motherofboys
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aww geordieI still haven't told DH about my friend being pregnant. He is rubbish at trying to make jokes out of things and making it worse. If I say she's pregnant he'll make a joke about "so you probably want one now" when he knows that it wouldn't be because she's pregnant that I'd want one and we are already NTNP/practically TTC. He seems to think we can have sex unprotected, but wont have a baby until we move. Like everything will fall into place and be perfect. He asked the other day how long till we move. Makes me furious as there is a PERFECT house. 4 bed, with an 'reception' room that it says can be used as another bedroom. It's listed as being suitable for 4-10 people. It's even slightly less rent than we pay here. It's a little further away, although he used to travel right near to there to work, so he'd only be doing the same distance the opposite way round, and its near ALL my friends. It would however mean changing the boys school. But he wont even consider it! He just says "shame its not nearer" I mean honestly its like 20 minutes away so not even that far to still visit family every week. Its right near where I lived when we first met and he used to come over there to see me and pick me up to go out. And he can't even moan its a rubbish area.
Just say well I'm moving so are you coming or staying here he will come lol
So what if its a bit further away surely its about the boys having a bit more space and that its not like its the other end of the world x
I'm terrible for feeling guilty about anything an everything. It is murder to park round here, and when he moans about not being able to park I apologize, like I said to all the neighbours "hey we only have one car and 4 little kids, we don't need to get with in a mile of our house, why don't you all get 2-3 cars per house hold and compete to park them outside ours. Yeah I know you live 10 houses away but you know our end of the road is sooooo much better for parking"
I feel like I was so desperate to move last time I just picked the first house we looked at, so anything thats wrong with it is down to me not waiting. So if I went ahead and did the same again it would all be my fault when it took him longer to get over to his parents. Sometimes I wish I could move right away. I don't have that with any of my family, that need to be near each other and see each other regularly. But I can't take that away from him and the boys.
I remember you from teen parenting days 
Rome, good luck for Friday, I hope you hear girl x 
