Hey nazz! I hope all this comes to an end for you soon
We are thinking of doing a very small wedding, and possibly just a courthouse thing, but then having a nice reception. That's where most if the fun happens!
But there us a small, well known wedding chapel not far from us that is very cute. So that's a possibility. I think bigger weddings are beautiful, it's just not our thing really. The only thing I want that may be expensive is a wedding dress.
With my ex, I was only 20 and still had a rebellious streak, and refused to do anything traditional. We did an outdoors wedding, I just wore a dress, not white our wedding style, and we had my favorite pizza/Italian food cater it! Lol, it was cool though, we walked "down the aisle" on my uncle's long dock on the lake, and got married under the cabana thing at the end of the dock.
I just want a real wedding dress. He just wants to be married and is willing to go along with whatever.
His mom is back home from the hospital after her stroke. Mentally she seems ok,.only shall slips here and there. But she can't move. Like literally, if she's laying down, she can't even sit up without help. It effected a large area of her cerebellum, only 2 or 3% of strokes do that, and the neuro feared the worst at first. She keeps saying she wants to live long enough to see her grandchild...
which makes Jason and I both sad. Her other sons (think I mentioned them) are half the source if her problems.... They cause her a lot of grief. When she learned I wad pregnant she said it wad the best thing she's heard in years...she even said she would baby sit full timeas she is due to retire in January. With the stroke, I think shell be retiring earlier :/
I'd really like to get married soon (before I was in no hurry, I know we'll be together forever, I have a ring, we live together, etc...I didn't feel the piece of paper was necessary)
But now I know she wants to see that (it would be the first wedding of her 5 kids), and the baby (her first blood related grand child)
We're trying to save for a new car ad well, my car blew a head gasket last year and would have been thousands of dollars to fix, so now we share a vehicle...
So much to do, and needs so much money...Ugh, guess I'm having a worry wart day