You know, I didn't get the pg libido with either of my boys- although my ex was probably why. By the time I found out I was pg with my youngest, I was already thinking about divorce :/
Before I got pregnant, we had been separated for over a year. I thought he had changed and we reunited. But, he didn't change, and by the time I regretted our getting back together, I found out I was preggo. So I stayed with the ass(excuse my language) throughout my pregnancy, but finally called it quits 10 months later. Best decision I ever made.
Now I have a great fiance, a wonderful Daddy to our boys. Jake was so young when Jay and I started dating that he was calling him daddy in a few months. Their real father is total scum. Always getting arrested, drug abuse, and was verbally and emotionally abusive to me - as for physically there was one incident, and he was also a massive liar and cheater. I married too young, at 20. But at least I have my boys, who mean the world to me, so I can't say I'd change the past.
Sorry for the mini novel of my life,lol. Now if I could just get the ass to sign the divorce papers, I could marry my soulmate. We've been together 5 1/2 yrs and want our union to be "officially recognized" by the gov't. We consider ourselves married anyhow. I'm just rambling on today huh? Sorry!