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I dont know how to feel about this but i gotta let it out . i have a fb friend we became close because we both were ttc . well she stopped trying and i went on the pill then a month later on the pill she pops up pregnant and said i guess when you stop trying it happens on its own ok congrats to her im happy for her but weeks later she comes to me and is like is it normal to have cramping while pregnant i said yes it is unless your bleeding and cramping then id go to the ER . then she goes ok thanks i FORGOT how it feels to be pregnant YOU KNOW ! i swear it felt like she was throwing it in my face i mean WHY asks someone you know has been ttc for a year that question ?? im SURE she has friends and stuff that could have answered that or even google . well more weeks later she hits me up and is like her dr pretty much said it looked like she had a m/c i was supportive and gave her some advice then finds out she's still pregnant . but goes on about how she's getting big for 6wks and im like well i think it could be twins she said now i dont need twins and i dont want them everyone who has twins think their all that * mind you i HAVE twin daughters who are 3* and i told her its now as bad as she think so now today she found she's having twins I TOLD HER so and it like me and hubby so happy and ect and i told her i thought you didnt like twins she goes well my twins yes but other peoples no they make a big deal about it but she has all over her facebook about what she's going to name them and saying what gender she wants and ect sorry but to me she seems to be rubbing it in my face ... i think she's being a bitch on purpose . what do you guys think ??

To me that sounds very insensitive. If you guys were close then she would know how much you have been struggling to get pregnant yourself and if she was a good friend she would/should be kinda sensitive to your feelings.
About the Twin thing I honestly think that was a jab towards you and twins, because OBVIOUSLY you have twin girls (who I might add are ADORABLE!!!) and to be honest, shes not worth your ugh! I know people like that who think they have to one up everyone at EVERYTHING! so much so that they are willing to lie about events to do so!!!

And it looks like we will all be taking some time away from actively conceiving so I guess we need to find a new topic to talk about! lol Whatcha say ladies?
 
Yeah I totally agree with on pregnant girls complaining to TTCing friends. It's just not okay. But everyone is different though. I hope you can express how you feel to her without loosing it lol its hard for me with some friends so I'm with you
 
OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG . i had tested a few hrs ago and left the test because i was SURE it would be a negative so i went and looked back at it and it was a FAINT line. i just ran in the room and told hubby to come look at it and he seen it too . im gonna post a picture i HOPE its the start of a BFP & NOT a evap .
 
the top two test are from the 13th . the bottom one is from the 14th i took it at night maybe around 9/10pm . i tried to get it where you can see the line where the two red dots are let me know what you ladies think .
 

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the top two test are from the 13th . the bottom one is from the 14th i took it at night maybe around 9/10pm . i tried to get it where you can see the line where the two red dots are let me know what you ladies think .

I do see the very faint line there!!!! :D
Congrats Lady!
 
I got my FX and hope its a BFP & NOT a evap since idk what time frame the line popped up . i think imma go buy some FRER tomorrow and make an appointment with my dr to come in monday for blood work .
the top two test are from the 13th . the bottom one is from the 14th i took it at night maybe around 9/10pm . i tried to get it where you can see the line where the two red dots are let me know what you ladies think .

I do see the very faint line there!!!! :D
Congrats Lady!
 
I got my FX and hope its a BFP & NOT a evap since idk what time frame the line popped up . i think imma go buy some FRER tomorrow and make an appointment with my dr to come in monday for blood work .
the top two test are from the 13th . the bottom one is from the 14th i took it at night maybe around 9/10pm . i tried to get it where you can see the line where the two red dots are let me know what you ladies think .

I do see the very faint line there!!!! :D
Congrats Lady!

Yeah, that sounds like agood idea! but it looks good to me! my FX are crossed for you too!!!!!
Here is some :dust: to help with good results
 
i just tested again and got a faint line again .... im getting excited since ive been ttc now for 11mnts & im scared its an evap line .


have you been testing ??
 
No, Haven't tested since this morning but I got confirmation from doctor today that its a BFN!! :'(
So right now, I'm just going to temp and see when and if AF shows up.. I'm 16 days past when AF was due. So it looks like I'm going to go back to be irregular. :(
 
Oh huni, i feel for you i really do! But you still have all of us on here, that will support you and help you through the long times :)

thank you dear. I just needed a good cry and feel better now.

Sometimes a good cry is all we need to get our emotions out. I really really hope next month is your month huni.

I'm sorry to hear about your results Mah. Mine came back neg also. I just called them. :'(
But I was half expecting it. I was irregular before I started the pill so my doctor thinks I'm going to return back to that cycle.

but I thought I would post the pics of the tests I took today, because I'm not 100% sure how to read the opk.

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Was with FMU.

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and this one I just took. before I heard back from the doctor. with SMU.

Yeah Cutler, I did read it. I just wanted another set of eyes to take a look at what I was looking at.
But not BFP for me this month.

So, with opk do you do a test every pee during your ovulation period?

When I did opks test I would test with 3rd or 4th urine. Like just before I got in the shower. And then depending on how my body was (cm, cramps, headache etc) then I would test again later in the day. Although the clear blue ones say to test with FMU.

Any of you ladies have sore itchy boobs coming off the pill ?? the first two weeks being off i was fine till the end of the week now my boobs are itchy and a little sore and idk why . its KILLING ME !!!!! :wacko::wacko:

I didn't experience this much at all. But I do remember waking up on night and rolling over and subconsciously itched my boob. I remember thinking oh that was odd and went back to sleep lol.

Hey ladies can I join in? I'm on cd18 just ovulated on cd 14/15

Hiya :wave: welcome to the thread. It's a great support system. :)

I dont know how to feel about this but i gotta let it out . i have a fb friend we became close because we both were ttc . well she stopped trying and i went on the pill then a month later on the pill she pops up pregnant and said i guess when you stop trying it happens on its own ok congrats to her im happy for her but weeks later she comes to me and is like is it normal to have cramping while pregnant i said yes it is unless your bleeding and cramping then id go to the ER . then she goes ok thanks i FORGOT how it feels to be pregnant YOU KNOW ! i swear it felt like she was throwing it in my face i mean WHY asks someone you know has been ttc for a year that question ?? im SURE she has friends and stuff that could have answered that or even google . well more weeks later she hits me up and is like her dr pretty much said it looked like she had a m/c i was supportive and gave her some advice then finds out she's still pregnant . but goes on about how she's getting big for 6wks and im like well i think it could be twins she said now i dont need twins and i dont want them everyone who has twins think their all that * mind you i HAVE twin daughters who are 3* and i told her its now as bad as she think so now today she found she's having twins I TOLD HER so and it like me and hubby so happy and ect and i told her i thought you didnt like twins she goes well my twins yes but other peoples no they make a big deal about it but she has all over her facebook about what she's going to name them and saying what gender she wants and ect sorry but to me she seems to be rubbing it in my face ... i think she's being a bitch on purpose . what do you guys think ??

Hmm, this is tricky. It does seem she is being genuinely insensitive. But apart from the lack of discretion, she may just be excited and wanting to tell her friend about how she is feeling. As you we're TTC at the same time, maybe she thought she could confide in you. Although I do think the twins comment was a bit of a dig :( sorry Hun.

the top two test are from the 13th . the bottom one is from the 14th i took it at night maybe around 9/10pm . i tried to get it where you can see the line where the two red dots are let me know what you ladies think .

How long did you leave the test before checking it Hun?
 
i honestly hours loll wasnt till i was going to bed that i went and checked it . i took another one and see a aint line on that one too .
Oh huni, i feel for you i really do! But you still have all of us on here, that will support you and help you through the long times :)

thank you dear. I just needed a good cry and feel better now.

Sometimes a good cry is all we need to get our emotions out. I really really hope next month is your month huni.

I'm sorry to hear about your results Mah. Mine came back neg also. I just called them. :'(
But I was half expecting it. I was irregular before I started the pill so my doctor thinks I'm going to return back to that cycle.

but I thought I would post the pics of the tests I took today, because I'm not 100% sure how to read the opk.

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Was with FMU.

View attachment 614429
and this one I just took. before I heard back from the doctor. with SMU.

Yeah Cutler, I did read it. I just wanted another set of eyes to take a look at what I was looking at.
But not BFP for me this month.

So, with opk do you do a test every pee during your ovulation period?

When I did opks test I would test with 3rd or 4th urine. Like just before I got in the shower. And then depending on how my body was (cm, cramps, headache etc) then I would test again later in the day. Although the clear blue ones say to test with FMU.

Any of you ladies have sore itchy boobs coming off the pill ?? the first two weeks being off i was fine till the end of the week now my boobs are itchy and a little sore and idk why . its KILLING ME !!!!! :wacko::wacko:

I didn't experience this much at all. But I do remember waking up on night and rolling over and subconsciously itched my boob. I remember thinking oh that was odd and went back to sleep lol.

Hey ladies can I join in? I'm on cd18 just ovulated on cd 14/15

Hiya :wave: welcome to the thread. It's a great support system. :)

I dont know how to feel about this but i gotta let it out . i have a fb friend we became close because we both were ttc . well she stopped trying and i went on the pill then a month later on the pill she pops up pregnant and said i guess when you stop trying it happens on its own ok congrats to her im happy for her but weeks later she comes to me and is like is it normal to have cramping while pregnant i said yes it is unless your bleeding and cramping then id go to the ER . then she goes ok thanks i FORGOT how it feels to be pregnant YOU KNOW ! i swear it felt like she was throwing it in my face i mean WHY asks someone you know has been ttc for a year that question ?? im SURE she has friends and stuff that could have answered that or even google . well more weeks later she hits me up and is like her dr pretty much said it looked like she had a m/c i was supportive and gave her some advice then finds out she's still pregnant . but goes on about how she's getting big for 6wks and im like well i think it could be twins she said now i dont need twins and i dont want them everyone who has twins think their all that * mind you i HAVE twin daughters who are 3* and i told her its now as bad as she think so now today she found she's having twins I TOLD HER so and it like me and hubby so happy and ect and i told her i thought you didnt like twins she goes well my twins yes but other peoples no they make a big deal about it but she has all over her facebook about what she's going to name them and saying what gender she wants and ect sorry but to me she seems to be rubbing it in my face ... i think she's being a bitch on purpose . what do you guys think ??

Hmm, this is tricky. It does seem she is being genuinely insensitive. But apart from the lack of discretion, she may just be excited and wanting to tell her friend about how she is feeling. As you we're TTC at the same time, maybe she thought she could confide in you. Although I do think the twins comment was a bit of a dig :( sorry Hun.

the top two test are from the 13th . the bottom one is from the 14th i took it at night maybe around 9/10pm . i tried to get it where you can see the line where the two red dots are let me know what you ladies think .

How long did you leave the test before checking it Hun?
 
awww. when you stopped the pill did you get your cycle ??
No, Haven't tested since this morning but I got confirmation from doctor today that its a BFN!! :'(
So right now, I'm just going to temp and see when and if AF shows up.. I'm 16 days past when AF was due. So it looks like I'm going to go back to be irregular. :(
 
they arent in order . the darkest line is the one i just tested with an hr ago the second is the one i tested with and left for hours .
 

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awww. when you stopped the pill did you get your cycle ??
No, Haven't tested since this morning but I got confirmation from doctor today that its a BFN!! :'(
So right now, I'm just going to temp and see when and if AF shows up.. I'm 16 days past when AF was due. So it looks like I'm going to go back to be irregular. :(

I started bleeding April 01 that morning and that night I stopped my pill. And I haven't had anything since then
 
Frodi, what pill were you taking? Did you have a placebo pill for the week you would be on the pill? Or did you stop taking the pill for a week once you finished 3 weeks and then restart?

Cutler, keep testing! hope your line gets darker!
 
Have you've talked to your dr ??
awww. when you stopped the pill did you get your cycle ??
No, Haven't tested since this morning but I got confirmation from doctor today that its a BFN!! :'(
So right now, I'm just going to temp and see when and if AF shows up.. I'm 16 days past when AF was due. So it looks like I'm going to go back to be irregular. :(

I started bleeding April 01 that morning and that night I stopped my pill. And I haven't had anything since then
 
Thanks im about to call my dr and make an appointment to get a blood test .

how are you though ?? feeling pregnant yet ??
Frodi, what pill were you taking? Did you have a placebo pill for the week you would be on the pill? Or did you stop taking the pill for a week once you finished 3 weeks and then restart?

Cutler, keep testing! hope your line gets darker!
 
Yeah, i've had heartburn on and off since finding out. And have an achy stretching feeling down below. I'm also super tired.. ended up falling asleep through wall-e today lol. Then woke up starving even though i ate before falling asleep and only slept for like 40 mins. Lol
 
Just made my appointment i go in early friday morning at 9:45 . by then i'll be 9DPO so im hoping the blood test can detected something .
 
Eating while pregnant makes you sleepy no matter what . i bet that sleep was good too uh ?? loll .
Yeah, i've had heartburn on and off since finding out. And have an achy stretching feeling down below. I'm also super tired.. ended up falling asleep through wall-e today lol. Then woke up starving even though i ate before falling asleep and only slept for like 40 mins. Lol
 

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