby together, and we would co-parent..........time will tell.

Mary, you mentioned frozen donations...I cant afford to have sperm from my donor frozen and I don't want anonymous donor. I want my child to know who the father is....

Sorry I wrote a book

I completely understand that.. I was just curious what ur thoughts were on it (& meant with with ur bf raising the baby as his own, 100%) but I DEF understand ur feelings on wanting him/her to know their father. I was just curious is all & I hadn't realized ur situation had changed. I hope you didn't take me asking that question the wrong way :-\. I would never ever want to offend u!

I'm sorry things didn't work out with ur boyfriend. :-\. Are u okay? I know u said you felt like u didn't need him and such but I know it can still be hard so I'm just checking on u. And your right, you will find someone else who has all the "goods" you need (lol) And I do think 100% that you WILL get your family one day, I truly do with all my heart.
Many of us are NTNP right now or simply just taking a break. Its like we all had enough at once! Its really good to know that u ARE still here with us. I miss seeing your screen name everyday! Lol Anytime you want to talk about ANYTHING that's going on in your life, we are all here. We're Sticking together until we ALL get our bfps no matter what!

Ugh, I better go back to bed.. I feel awful . I dont want to be sick anymore!!!! Puking stinks (especially since its non pregnancy related lol). Good night ladies. I hope I didn't miss too much today, ive only read this last page so far. Cant wait until I can actually come on long enough to respond to everyone!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Jess, that's such a beautiful picture you posted for hubbys anniversary gift! That must have been an amazing place to grow up! That's a good idea for a gift . I'm not very creative with coming up with ideas for special gifts that u cant just buy at any old store like u ladies are...ill have to get some ideas from you for my next anniversary lol.

I have been trying to think of a question to ask u (in between puking lol) and I can't think of one because I feel like I know SO much about u! Hmm..ill have to think just a little bit longer Most of us on this thread have known each other for about 8-9 months now, that's a long time! I feel like I know some of u ladies better than I know friends in real life lol. I really do.

 

[Jrepp]

Even of ots something you already know, there are people out there that probably don't know the answer. It can be fertility or personal related and at this point nothing is off limits.

About to post a new and funny video at www.youtube.com/user/eventualmomma

 

[Megamegan]

iBeach: wow that's big news! Well, I hope it was amicable, and I hope you will find someone perfect for you who wants a family too

And Mary, holy cow, I hope you stop puking soon!! I know- last cycle I got AF with the stomach bug and it was just the worst, and on top of that, depressing because you know you're not pregnant. But hey, it will pass. And good things will come to you soon.


Hi girls. What a day. I had one of the longest work days ever. It is good because I have an "outside gig" which means non-work related, but at the end of the day at 10:00 I had to drive home from NJ to NY in really scary dark, foggy, pouring rain roads.... and potholes all over the place and hydroplaning... omg. I hate driving in the first place. Then I came home and yelled at hubby first thing in the door because he didn't unlock the door for me and it was pouring rain. He hates me right now, but he doesn't understand how I feel. I believe I'm hormonal because AF is due in about 2 days. I always get like this before AF. I also got bad news at work today so I'm super irritable.

The bad news is this: I am now assigned (wasn't asked, just tasked) to be the person who runs the urinalysis tests for my unit. Fan-freakin-tastic. Basically it's a once a week, get up early and call whoever is on the random list, and sit there with cups of pee while everyone does their drug test. But it's actually like a huge responsibility in the Army because you have to keep really careful track of all of the labels and stuff. Can't screw up the drug tests, lol. Anyway, it's not the end of my life or anything, it's just infuriating that I wasn't asked, and I was given 2 days notice- training begins next week Monday through Friday 8-4. So instead of my regular job, now I get to sit in a classroom all day and learn about pee tests. I know, it could be worse. It's just that I want to do what I was hired to do: play the flute. Seems like this job is getting further and further away from that, and everyone is pretty pissed about it. I normally don't write publicly about my job, but I won't say the name of the place I work (you can see on FB if you're my friend) so that way it won't ever come up in a search engine... lol.

I will give you guys a link to a recording of me playing, soon. I have to find a good one for you.

 

[mdscpa]

Hello ladies, sorry for being MIA for awhile. Been to doc yesterday for consultation and they did some tests immediately. Will probably get the results after 2 days. DH is scheduled for SA after 4 days. They never did test for him coz his swimmers are almost 2weeks old might give false result so he has to do his thing last night on his own to make them fresh lol. I'll have a USG after my tests result but probably do it the day my DH has his SA... Hopefully we never miss my O because we cannot BD before the SA. But for now, we just want to have good results.

 

[Wishing1010]

Megan, I hate when your job makes you do something you wouldn't prefer, especially when you were doing something you love. FX that you can get back to your old job before too long! And yikes, your drive home sounds so scary!!! Glad you made it home safe.

 

[Wishing1010]

Hello ladies, sorry for being MIA for awhile. Been to doc yesterday for consultation and they did some tests immediately. Will probably get the results after 2 days. DH is scheduled for SA after 4 days. They never did test for him coz his swimmers are almost 2weeks old might give false result so he has to do his thing last night on his own to make them fresh lol. I'll have a USG after my tests result but probably do it the day my DH has his SA... Hopefully we never miss my O because we cannot BD before the SA. But for now, we just want to have good results.

FX that you have great results and don't miss O!!!!

 

[Wishing1010]

My temp went down again today

 

[Megamegan]

mdscpa- glad you are getting some testing done. I hope everything is clear but also that you get some answers

AFM: So my temp is on its way down today, and I got the dreaded brown spotting today... actually more than usual so I almost thought AF was already here. We'll see how the day goes. Ugh, kinda sad but I 100% expected it. Like this is the first cycle that I never once thought I was pregnant. And because of my schedule next week, now I have to reschedule my ultrasound I hope I can still do the HSG this cycle, too. It will be closer to CD10. Stupid job.

 

[Wishing1010]

I'm so sorry Megan stupid witch, I really wish she would stay away from us all!

 

[Megamegan]

Me too. I'm sorry your temp went down, too. It's all so confusing.