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[genesismarie]

& to all you ladies I know we are all upset by curlers actions & this is her original post but I would like to ask that we continue this post for the honest connects that due exsist on it. I know the other post the girl requested it be tooken down

 

[mah0113]

@mah I have not seen her post in a while actually when she use to be all over my news feed with cravings and baby names etc tbh I think she deleted her facebook. I havnt went to look for her on my friends list because tbh I rather leave enough alone & don't want to feel like I'm looking for mess & drama. But I do agree that she must have really have something disturb her being to lie like that. As I do understand the overwhelming need and want for a baby but I never think it would satisfy hat need by lying because at the end of the day you know if no one else does that your not pregnant. I believe in trust until you show me I shouldn't so I never even second guessed the info she provided plus when she supposedly got her bfp I was off the forum for a few days so I just instantly was excited for her. Now I feel sad for her & her actions. But above all she has my prayers not my judgement

her fb is still up: https://www.facebook.com/IzzyCutler

your stance is honorable, but I dont feel like it is looking for a mess or drama to simply try and find out the truth. In the other thread girls said how she told some of them she had 4 kids, others that she had 2. My understanding was that she had 3. I understand that ttc is a stressful situation, but lying is just not cool. this forum is my "safe place"---I share so many intimate details and thoughts, and I kind of always assumed all the other women were genuine.

but I do agree with you that I would like this thread to continue

 

[genesismarie]

@mah tbh I couldn't resist I did go look lol so much for honor lol. But my understanding is that she had three kids as well. Not really sure how to tell if she has any or if any of the prego pics on fb from her previous kids are really her. It's so true what they say...one lie will make a person doubt everything you ever told them & anything you say in the future so for me I'm like I do not know what to believe. Tbh I think she deleted as she not on my friends list anymore which shows her guilt & shame because I knew nothing of her actions until today. I found her pg by going through our old fb messages. I agree with you on bnh being a safe place for us ladies it is one for me as well. I would like to know the truth from the horses mouth but I guess I just don't want to bother with it. I feel as if she will dealt with it enough with in herself & suffer enough with guilt & shame. I'm also wondering what is she going to tell the people who really know her on facebook or if any of them do? Lies get everything tangled. But I do thing we should continue the thread for the honest connections made through dishonest intentions

 

[genesismarie]

Ps. Now its showing her page is not up when I clicked on that link? Ans my inbox there is no pic next to her name now?

 

[mah0113]

Ps. Now its showing her page is not up when I clicked on that link? Ans my inbox there is no pic next to her name now?

she possibly blocked you--i wasnt on her friends list so I can still see.

are u in your tww btw?

 

[genesismarie]

Yes maam I am. But I have a same o same o feeling tbh. Don't feel any different then all the other cycles with a bfn. I don't even I just wait to see if af shows up. I'm not even sure what dpo I am. I think I'm may have o on cd 16 instead of my usual cd 14 so I'm really waiting for af atlease to see when I ovulated. Me & my fiancee really have decided to put off trying after this cycle until we get married in July due to religious reason. What about you?

Ps. See what I said about guilt & shame? I didn't know about what happen on the other thread & she deleted & blocked me. It's not like I even knew to ask her about it smh that kind of upsets me that she did that. It basically confirms the lie

 

[BBWttc29]

has anyone tried and been successful with the smep

 

[genesismarie]

has anyone tried and been successful with the smep

Haven't tried it but I've read the ebook it seems like a good method if you can remember the 'rules" to a T & for me & my fiancee our schedules are so wild & unpredictable so we just do it when we feel like it before and after o & everyday for about for days during o window but that hasn't worked out all so I'm no help lol

Have you read the ebook? It says it works so good that after only three cycles of trying the method & it not working you should be seeing a doc because it should work if there is no issues. So I assume if they can make a claim like that it has to atlease have some effectiveness to the method

 

[BBWttc29]

yes i have the e book and we are gonna try it this cycle. we usually take ovulation tests and try to BD around Ovulation which has nt worked so im hoping this will improve my chances

 

[genesismarie]

I wouldn't see how more bding could hurt hun. I say give it go & let me know & we might try after the wedding good luck hun keep us posted

 

[BBWttc29]

I wouldn't see how more bding could hurt hun. I say give it go & let me know & we might try after the wedding good luck hun keep us posted

Thank you. I will Im praying this is the month I get my BFP

 

[genesismarie]

Fx that you do hun.

 

[mah0113]

Yes maam I am. But I have a same o same o feeling tbh. Don't feel any different then all the other cycles with a bfn. I don't even I just wait to see if af shows up. I'm not even sure what dpo I am. I think I'm may have o on cd 16 instead of my usual cd 14 so I'm really waiting for af atlease to see when I ovulated. Me & my fiancee really have decided to put off trying after this cycle until we get married in July due to religious reason. What about you?

Ps. See what I said about guilt & shame? I didn't know about what happen on the other thread & she deleted & blocked me. It's not like I even knew to ask her about it smh that kind of upsets me that she did that. It basically confirms the lie

yeah, she made the chanel101 name so I was hoping she would at least give us an explanation. especially since she is probably reading this.

I am officially 11 dpo as of midnight haha. hoping to get a bfp on monday--2 days late for AF is when ive gotten them before. i took like 3 tests today, all bfn

 

[genesismarie]

Now I'm really at a lost for words smh....
If I did ovulate on the 16 I'd be 8dpo if on the 14th I'd be 10. Your lucky I got my bfp with my son six days late I had a pregnancy before him that ended in a miscarriage I never got a bfp at home I got pos at doc though but sadly lost the baby the next week. I'm guessing I always implant late or something because I either don't get bfp or a super late one

 

[Frodi]

Hi Ladies!
I'm sorry for going Mia on all of you. I just recently did a switch from night shift to day shift and I've been trying to adjust. So I'm sleeping all the time.
I also took time away because at time reading the thread was driving me crazy with symptom spotting and everything else that comes with TTC. While I was away from the thread i have made a few discoveries... I have noticed now that my cycle is 51 days, :'( so if things are working that way again my o is tomorrow. I've decided I wasn't going to temp for the first couple cycles just to see if things work out naturally. And now that I am on day shift I can temp more accurately now.
I am also very shocked and upset about the news about cutler. I was also friends with her on Facebook and honestly I am lost for words. I agree with everyone in the Bnb is a very intimate and personal place as I have told people on here things about me that people in my own life here don't know. It's disconcerting that there was someone who had taken advantage of that trust. I would like the thread to remain though as I have made some close and personal connections with some of you ladies.
Hope everyone's cycles are going well.

 

[fisher girl]

Hey Ladies. I am so shocked about Cutler. Anyway lets ignore and focus on getting our real bfp's. af due in 6 days so fingers crossed. Doing a test on Sunday 23rd ;-) welcome back Frodi, you were missed

 

[genesismarie]

Hey ladies I'm. Nine or 11dpo & have tons of creamy/watery discharge? I checked internally and did the rub your fingers together test & its not sticky there is no odor or itching. Af due on the 18th or 20th & I'd usually be all dried up by now lol any opinions?

 

[mah0113]

Hey ladies I'm. Nine or 11dpo & have tons of creamy/watery discharge? I checked internally and did the rub your fingers together test & its not sticky there is no odor or itching. Af due on the 18th or 20th & I'd usually be all dried up by now lol any opinions?

sounds positive!!

I actually tested today with fmu [and again just now] and bfn..i ma 11 dpo today. holding out all hope for 12 dpo night time test---if its bfn tomm night i will be gutted.

If im not preggo this month, I wont be trying again until august. The progesterone is just too much--it wipes me out. I cant stay awake. And the bar exam is at the end of july, so I really cannot afford to be falling asleep in the middle of the day during the last month of bar studying. Its just better at that point to finish the bar and then get back to ttc. but of course, thats why i super duper hope I am preggo this cycle!!


Lets share symptoms!

here ar mine

1-7 dpo: nothing other than sleepiness [progesterone]
7 dpo: temp dip along with some funny cm
8 dpo: huge temp spike, stabbing pain in labia, started getting a congested nose and high midday temps/low grade fever
9 dpp: stuffy nose/congestion continuess..temp came down to normal range for bbt but still would have a low grade fever throughout the day. emotional meltdown, had a hard time breathing when i was crying [congestion?] still super exhausted. slept for like 10 hours this night.
10 dpo: bbt mornign temp steady. super stuffy head and nose, fell like crap. low grade temp. oily hair and face, kind of weird.
11 dpo: stuffy nose is better but not totally fixed, stuffy head MUCH better, low grade temp is gone. noticed my hair is super oily, less than 24 hours after i washed it. face was also super oily when I woke up.

 

[mah0113]

Hi Ladies!
I'm sorry for going Mia on all of you. I just recently did a switch from night shift to day shift and I've been trying to adjust. So I'm sleeping all the time.
I also took time away because at time reading the thread was driving me crazy with symptom spotting and everything else that comes with TTC. While I was away from the thread i have made a few discoveries... I have noticed now that my cycle is 51 days, :'( so if things are working that way again my o is tomorrow. I've decided I wasn't going to temp for the first couple cycles just to see if things work out naturally. And now that I am on day shift I can temp more accurately now.
I am also very shocked and upset about the news about cutler. I was also friends with her on Facebook and honestly I am lost for words. I agree with everyone in the Bnb is a very intimate and personal place as I have told people on here things about me that people in my own life here don't know. It's disconcerting that there was someone who had taken advantage of that trust. I would like the thread to remain though as I have made some close and personal connections with some of you ladies.
Hope everyone's cycles are going well.

welcome back frodi! was thinking about you!

did you wind up o'ing today?

Also, friendly advice: I actually went the same path as you at first and didnt want to temp, but I can tell you now I wish I had just temped from the beginning---it honestly gives you so much peace of mind to just CONFIRM ovulation. and without temping, theres just no way to do it. I didnt temp in march bc I didnt want to drive myself crazy, but not temping drove me more crazy. its so empowering having all this knowledge. Even on the progesterone, on cd13 I get a temp drop and start my period 2 days later...I just feel better knowing that come cd13, if my temp doesnt drop, it may still be good news, even if hpt's dont tell me anything definitive. so I know it may be too late for this cycle, since you already o'd today, but esppppecially with such a long cycle, I def think you should temp or you will drive yourself insane.

 

[Frodi]

Awe thanks Fischer and mah! I missed you ladies as well, glad and not glad to see you guys still here

Mah, I was thinking of temping and right now I'm actually pretty content on just letting afire take it's course. I'll probably start temping my next cycle though just to make sure. I've got an app I enjoy call pink pad on my iPad. I'm too cheap to pay for fertility friend right now. Lol
For my 51 day cycle my o date is actually tomorrow so hopefully I can get hubby in bed tonight! in case things don't work out tomorrow. I've been getting back into the gym not since I've been back on day shift and it feels like I'm finally getting into a routine.