You might feel as if you're the only woman to have gone through what you're going through Dani but you're not. Not everyone is pregnant or has had a child, I myself am pregnant right now but have also got three angel babies and no living ones.
I had to give birth to a second tri angel and what I pushed out was easily recognisable as a foetus. I know I'm not the only one to have experienced this. Even now I'm terrified that I may lose this baby because from past experience, second tri is not a safe place for me, I'm counting down the days until I get to 24 weeks and my baby is viable if anything should go wrong (God forbid).
I think maybe you should be posting in the miscarriage support forum if that is how you really feel.
While this thread is about supporting each other through whatever we all go through, be it loss, pregnancy or ttc, posts that declare none of us know what you're going through when you don't know our different histories can be very hurtful.
Please don't think I'm having a go at you or not understanding your pain, believe me, I know the pain all too well, I just think that you need to realise you're not alone in this and that you could get the support you need from the appropriate forum.