Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[aidensmommy1]

This thread is booming with s lately....

I pray oh God, that you give the other ladies here a miracle this month...

I soo pray I can be a miracle story for all the other ladies struggling with fertility! Its my dream come true

 

[starryjune]

My temp went back up this morning, so it looks like yesterday might have been the I dip!! FX temp goes up a bit more tomorrow.

 

[mdscpa]

My temp went back up this morning, so it looks like yesterday might have been the I dip!! FX temp goes up a bit more tomorrow.

FX it stays up.... I'm guessing you'll be once of the lucky ladies who will get an early as well... Wunnabubba, Kenna and now Mrsbreen got a line at 10dpo... Maybe you're next.... FX....... When are you going to test?

 

[Wishing1010]

Here is this mornings test!

Yayayayayay!!!! Congrats!!!

 

[starryjune]

My temp went back up this morning, so it looks like yesterday might have been the I dip!! FX temp goes up a bit more tomorrow.

FX it stays up.... I'm guessing you'll be once of the lucky ladies who will get an early as well... Wunnabubba, Kenna and now Mrsbreen got a line at 10dpo... Maybe you're next.... FX....... When are you going to test?

If my temp goes up even more tomorrow, I will be SO tempted to test with a Wondfo cheapie POAS test. But that would only be 10DPO and AF isn't due until next Tuesday - probably too early. Right? Plus, any "symptoms" I had have almost entirely gone away. Even my boobs don't hurt much, just a bit sensitive/swollen.

 

[mdscpa]

The longer you wait the better. You give more time for HCG to build up. But it's possible you get a faint line like the other ladies. I didn't test early though

 

[aidensmommy1]

The longer you wait the better. You give more time for HCG to build up. But it's possible you get a faint line like the other ladies. I didn't test early though

I'm like you this month...i normally would have tested today but since I have had 4-5 quarter size spots of brown today that looks identical to pics of IB, I figured id wait to see if my temp goes back up tomorrow . I'm praying with everything ive got!

For those of you who are religious, if u type "fertility prayer" into google, there's prayers for infertility, TTC, pregnancy, and birth. Ive been saying the prayers to St. Anne daily this month. I'm from a Christian family and my father told me to pray to St. Anne for a baby so I thought to google It one day and found some very beautiful prayers on there.

I'm still having AF type cramps but its def way too early for AF to be coming. I hope the next couple days fly by!!!

 

[aidensmommy1]

My temp went back up this morning, so it looks like yesterday might have been the I dip!! FX temp goes up a bit more tomorrow.

woohoo!!! FX for ur bfp! It looks like everyone will have bfps by the new year at the rate this threads going! There's been a BFP every wk! Lets keep them coming! FX for us both!!

 

[starryjune]

The longer you wait the better. You give more time for HCG to build up. But it's possible you get a faint line like the other ladies. I didn't test early though

OK, as YOU and others following me here as my witness, I promise NOT to test until Saturday (13DPO) - and only then if my temps have gone up even more, aka, staircase building higher. Otherwise I will just wait for AF. If I test on Sat. and get a BFN I can mope around at home instead of having to go into work and put on a fake happy face all damn day.

I have my plan in place should AF visit: I'm going to enjoy the holidays. DH and I will have to take a break from baby making until the end of the year anyway, with separate traveling falling during our entire fertile window end of Nov/into Dec. I will have fun decorating, watching holiday movies, doing Christmas volunteering, visiting family and friends, baking, shopping, and... DRINKING hot toddies by the fire!

I really can't imagine getting a BFP after all these months of great timing, so many BFNs when everything seemed +, and my doctors telling me it wasn't ideal (me having a child) - because of my stupid bipolar and the "high risk" I supposedly am.

I am trying to embrace whatever is best will happen.

 

[mdscpa]

Good tidings are coming ladies..... So brace yourselves...

 

[SarahLou372]

I agree lots of positive stories latley

Im hoping we all get our happy ending soon... I know it will be a dream come true for me too after all this time wanting to have my bundle of joy on thier way and in my arms also too

I took a PM test i think I mentioned and it is also flashing a smiley!! And still have very watery cm, spotty chin, ache in breasts and ache cramps too!! Please oh god bring all us wonderful ladies some good news

 

[mdscpa]

The longer you wait the better. You give more time for HCG to build up. But it's possible you get a faint line like the other ladies. I didn't test early though

I'm like you this month...i normally would have tested today but since I have had 4-5 quarter size spots of brown today that looks identical to pics of IB, I figured id wait to see if my temp goes back up tomorrow . I'm praying with everything ive got!

For those of you who are religious, if u type "fertility prayer" into google, there's prayers for infertility, TTC, pregnancy, and birth. Ive been saying the prayers to St. Anne daily this month. I'm from a Christian family and my father told me to pray to St. Anne for a baby so I thought to google It one day and found some very beautiful prayers on there.

I'm still having AF type cramps but its def way too early for AF to be coming. I hope the next couple days fly by!!!

Can't wait to see that temp jump back up tomorrow...

 

[Querida87]

Ladies, I lost my list of names! Can we sound off Please??

June - I don't understand. Your doctor says you're high risk because you're bipolar or for different reasons? I know a 21 year old who has three living children two lost/aborted pregnancies and one she never talks about (so we don't know if she lost it aborted it or gave it away like she did her two daughters). She is severely bipolar and has a few other issues (and it's genetic running down the line primarily in the women in her family) and she was never high risk. She even lived with me for part of her last pregnancy and had no complications whatsoever

 

[starryjune]

Ladies, I lost my list of names! Can we sound off Please??

June - I don't understand. Your doctor says you're high risk because you're bipolar or for different reasons? I know a 21 year old who has three living children two lost/aborted pregnancies and one she never talks about (so we don't know if she lost it aborted it or gave it away like she did her two daughters). She is severely bipolar and has a few other issues (and it's genetic running down the line primarily in the women in her family) and she was never high risk. She even lived with me for part of her last pregnancy and had no complications whatsoever

Yes, she said I'd be classified as "high risk" simply because my bipolar puts me at greater risk of having issues for both my safety and the baby - aka, bouts of major depression or mania. But I am not the classic bipolar type - I am highly functioning and usually make my mania work well for me - I get a TON of work done and limit spending sprees to sale shoes and groceries, lol. I am an affluent professional who might take more than her fair share of "sick" days when I just can't turn on the "normal" button. When my depression hits, it hits HARD. She said I would need more monitoring than usual should I become pregnant. I'm just an even more unpredictable patient, basically. MUST WATCH JUNE in case she loses her marbles!!

 

[brighteyez73]

Hello ladies,

Just checking in!!!

Mrsbeen - Congratulations!!! Yaaayyy

 

[Jrepp]

Jessica here - pretty much just waiting for AF to arrive so I can schedule my ultrasound. I'm not feeling it AT ALL this month, which is fine. I'm not even going to test until my period is late at this point.

I did have an appointment with the orthopedic doctor and he said that eventually he is going to need to remove the nerve, but that's down the road. I told him about the IUI's coming up and he said I can do thensurgery after I give birth. The thing is, a)I don't know if or when I will get pregnant and b) feet tend to swell in pregnancy which will make it worse. I am waiting for a call from the re to see if I should just do it now while we are waiting for the iuis to start. It's eithr do it now or not do it at all

 

[Wishing1010]

Jessica here - pretty much just waiting for AF to arrive so I can schedule my ultrasound. I'm not feeling it AT ALL this month, which is fine. I'm not even going to test until my period is late at this point.

I did have an appointment with the orthopedic doctor and he said that eventually he is going to need to remove the nerve, but that's down the road. I told him about the IUI's coming up and he said I can do thensurgery after I give birth. The thing is, a)I don't know if or when I will get pregnant and b) feet tend to swell in pregnancy which will make it worse. I am waiting for a call from the re to see if I should just do it now while we are waiting for the iuis to start. It's eithr do it now or not do it at all

Ugh! What a tough decision. I believe I would do it now, just to make your pregnancy less worrisome.

 

[starryjune]

Darn body... now that it's later in the day, my boobs are pretty friggin sore. Why would they feel OK in the morning, then get sore as the day goes on? I'm thinking it's PMS??

I also just started getting mild cramping/pinching in my pelvic area, almost entirely the right side, but a few pinches on the left earlier... not really cramps, but discomfort. AF knocking?

Yep, cynical party of 1 over here.

 

[Querida87]

June - tell your dr to kiss where the sun don't shine! Plenty of people are high risk and their doctors don't tell them not to get pregnant just because it will inconvenience the doctor!

AFM - the doctor couldn't get my mirena out because it was hurting, A LOT. I said I would be happy to keep trying despite the pain, so he left to get the last couple patients attended to before coming back to me. However he was called away for an emergency delivery, so I'm going back tomorrow afternoon to try again. If he can't get it out then, he'll schedule me for next Tuesday at outpatient. But that will make me miss my O (which I think will be happening later this week). FX for tomorrow. I will have to take a stronger pain pill beforehand than I did today though.

 

[aidensmommy1]

June, I'm bipolar and I am a great mother . You will be as well! Dont let the bipolar scare you when it comes to having a child. I know I have my own ways of dealing with things that I've learned over the years and everything seems to fall into place when you have a baby come into your world. I still take my anxiety/depression meds and it doesn't affect how I care for aiden in any way. He's a happy and healthy little boy and definitely loves his momma! You'll do great as a mommy!