Lol hopefuls. Get over yourself.
My whole point is that I do live a healthy, relaxed lifestyle and it hasn't mattered. I have taken whole cycles off where I didn't focus on TTC and it didn't matter. I went on vacation and didn't come back pregnant. I ate a fertility diet and didn't end up pregnant. I quit alcohol, caffeine, junk food and started exercising, and didn't end up pregnant. I pumped myself full of supplements, Chinese herbs, and went to acupuncture, and didn't end up pregnant. I even tried positive self affirmations! Sometimes no matter what you do or don't do it doesn't matter, you don't end up pregnant. I am tired of the all of the "advice" out there (old wives tales) that ultimately places the blame on the woman and what she does or doesn't do on her not getting pregnant. Sometimes there is actually something wrong on a biological level and no amount of relaxation, supplements, BDing with your hips in the air, pre-seed, etc etc will help. Generally this is the case in people who have been trying for longer than a year.
So no I don't believe relaxation will make a difference. If it was going to help, it would have by now. I'm on my 17th cycle. Instead of focusing on "advice" that's never going to make a difference it is time to look seriously at fertility treatments, which is what we have been doing.
But thank you for the scintillating conversation that utlimately ended up in you bashing a poor woman who has done all she can to have a positive outcome and more.