2013 losses- rainbow baby making thread...

[summer2011]

Hi all
I'd like to join if you don't mind. Dr's are convinced mine is ectopic so MTX shot tomorrow So nervous and scared about the shot. Have had no symptoms or pain to indicate ectopic so far. 'If' the shot works we're looking at ttc again in Aug or Sept.

Good luck ladies. Hope to see some sticky

 

[mah0113]

hi girls..can someone take a look at my chart and tell me if they think todays temp increase is post-o....i had an almost + opk yesterday. i dont think mine ever really get as dark as the line.

 

[Kasey84]

Bfp girls!
13DPO, afternoon urine no hold. Exactly 2 months 1 day since my MC.

Congrats and best of luck

 

[karenh]

Summer2011: I am so sorry for your ectopic. Good luck with the shot today. It isn’t too bad. For me it was a little painful while I waitied for it to be absorbed, but not hardly anything after that. Also, with my ectopic I didn’t have any pains or symptoms either except for my weir hcg levels and there not being anything in my uterus. I was 8 weeks when I got the shot. How far are you?

Mah0113: I would recommend using digital opk. They take all the guess work out. My dr said to only use the ones with the or the . If you aren’t ever getting dark enough then you probably aren’t getting a strong enough ovulation. That may need to be looked into. I hope that was helpful.

 

[Peacenik]

Summer2011: I am so sorry for your ectopic. Good luck with the shot today. It isn’t too bad. For me it was a little painful while I waitied for it to be absorbed, but not hardly anything after that. Also, with my ectopic I didn’t have any pains or symptoms either except for my weir hcg levels and there not being anything in my uterus. I was 8 weeks when I got the shot. How far are you?

Summer, I'm sorry for your loss. I had surgery at 9 weeks and like Karen, I had no pain or symptoms either except for slow rising HcG and nothing in the uterus. Good luck.

 

[summer2011]

Thanks ladies. I got the MTX today after a lot of fuss and panic at the hospital. Feeling so 'nuts' for lack of a better word. I sure hope this is worth it in the end! The only thing I am certain of is I won't stop trying until I have a healthy babe, or I'm too old to try any longer lol. It's great to have a place like this forum to talk to others in similar situations. If not for hearing others stories I would feel completely alone.

 

[EarthMama]

Just wondering how much sex is necessary to catch the egg? We've been doing it once a day but is that enough? And are there any positions that help? Should I let his man juice sit inside of me for a bit afterward? Sorry for the graphic questions, lol!

 

[mah0113]

Just wondering how much sex is necessary to catch the egg? We've been doing it once a day but is that enough? And are there any positions that help? Should I let his man juice sit inside of me for a bit afterward? Sorry for the graphic questions, lol!

Lol at man juice

Dh and u have been doing once a day but fell asleep last night which fertility friend insists is my o day (if temps cont to rise)!!! I think every day is good...the two times I got preg we only had sex once and weren't even trying. I did fall asleep in bed though without getting up till morning

 

[mowat]

The first two times I got pregnant (1 successful, 1 miscarriage) we only managed to DTD once during the fertile period. I think it's all luck really!

Cervix feels really high and soft... Maybe I'll see if we can't bed tonight just in case.

 

[LucyLake]

I just wanted to share because I'm in shock....

After almost 10 years since I became pregnant with our son in September 2003 on our honeymoon, my husband finally, finally, finally came inside tonight without anticipating that a morning after pill would be taken.

New beginnings.

A huge weight finally lifted off my shoulders.

Today's events come 23 years to the day that I was hit by a car biking at age 11... And home for two months from school after the bad concussion that followed.

Now comes the really hard part....hoping for a BFP and a sticky to follow.

EarthMama, we're also going to dtd everyday, today is day 8 past AF for me and I still had very slight brown spotting yesterday from the Vitex Chaste Berry so I doubt I'm anywhere near ovulation. I'll test tomorrow though. I'm lying in bed immobile to let it trickle in...also I want a boy since I feel I lost a son. So, we went for less missionary style positions because the male sperm run faster, but die quicker and need to be launched closer to the egg to get there first. Good luck, praying like hell we can all be bump buddies.

Love to all

 

[george83]

I just wanted to share because I'm in shock....

After almost 10 years since I became pregnant with our son in September 2003 on our honeymoon, my husband finally, finally, finally came inside tonight without anticipating that a morning after pill would be taken.

New beginnings.

A huge weight finally lifted off my shoulders.

Today's events come 23 years to the day that I was hit by a car biking at age 11... And home for two months from school after the bad concussion that followed.

Now comes the really hard part....hoping for a BFP and a sticky to follow.

EarthMama, we're also going to dtd everyday, today is day 8 past AF for me and I still had very slight brown spotting yesterday from the Vitex Chaste Berry so I doubt I'm anywhere near ovulation. I'll test tomorrow though. I'm lying in bed immobile to let it trickle in...also I want a boy since I feel I lost a son. So, we went for less missionary style positions because the male sperm run faster, but die quicker and need to be launched closer to the egg to get there first. Good luck, praying like hell we can all be bump buddies.

Love to all

Yay Lucy!!! I'm so so happy you and your oh have worked things out and your going for this! The uncertainty after miscarriage is bad enough without having to face everything that you been through. Hoping for your sticky bfp soon

 

[george83]

Hi all
I'd like to join if you don't mind. Dr's are convinced mine is ectopic so MTX shot tomorrow So nervous and scared about the shot. Have had no symptoms or pain to indicate ectopic so far. 'If' the shot works we're looking at ttc again in Aug or Sept.

Good luck ladies. Hope to see some sticky

Hi sweetie I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope everything goes as smoothly as possible for you, I hate that yet another person is going through a loss

 

[LucyLake]

I just wanted to share because I'm in shock....

After almost 10 years since I became pregnant with our son in September 2003 on our honeymoon, my husband finally, finally, finally came inside tonight without anticipating that a morning after pill would be taken.

New beginnings.

A huge weight finally lifted off my shoulders.

Today's events come 23 years to the day that I was hit by a car biking at age 11... And home for two months from school after the bad concussion that followed.

Now comes the really hard part....hoping for a BFP and a sticky to follow.

EarthMama, we're also going to dtd everyday, today is day 8 past AF for me and I still had very slight brown spotting yesterday from the Vitex Chaste Berry so I doubt I'm anywhere near ovulation. I'll test tomorrow though. I'm lying in bed immobile to let it trickle in...also I want a boy since I feel I lost a son. So, we went for less missionary style positions because the male sperm run faster, but die quicker and need to be launched closer to the egg to get there first. Good luck, praying like hell we can all be bump buddies.

Love to all

Yay Lucy!!! I'm so so happy you and your oh have worked things out and your going for this! The uncertainty after miscarriage is bad enough without having to face everything that you been through. Hoping for your sticky bfp soon

Thank you so much George83 . Huge, huge boulder sized weight lifted for sure. I downplayed it with hubby, but I'm headed out to grab breakfast before work and let the tears flow freely. I feel like I've finally been validated and we're on the same page. Hope all is going well for you too, the up and down days are the norm now. I'm thinking to go for it and get baby aspirin in case...

 

[LucyLake]

Hi all
I'd like to join if you don't mind. Dr's are convinced mine is ectopic so MTX shot tomorrow So nervous and scared about the shot. Have had no symptoms or pain to indicate ectopic so far. 'If' the shot works we're looking at ttc again in Aug or Sept.

Good luck ladies. Hope to see some sticky

I'm so sorry for your loss and welcome

 

[Kasey84]

AF has got me again and now I know I won't get a BFP before my would have been due date. I'm just crushed

 

[Nimyra]

Lucy,

I'm so glad that things are turning around! I believe in you!

 

[LucyLake]

Lucy,

I'm so glad that things are turning around! I believe in you!

I believe in you too Nimyra I truly wondered if this day would ever come

Huge hugs and prayers that this is our month.

Kasey84, I'm so sorry

 

[karenh]

For those that have been asking how often should you bed, I have been told by numerous doctors to not do it every day because it depletes the sperm count and it could decrease your chances. BD every other day up to a positive OPK and then BD that day and the day after, then every other day until AF.

 

[mah0113]

I AM GOING TO SCREAM!!!!!

not only do i not get clear positives on opk's but now I started temping to confirm o so I can start the crinone in a timely manner and guess what?! NO CLEAR THERMAL SHIFT EITHER!!!

Does anyone have experience with this?! Anyone in here have low progesterone??? my dr suspects low prog is to blame for my two mc and now I am thinking its def TRUE and that I produce hardly any! please take a look at my chart if you can help

 

[EarthMama]

Ok I don't know what's happening but I'm having cramping. It feels like period cramps. I'm on day 14 of my cycle, guess they might be ovulation pains? Only I have never cramped for ovulation before.