@prayingtogod Wow whenever and how ever god chooses to bless you woth a child is up too him. This woman has no right to comment and or judge his will.
Now, speaking from the flesh....she ahould be glad you didnt bust her down to thw white meat for that comment. Because that is a sensitive area....enough so to fight from slapping someone.
That happened with me and our DD. We tried natural after finding out about my pcos. Then 3 months later I was put on Met, and then I was put on clomid. We did 3 rds without success..brighter side is it helped me ovulate and regulate my periods.
But I ended up getting pg maybe 4 months not taking clomid and the baby stopped growing. This was my 3rd and final mc.. I couldn't take it anymore. Tired of paying for tests, meds, seeing myself as a failure, doctors, and certain outsiders comments. I told my husband I was done.. sorry to fail him. He said I didnt and he was blessed that we had our DS at the time. He sais he was tired of seeing me hurting. So we prayed and then i would do my own special prayer. Asking god to heal me inside and in, asking god to forgive me forgetting who he was to me, asking god to forgive for thinking it was all in man's hands and not his, and I submitted my name body and soul. I also submitted my womb, overies, eggies to mature, fallopian tubes, and husbamd swimmers. I was still taking Met 1000 mg twice a day and at that time we had tried alittle over 4 yrs with 3 mc.
One day in Jan. My son said mommy, my aunts are pg(two sisters we pg 6.5 months apart). When are we gonna have a baby and god calls them away. I'm lonely and I need a sister to call my own. He was 7 at the time and It broke my heart I cried. My husband explqined to him if Its god will its his will...that mommy has something wrong that its hard for mommy to conceive and hold the babies long enough to born. He said okay il pray... Maybe a week latwr he came back rubbed my belly and said...spirit of god said my sister is here. Now his father wasnt home when he did this. That night my husband did the same ane said hey baby daddy loves his princess. I told him what his son said he said I was pg he dreamt it and plus the nifht we DTD he felt it in his soul.
Long story short... Two weeks later im admitted it the hospital for severe dehydration, I'm throwing up badly, losing weight, and all. I had the flu but the doxotr asked was i pg. I laughed but he said you'll be surprised at some women he has seen ended up pg after 10 yrs of ttc. He told me a few months back he had a woman 45 yrs old 3 grand kids, and was pg with twins 4 months. He gave me the test back and the said you're pg. I said okay so used to hearing I wasnt pg. I rolled over because i didn't wanna hear what the doctor had to say. He said im mean Mrs.**** don't seem like your happy. I said you said I wasnt. The doctor said like Maury u r the father well u are pregnant. He showed me the results and that was that. We were 4 weeks along he first thought we were about 10 weeks.
I was still on Met so she was a met baby but also a blessing. Keep faith and keep believing momma.
Anyways, hope everyone else is doing well and gearing up for the holidays. I went shopping for some things for my niece today - she's 8 months old. Really made me miss my baby girl...I just can't wait to have a rainbow of my own.
hugs thanks for sharing
