Alright Ladies get ready for the longest post ever!!!
Jackilyn
I'm so sorry grady might get taken back but I honestly don't see if his dad is cooperating and you guys are obviously taking such great care of him how mom has a chance in the world. That's something I fear walking into foster care how will I handle the feeling knowing a child might be taken back away from me to go be reunited with a family that may have done horrible things. So as for now I can only empathize but i bet it just feels like your heart is being torn and two and ripped out and that's never a good feeling. How long has Grady been with you two? You are an amazing person for taking on your nephew and loving him to be your own. and I'm so sorry you guys don't have a ton of money I really wish I could win the lotto and give us all money for the treatments. but DH and I are in the same position. Do you qualify for state insurance by any chance?
NiiNii
Dont feel alone. I hope your doing well fighting your eating disorder from coming back. Like I said before I know how it is. I struggle to stay on course alot of the times and after my doctors appointment i've been struggling alot worse and i've been paying for it. But we are strong beautiful women. and I may of gained some weight but i'll tell you I have never felt healthier eating like i do now. I keep pictures of myself around from my bul days and I see how pale and sickly i looked and now i'm glowing and have color and feel like i have the energy to just enjoy life. So keep your head up girl we're all behind you no matter what!
Dodger
I'm so sorry that's all I can say, I've had 4 and it is the most difficult thing i've ever had to face. and I wish there was more that I could say, but I remember the best thing I ever heared was I'm sorry, Remember you are going to be an amazing mother one day and until than we will take one step at a time together! This is not a mountain you have to climb alone with our support we will make it a mole hill that we will skip over arm in arm.
Mrs. B
I really hope you have a great doctor who will help you. Great doctors are the key to alot of this. Keep us updated on when and how your appointment goes!
Wanting2010
How did the iui feel? I've always wondered. I really hope it worked for you guys. is this your first time trying iui?
Alright as for the obgyn appointment. I'm sticking on my head phones blaring the music and maybe I can stay slightly calmer than I was when this all went down.
Alright so I get into the room the nurse was super nice and this doctor came highly recommended from a co-worker so i was very hopeful. So i tried to keep a positive mind through out all of this...
Alright so we walks into the room Greg hasn't arrived yet. so it's just me in the room and he says in this super snarky voice, so your here because you wanna have a baby. I said nope i'm here for shits and giggles. He said well let me look at your chart. Ok so how long have you guys been trying. I said 10 months, he said so i see you have a pcos and endometriosis diagnoses, i said yeap. he said so how are your periods I said they are normally pretty regular. Normally 30 days. he said ok have you tried anything to help. I said we've used opks he interupts me and said well with those what are you getting i said 2 out of the 5 months i got positives. He said ok
He than looks at me and says so what's with the dog ( I have a seizure alert service dog for my epilepsy) And I explained he was my seizure alert dog. He looks at me and says well if your epilepsy is that bad how come your not on any anti-epileptic meds.. (i guess he didn't read my chart) I said i am he said you mean the neruontin I said yeap. I've had reactions to everything else so that is the only that works. He said well is that a class b or c And i said i think it's a class d but i might be wrong he's like it's a class c.
( CATEGORY C There are either no adequate studies, either animal or human, or there are adverse fetal effects in animal studies but no available human data. Many medications pregnant women use fall into this category.)
Neurontin has been linked with cleft palates and heart defects but it's been proven that extra folic acid severely reduces these risks.
So he gets snarky again (this is where all doctors get snarky) Have you talked to your neruologist if it's safe for you to be trying to get pregnant. Yeap I talked to him a year ago and again 3 months ago. and we are still good to go.
He looks at greg and says well it's probably you anyway. I thought what the h*11 he is not the one who has the diagnoses of pcos and endo and your going to make him feel like shit and tell him it's his fault????
he than looks back at me and said you know for most woman all it takes is losing 5 or 10 lbs to conceive. I said i've been trying and I've lost alot of fat, but after they put me on a certain anti epileptic med i've never been skinny again it messed me up. (this is very normal of this certain medication) And He said well just walking your little puppy isn't being active.. Oh this is where my screw it all started to kick in. He said you need to get your heart rate above 130 for at least 30 minutes ( this is where i started to think you try and take a 200 lbs working dog for just a little walk, I can't wait to see bravo pull him across the street cause he didn't realize he needed to run. Or i'm sorry please work a day at my job running items around for customers back and forth in retail.
So I told him well I'm very active, and I only eat steamed lean meats and fruits and veggies and since finding out that a glueton free can help pcos have been severly limiting my glueton carbs. I said i came to the conclusion in high school that i was never going to be "normal" in my body type and I was gonna have to work twice as hard to build up enough muscle to keep doing everything I love.
He was kinda speechless at this time and told me I would need to come back on the third day of my period to have my FSH and LH tested to be re diagnosed with pcos again... I'm like seriously... So if i want to go with him that's what i'm gonna have to do.. Needless to say i'm on my way to trying to find another new obgyn. I saw one when I had to go into urgent care a few months ago. and she said she would be willing to see me but she wasn't in the office until this tuesday so i didn't wanna wait but it looks like that's what's gonna happen.
And saturday i woke up from a nightmare where i had triple chins and couldn't even stand on my own i was so obese. I was freaking out!