hey girls
just been lurking/stalking last few days. just wanted to check-in and say hi. i think i'm 2dpo today (finally ov'd on wed i believe) although i don't feel good about my post-ov temps yet.
dh and i are a little better, but i haven't told him anything at all about any ttc stuff. oddly enough (or not so oddly i suppose
) my ov was very delayed this cycle. not completely unusual for me. i get a 34/35 day cycle a couple times a year. but anyway, b/c of the delay, dh was back home from his trip and we had the best bd pattern we've ever had since ttc during my fertile period at ov, so that makes me want to get very hopeful. i just didn't tell dh that i hadn't ov'd yet, and he has been very accommodating to
when asking. men. pfft. babyd, i feel your pain in this right now. i'm thinking that if we don't get a bfp this time, that i just need to not tell dh anything at all. he's still taking the vits, and he reminds me about them when i forget, so he must not be totally against it. he knows what they're for.
i think he just can't handle the stress of it. i'm still fairly irritated with him but just not bringing it up.
like you girls have said about your dh's, i know he would be totally "chuffed" (that's the right word, isn't it??) about being preggo. he just thinks/wants it to happen without having to plan or do anything about it and that's just not the case. i guess i'll have to hold off a bit on getting him to the doc, but i'm going to try to get appts set up for me soon. i expect in another week or 2, he'll be open again to getting to the doctor himself for the SA followup. anyway, sorry i'm just blabbing on about myself, but i wanted to fill you girls in on what is going on here.
ff should give me crosshairs tomorrow.
otherwise, tink i'm SO pleased for you having a little girl! and MC, so happy everything is ok for you luv! i've got to run to an assignment now luvs...so sorry i'm not commenting to everyone and everything that's been going on here! i've missed you girls terribly
very lonely out here in ttc world (or whatever this limbo is
) w/o my ding dong buddies
i'll try to be on tonight or tomorrow to comment more to everybody!
edited - oh i almost forgot... i'll be due af on feb 16th, day after valentines day. it would be such a wonderful gift to have a valentines bfp to give dh.
well, it would be a wonderful gift anytime, but ....you know what i mean...