If I tried to convince my OH that I wanted to not BD he would likely make me get back on the pill. He's let me convince him to use natural family planning which is enough danger for him. Funny thing is he symptom spots too. I made an appt with GYN cause I have been having cramps since last AF and occasional shooting pains in pelvis, near ovaries etc. Have also been very nauseous and having heaviness and bloating (couldn't fit into a pair of pants I wore perfectly last month; my hips are wider and my stomach is harder and rounder. But since cramps have been all over my tummy, I'm thinking its a GI problem. (I thought AF was normal last month and didn't do an HPT, so GYN wants to see me and do a serum test). Yesterday, he kept feeling my tummy telling me I'm preggers. I didn't know how to take it though....he looked almost sad and scared. So much so that even though I haven't been to doc yet, I have been trying to convince him I am not preggers just to keep him from panicking. So scary, what if I was! I know he'd be happy and come around, but I obviously don't want to make him worry. Plus my mom is sick, has not been able to eat and is in the hospital getting a feeding tube as we speak....As much as we're not completely ready, we're thinking, man we need kids just to give our parents something to look fwd to and fight to live.