The new Gender Specific Hopefuls thread (2014)

[pinkribbon]

It's too far up, the nub is much lower! half the time people don't have a clue please don't take it seriously I had all girl guesses on my last pregnancy and he was 100% boy

I thought ingender and genderdreaming were quite accurate websites for gender prediction, but loads of people have said that white dot is a penis and it's almost certainly a boy.

 

[nickyb]

There's only three good guessers on ingender and most of them guessed girl for me they were wrong and I was gutted cos I believed them and got my hopes up

 

[nickyb]

I'm not saying it's not a boy I just think u should stay neutral cos it's really not clear on that pic

 

[pinkribbon]

There's only three good guessers on ingender and most of them guessed girl for me they were wrong and I was gutted cos I believed them and got my hopes up

Lovemy4 guessed for me on one of them, I heard she's popular and she guessed boy.

I think we'll stay a surprise but I have 0 hope feel so tearful over it.

 

[nickyb]

I completely get how u feel, this is my last chance no more babies I just can't shake that " it just dosent happen for me" feeling

 

[pinkribbon]

I completely get how u feel, this is my last chance no more babies I just can't shake that " it just dosent happen for me" feeling

This is my last too. I actually feel better knowing I'm not alone or crazy in feeling like this!

 

[motherofboys]

huge hugs. I said before I didn't think that was the nub, but it could well be because I have even less clue those most of the guessers over there. Just remember sometimes even professional scan techs can get it wrong, at 20+ weeks, with decent amount of time to look. So a still image, of a possible nub, and non-professional guessers, wont always be right. I'd hate to get your hopes up and understand how you are feeling. I would prepare for a boy. And it may soften the blow IF you do get a boy.

 

[cckarting]

Nicky and pink were all in this together! This is our last as well, and also feel like I won't get my dd because I've never been lucky like that…not that I don't adore my 3 boys, but when it comes to odds it's never in my favor

 

[pinkribbon]

I've even asked my midwife about it at my last appointment and she said she's sceptical it's a penis but i can't shake it

I think now I've got a name in my head it is helping, I don't really feel like I'm at all bonded yet which is really scaring me

 

[cckarting]

What name did you choose? You have plenty of time to bond pink, I didn't really bond with ds3 until I held him in my arms and it was instant love. Give yourself some time

 

[pinkribbon]

What name did you choose? You have plenty of time to bond pink, I didn't really bond with ds3 until I held him in my arms and it was instant love. Give yourself some time

Maxwell

Cc, I feel exactly the same about the odds not being in my favour. The first pregnancy I had no idea and thought it was 50/50 odds but after I had a boy I knew from there on out all subsequent babies would be boys.

 

[motherofboys]

You still have time to bond. And it does help to have a name and start planning things. Try not to think of what you wont be doing with a daughter and more on what you will be doing with 3 gorgeous boys.

 

[pinkribbon]

I think I need to push forward and focus on it being a boy, that way i'll be ready and if it's a girl it'll be a nice surprise.

I have a feeling once I've had my 20 week scan I'll be wobbling again though studying those pictures and trying to see what bits are there. Does it ever end? Lol.

 

[geordiemammy]

They've all said the white dot sticking up is a penis, I can't get it out of my head. Sounds really silly but I'm sat here crying because I just don't know what to do to help myself cope with it. Don't know whether I should be holding on hope or anything.

the pic I'm talking about should be a few pages back if you want to have a look what I mean.

They all said my nub looked like a girl and I had boy number 5 xx

 

[pinkribbon]

I wish I'd just stayed off the boards tbh. I suppose because my gut at the scan said girl i was hoping they'd say girl for me

 

[geordiemammy]

People can get it wrong and that's defo not a willy on the scan you wouldn't be able to see it this early so ignore the ones saying that!! And I don't think the nub is very clear on your pic as no one seems to know what they are looking at so probably just random guesses don't let it get to you what people say about it like I say they get it wrong I was told girl girl girl its very girly and at 16 weeks I was told he was defo a boy!! You will love the baby regardless trust me I've been there 5 times each time wanting a girl and getting boys but now I look at them and think they are great regardless of the fact they weren't my dream gender!! You just have to put a positive spin on things when I found out Harvey was a boy I thought well it is easier cause of the bedrooms and things like that think of the fact that it will be easier to do stuff cause they are all boys and they will most likely like the same kinda stuff!! I know you won't want to think of life without your girl but it helps to think of it in positive ways xx

 

[pinkribbon]

Is Harvey your youngest? I think I remember you here from the last time I was pregnant and I also had boy.

 

[geordiemammy]

Is Harvey your youngest? I think I remember you here from the last time I was pregnant and I also had boy.

Yeah I lost the one when we were pregnant at the same time Harvey is 8 months had a hard start but doing well now

If I'm honest had events not taken place with my 2 youngest I think I would of suffered really badly with GD and when I look at what happened and when it happened with them both I think it was all so I wouldn't suffer GD because I was just happy they were ok! Xx

 

[pinkribbon]

I didn't suffer at all with GD when my youngest was born but I'm afraid I will this time!

I lost one before this one that I'm pregnant with now so part of me feels silly for being bothered but I just can't help it!

I'm glad he's doing okay

 

[geordiemammy]

I lost 4 before Harvey but still wanted a girl so I know how you feel and it's not stupid to feel that way xx