Cysters

[LuluSS]

Oh wow, what is causing the pain?

I had a pelvic ultrasound last week and they said everything looked normal. So I am pretty sure I don't have any large cysts or anything.

I had a large ruptured ovarian cyst when I was a teenager that landed me in the ER.

 

[LuluSS]

My husband and I had a similar issue before we were married. He wasn't cheating at the time, but I picked up his phone just to move it and a new text lit up the screen from this girl telling him that he makes her feel so good about herself. Allllll hell broke loose in my house. I finally forgave him and moved past it but it took a little while to trust him again. I'm sorry hun.

I am really trying to move past it and begin to trust him again. Its very hard tho. I find myself checking his phone. Even tho he had changed his lock code, I figured it out! I keep checking it just to make sure. He does not know I know the code now. Is that horrible of me to be doing? I mean I have never had a reason to not trust him before. Now I just dont know! I am so lost. I think the stress of this is stopping AF from visiting this month again. I just need to relax! I was actually at the doctor the other day and my left ovary has a 70 mm cyst on it and my right has a 50 mm cyst. I am in LARGE amounts of pain. Not to sure what to do at this point. We are taking a break from the Clomid this month to treat the cysts. So we are doing BC. The doc thinks that if my ovarys have a rest for a month that they will be refreshed and ready to make a baby. Not to sure if I want to go through with that right now tho with the marriage being kinda insecure right now. But then I was thinking dispite the marriage issue, I still want a baby more than anything. So I just dont know! Ahhh sorry for the rant again! But Hangin_on congrats that is great news, I hope she does start being healthy. That would be an amazing gift! How is everyone else doing and how are things going? Any news or anything else that you guys are trying?? Thanks ladies for being there to listen to my rants! I really appreciate it! I dont have many outlets to let loose like this!

Me and DH went through something similar in the first year of our relationship. It didn't involve another woman though. He was a drug user. I have never done drugs, but I knew he was addicted when we first got together. I told him to quit though and he did. But I caught him using again. I was so upset. I was always checking his phone, car, closet, for any sign of drugs. I know it isn't really the same. But the same as for as trust issues go. But he has been completely drug free since February of 2006 (or 2007). It will take hard work from the both of you, but you can regain that trust back.

 

[momma2b88]

Oh wow, what is causing the pain?

I had a pelvic ultrasound last week and they said everything looked normal. So I am pretty sure I don't have any large cysts or anything.

I had a large ruptured ovarian cyst when I was a teenager that landed me in the ER.

It's all the little cysts. They pop and all of that you need to find a pcos specialist

 

[momma2b88]

Thanks for sharing your experience lulu. It's been difficult. Af just came for me so I have been extra sensitive and super grumpy today so were not getting along well. I just wish he could understand the pain I'm in. been a horrible day. Would reallylike him to come lay with me in bed! Oh well! Were taking this month off from clomid, going to start some birth control to get my cysts under control. So discouraging. The doctor said this would be very good. Give my ovarys a rest ans start fresh next month. So we shall see. How is everyone else doing??

 

[LuluSS]

No problem

I kind of like the approach of giving your ovaries a "break". I hope they are well rested when you get off of BCP so you can get your BFP!

 

[sianii]

Hi ladies, my name is Sian, I'm 23 and I would love to join ur group, I have pcos, I have been with my fiance for 7 years, we have 2 other children and them pregnancies were fine, and I didn't even no I have pco, my other kids are 7 and 5 now so i was younger when I had them so the pco may not have been active or what ever they do lol, we have been ttc for about 2 1/2 years and have had 1 mc a year ago, Iv been refered to the fertility clinic and they put me on metformin, iv been on this for 3 weeks now, I still haven't got af or ov Does anyone no how long it takes to work or how long it will take for them to put me on something else like prova or clomid? I have another app next month, Would appreshiate your help, thank you xx

 

[momma2b88]

Ugh does anyone ever feel like punching a girl in their face who comes up to you fully knowing we are trying so hard to have a baby and goes guess what I'm pregnant! This girl mind you already has one daughter, can barely afford to survive, no stable living! I am so upset. So hurt. Why can't it be my time? Our time??? We all deserve this so much. I'm feeling so discouraged. :'-( the dh is being amazing tho. He knows how bad everything is effecting me and being ao supportive.

 

[LuluSS]

Aww, I am so sorry. I haven't had anyone close do that yet (mostly because they all already have kids and are done). But I have old friends on facebook (which I now hate facebook) who keep getting pregnant! This one girl has 2 kids already. She JUST had a baby last October and she found out last month she is pregnant again! UGH!!!

I would want to punch them all in the face and then some....must be our high testosterone levels . That is what Dh says anyways....lol

 

[futrbabymaker]

I feel so bad for being MIA so much but I am avoiding this website like the plague. I am having such a hard time. I am planning a baby shower by myself for my stupid brother and his dumb girlfriend who are in no way ready to have a baby. They are being so ignorant about it. She even went as far as to tell me, "If your brother ever knocks me up again I am giving you the baby because there is no way in hell that I am going to raise another baby." How insensitive can you be!!! Ugh. I am just feeling so upset. Grady's mother is trying to take him again even though she cannot support him, 12 people in my family have recently announced pregnancies and pretty much rubbed it in my face asking me when I am going to finally decide to have a baby of my own. So, I deactivated facebook and I avoid the internet. I just can't handle it. I'm sorry. I hope that things start to get better for you all. If any of you need someone to talk to feel free to email me because I check my email everyday. [email protected]

 

[futrbabymaker]

Lulu!!! Congrats on the bump SO happy for you

 

[LuluSS]

Thanks! How have you been? I see that you might be adopting? That is awesome! I hope you are still going to TTC though. Never give up having your own bump.

 

[momma2b88]

Hey ladies! It's been forever (again!) I'm on my 2ww! We tried letrozole (femera) 2 months ago. It was the right drug wrong dose, then we tried a higher dose this month and found 3 amazing folicles! Two were 25 mm and one was 22! My lining was great so we did the trigger shot! I could really use some positive vibes and prayers right now. I have a very good feeling about this one! Hoping for my ! How are all of you doing??

 

[Rin731]

I'm still here.

Drinking some fertility teas, and taking a multivitamin, and red clover.

On the up-side, the Female Toner Tea gave me a period overnight! I'm out of that, but drinking red raspberry tea til I can get more Toner.

Taking it easy, not temping.

 

[futrbabymaker]

How are you beautiful ladies? Any good news? Bad news? Anything? I did a round of clomid this month after inducing af with provera and I took a trigger (ovidrel) on CD 13. Today (cd 24) I started cramping. It feels like af is showing up early but I also wonder if it could be implantation cramping. So, I am praying this is my month but I am not holding my breath. Baby dust ladies