Frodi
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I dont know how to feel about this but i gotta let it out . i have a fb friend we became close because we both were ttc . well she stopped trying and i went on the pill then a month later on the pill she pops up pregnant and said i guess when you stop trying it happens on its own ok congrats to her im happy for her but weeks later she comes to me and is like is it normal to have cramping while pregnant i said yes it is unless your bleeding and cramping then id go to the ER . then she goes ok thanks i FORGOT how it feels to be pregnant YOU KNOW ! i swear it felt like she was throwing it in my face i mean WHY asks someone you know has been ttc for a year that question ?? im SURE she has friends and stuff that could have answered that or even google . well more weeks later she hits me up and is like her dr pretty much said it looked like she had a m/c i was supportive and gave her some advice then finds out she's still pregnant . but goes on about how she's getting big for 6wks and im like well i think it could be twins she said now i dont need twins and i dont want them everyone who has twins think their all that * mind you i HAVE twin daughters who are 3* and i told her its now as bad as she think so now today she found she's having twins I TOLD HER so and it like me and hubby so happy and ect and i told her i thought you didnt like twins she goes well my twins yes but other peoples no they make a big deal about it but she has all over her facebook about what she's going to name them and saying what gender she wants and ect sorry but to me she seems to be rubbing it in my face ... i think she's being a bitch on purpose . what do you guys think ??
To me that sounds very insensitive. If you guys were close then she would know how much you have been struggling to get pregnant yourself and if she was a good friend she would/should be kinda sensitive to your feelings.
About the Twin thing I honestly think that was a jab towards you and twins, because OBVIOUSLY you have twin girls (who I might add are ADORABLE!!!) and to be honest, shes not worth your ugh! I know people like that who think they have to one up everyone at EVERYTHING! so much so that they are willing to lie about events to do so!!!
And it looks like we will all be taking some time away from actively conceiving so I guess we need to find a new topic to talk about! lol Whatcha say ladies?