Congrats to those with the BFP!!! How exciting!
I started spotting yesterday (4 days before AF due) and for me, that's a BIG sign that AF is on its way. Yesterday I was on the verge of tears all day, today, just feeling numb. Come Thursday (expected AF day) it will make this cycle 44 days long! Having long irregular cycles makes this entire process so much more painful...
I still spotted, as did others, with my BFP. Don't despair!
Thank you pbl_ge. I have gone back and forth so many times today believing it could still happen but I just don't see how since this is so normal for me. How long did you spot and what was yours like if you don't mind sharing? And you got a BFP pretty early didn't you?
There's a whole group dedicated to this (probably more than one, really):
https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/t...g-week-before-af-every-month-anyone-else.html
Very supportive and knowledgeable folks there! And lots and lots of pregnant women!
For myself, I generally started spotting about a week before AF every month. It wasn't always this way; started a few years back, and I called it "Bulls*** period." Very annoying. The month of my BFP was the first month I started the B100 complex. I got spotting on Day 7 dpo! After that, and still, I got a tiny amount of spotting most days. I probably never would have noticed it if I weren't checking CM and CP, because it was generally just a trace amount of color. And my BFP came 14 dpo after a BFN on 8 dpo.
There are two schools of thought around spotting. Well, three, because some folks (by which I mean docs) believe it's not a problem and you can just ignore it. And it's true that many women get pregnant through their spotting. Others say it's low progesterone, and will test (usually 7dpo) and then supplement as needed. The other school of thought is that the root of the problem is in the development of the egg, so those docs will prescribe Femara or Clomid as a means of improving and possibly speeding up follicular development. Since you have long cycles, you would probably be a candidate for that.
So, have you tried upping your B6? You need to take a balanced pill with B12, so most women seem to try a B50 or B100 complex. I'm not sure, but I THINK it helped for me!
If this isn't your month, perhaps you should try to get your doc to run a progesterone test on you next month 7 dpo (this is what the women on that thread recommended to me). If it IS your month, then you should consider a very early progesterone test. I got mine done this morning.
Sorry to write a book. Best of luck,
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