Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[Megamegan]

Thanks Kenna...what do you think?

No AF yet...

 

[Jrepp]

Today sucked ass. I'm laying in the closet

I see a line but I don't think it's colored?

 

[Jennuuh]

Megan - Can you get your hands on a FRER at all? I only ask because if you think you might see a little something on that test, then a FRER should definitely pick it up. This is just to show you the difference between a walmart cheapie and a FRER. Both tests are the same exact urine, done at the same time. You can hardly see the line on the bottom test. A FRER will probably give you your answers at this point

Spoiler

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[Megamegan]

You're probably right.

Jess, you must have one comfy closet. I would never be able to squish myself into mine. If it makes you feel better, then I understand wanting to be in your alone space. I just don't want you to hide in there for too long! Hope your night gets better.

I'm on the verge of opening a bottle of wine but just waiting for AF to really start.

 

[Megamegan]

Holy crap! I know the Walmart ones aren't good at giving dark lines but I think Dollar Tree ones might be slightly better. I'm not seeing enough of a line yet. If no AF by tomorrow, I might bust out the big guns. I will use my last dollar tree one with tomorrow's FMU if I don't wake up with AF. Yikes. Can't believe it isn't here yet.

Btw I just majorly shocked myself at the grocery store touching a door in the frozen section. I have heard of pregnant women being slightly more electric Hahaha. Not taking it seriously, don't worry

 

[Jrepp]

I'm good at crawling into teeny tiny spaces. I'm going to give you all so e parenting advice that I hope you remember and use: hold your child accountable for there actions and if they are on meds make sure they take them very day.

None of the students on my class are disciplined and it's obvious they can do whatever they pleas. Further more, they are almost all on meds and they only take them probably 3/7 days a week. Today I almost got kicked down the stairs by a kid who hasn't taken his meds since Friday morning. He will most likely have NO punishment for his behavior. I don't believe in beating kids, but you better be damn sure if my child tried to kick someone down the stairs they would get a swat on the behind and no privileges whatsoever at the very least. This little fuckers mom is taking him to chucky cheese when he gets home.

 

[Jrepp]

Megan - Can you get your hands on a FRER at all? I only ask because if you think you might see a little something on that test, then a FRER should definitely pick it up. This is just to show you the difference between a walmart cheapie and a FRER. Both tests are the same exact urine, done at the same time. You can hardly see the line on the bottom test. A FRER will probably give you your answers at this point

Spoiler

https://i58.tinypic.com/10pqdqa.jpg

Thats how mine were as well. I never got a dark positive on the dollar store test

 

[Megamegan]

Jess, that is just horrible. People are so selfish- they would rather make their child happy so they don't have to deal with the backlash of the kid- and at the same time they are teaching their kid it's ok to be reckless. It's hard work being a parent. I bet a lot of these people never thought half as hard as we have about having children and how they would raise their kids.

 

[Wishing1010]

Oh no, Jess I'm so sorry, what a horrible day!!! Are you ok? It really ticks me off when people do not discipline their children or keep them on the meds they require to be well. Very sad to see what the world is coming to and that irresponsible people are the most fertile ones on the planet...and the kids become lost victims of their parents' stupidity.

 

[froggyfrog]

Oh no mary, no way could I have taken that the wrong way!!! I wanted advice and thoughts; and thats exactly what you gave me

 

[Wishing1010]

Oh and I'm not sure Megan, I do see a line but can't tell the color!

 

[froggyfrog]

Im sorry that happened to you jess!!! People are so lazy now. I work in a bank, and it amazes me how people just let their kids run around like wild animals! Just a few weeks ago there was a little girl and boy running around while the parents were opening an account. When the bank lobby closes we lock our doors and for security reasons an employee has to unlock the door to let anyone else out. This little girl was trying to unlock our door to run outside. When our doors are locked we let our guard down a bit, because robbery is always a potential threat while we are open, and so we were all running and yelling at her not to open the door and the parents were just sitting there! Then I had to lock them outof our bathroom because they were in there playing in the sink! They def needed a spanking!

Megan I don't really think I see anything, maybe a frer will show something?

Amy I'm with mary, you have already proven your sorry to him, it almost seems like maybe he is stringing you along and that's not fair. I would tell him to shit or get off the pot, because you can't live your life in limbo waiting for him to decide. Its not healthy to walk around with constant conflict in your head! Stay strong!

 

[froggyfrog]

I was going to add that my bank is also right next to a hwy, if she had successfully opened that door anybody could have run her over!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Megan, I do see a bit of a line but honestly it looks like the stupid evaps I get on dollar store tests sometimes BUT what can look like an evap can very well be the start to ur bfp so I'm keeping my fingers crossed for that!! and I personally, looking at the pattern of ur chart, i think u may have Oed on CD15. I see why FF would say CD16 because of the bigger jump on CD17 but It really does look like it could of been CD15 and if that's the case, u spotted early and maybe its still too early for a positive on a dollar test . FX today was an implantation dip!!!

 

[Wishing1010]

What a crazy story, Chelsea!!!! I would want to beat up someone for that. Just so horrible people don't realize how neglect could turn dangerous in a split second.

 

[aidensmommy1]

I agree with u ladies on raising ur kids with discipline! For me, I've never had to spank aiden besides ONE time he got a swat on his bottom for running into the busy road out of no where! Omg it scared me shitless and I had his hand one sec and the next he took off! I was more scared than anything and wanted to scare him out of going back into the rd! Lol but overall, as long as u have a set routine and choirs (depending on the age of course) and just simply teaching them right from wrong goes a long way. At times, yes it certainly can be hard disciplining a child when its your own child BUT neverrrr would aiden act that way in public or at school! He was raised with LOTS of manors and respect I'm proud of him. I noticed a GIANT change in the way he acted when I was able to get him on a solid routine. To me, routine and sticking to that routine seems to go a very long way when rasing a child. At first it was hard because of his dad and grandmother not following my routine but a yr before he started school I got him on a great routine & his teachers say hes doing great He acts up like any kid but hes veryy respectful at all times. I'm very strict on that!
Jess, Aiden actually had a boy hitting him on the play ground AFTER school and the kids parents weren't around anywhere and I shouldn't be the one scolding their kid, they should be!! And like u said, I hear the mom say "lets go, we're going to go get ice cream" right after I find her and tell her what had just happened. Uh it made me mad.
Chelsea, that's ridiculous! Where the heck were the parents?! Id never ever leave Aiden in a fricken bank unsupervised! And the fact that if the girl got out of the bank, it would have been a very dangerous area and I know being a mother myself, I ALWAYS take into consideration my surroundings JUST to keep Aiden safe. Thank god nothing happened to that child! Its really the parents fault on how the kids act :-\.
There's alot of parents out there slacking and by giving a kid everything they want, its just going to make things worse for their future...they'll always be expecting things rather than be happy when good things come, u know? I'm not saying it's not okay to ever spoil your child, go ahead spoil away but make it an occasional thing or else they start to have trouble dealing with "the real world". I went through this with aiden when he was 4 because of his dad & gram and thankfully (for me & for Aidens teachers (lol)), I set new boundary's and I SWEAR the less time aiden spent with them and the more time he spent with me, the better he got! I was wishing I didn't allow him to go visit as much from the beginning but I really wanted him to have his dad but that's never going to happen and I actually would like it to stay that way now since its not affecting him that hes gone this time. His dad would be here every other yr all his life but Aidens gram (who his father lived with) would ask to take him for a couple days here and there and he was suppose to spend time with his dad in that time but of course that didn't happen much, I later found that out. Alright I got completely off track and could go on forever and dont even know where I'm going with this now! Lol
What i was saying was, yes I strongly agree with u ladies, children should not be acting like.that without consequences! Lol there's my book (I can actually see the screen today! My headaches not half as bad! Yay!)

 

[aidensmommy1]

Kenna, I feel like ur someone who may just not have much of a temp shift or possibly no shift at all (no shift can happen w O! I researched it for u!) but I was thinking, it looks like u may have oed CD22-23 because MAYBE it just turned to more flat/stable temps instead of rising...never know...ive saw a few charts like that and u can def see a dif pattern that makes u look like u could possibly be 10dpo BUT obv I dont know this for sure, I'm just taking a wild guess after researching bfp charts like urs (lol I kno I have no life!) and I wanted to share my "theory" with u lol. So IF AF or a bfp shows in the next 2-4 days, that could be right..? And another reason I thought of this theory is because your doc confirmed O for you though u/s the cycle before last and that cycle didn't really show a shift but the O date and everything seemed to have matched up right with AF (from what I remember) but if u get AF, I bet the vitex will help u see a clearer pattern like you saw with the clomid. It may not work quite as fast but it certainly can and I dont think it'll take too long FX it works super duper fast!!! Lol

 

[Megamegan]

So yeah I don't think that was an actual line earlier because there was a weird sideways line on the test too. Anyway, so if I O'd on CD15, I only BD'd on CD13 (3 times though lol) so... could definitely have caught the egg but I probably should have kept going a couple more days... but yeah I can see that's a bigger shift so it's a possibility. I DID get a random blob of EWCM that day which was weird. So that would mean Saturday would have been 11dpo, and that's when the spotting started. That would put today at 13dpo, and that would put tomorrow as my most likely due date for AF. So with this scenario, it would be VERY unusual that I spotted for 3 days before my period- actually that kinda worries me- and if it was IB, I should be getting a positive test like really soon. All I know is, if my temp is still low tomorrow and no AF, I'm going to be really confused!! I truly feel like she is coming at any moment but I have been checking all day and nothing besides a couple brown spots when I wipe. I have gotten like suuuuper light crampy feelings and I think that usually happens the day before AF, so I expect her tomorrow.

FF says I'm 12 dpo today but I'm not really believing that.

Never again will I not temp the first half of a cycle.

 

[Megamegan]

Changed FF to "advanced" again and it says CD16, so whatever, I'll leave it there for now until I get my answer.

 

[Megamegan]

Just showed my chart to DH and explained it all to him. He's so cute. I felt like since he's waiting for an answer too, maybe he would like to know why I'm not sure when to expect my period. He said it's not TMI and it's interesting. Yeah!! That makes me happy hahaha.