First time IVF - Started Lupron last Thurs - Would Love some Buddies

[beaglemom]

Did this work?

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cut and paste the code into my siggy, que pasa?

Looks like you have it figured out.

 

[booger76]

Hi ladies!

Just popping in to say "Hi". I've been in a rather foul mood so I haven't felt like posting and bringing everyone down. I'll come back when I feel better.

Congrats again to Erin! Beagle, I hope you get a good report later today or tomorrow.

 

[Amy1976]

The baby stopped progressing. I should be 7 weeks and 5 days today and it is still only measuring 6 weeks and 1 day. They think the progesterone is stopping the natural miscarriage process and when I stop taking it, I will start bleeding. They would prefer for me to have a D & C done this weekend. It's still my choice but I'm just so confused and sad.

 

[beaglemom]

The baby stopped progressing. I should be 7 weeks and 5 days today and it is still only measuring 6 weeks and 1 day. They think the progesterone is stopping the natural miscarriage process and when I stop taking it, I will start bleeding. They would prefer for me to have a D & C done this weekend. It's still my choice but I'm just so confused and sad.

Amy - I am SO SORRY this is happening to you. I really don't know what else to say.

 

[ERosePW]

Oh Amy.... Oh, My heart is broken for you, I'm so sorry, Hun. There are really no words that anyone can say to make this better right now. I hate this so much. I don't know why this journey has to be so difficult and painful. I'll be thinking about you, Hun. We're hear for you any time.

 

[Babywhisperer]

The baby stopped progressing. I should be 7 weeks and 5 days today and it is still only measuring 6 weeks and 1 day. They think the progesterone is stopping the natural miscarriage process and when I stop taking it, I will start bleeding. They would prefer for me to have a D & C done this weekend. It's still my choice but I'm just so confused and sad.

Amy I am so sorry to hear this and cannot imagine how you feel. To be on the safe side I would ask for another scan in a few days to see if that is truly the case. I have heard of crazier things happening. But only you can decide what to do and what will make this less difficult if that is at all possible. I am sending you a big hug and a shoulder to lean on.

 

[knitgirl]

The baby stopped progressing. I should be 7 weeks and 5 days today and it is still only measuring 6 weeks and 1 day. They think the progesterone is stopping the natural miscarriage process and when I stop taking it, I will start bleeding. They would prefer for me to have a D & C done this weekend. It's still my choice but I'm just so confused and sad.

Oh Amy, I am so very sorry. That is devastating news. That happened to me when I was pregnant - I miscarried at 11 weeks, but they think the baby stopped developing at 8 weeks. We were in shock, devastated, heartbroken. I was able to have mine at home and did not need the D and C. If you want to talk about it off this thread, or on, I am happy to share more of my story with you. It was really helpful for me to hear other women's experiences. I also wasn't really sure what to expect, as my doc did not really give me much info. I was relieved I didn't need to have the D and C and it was able to happen naturally.

I'll be thinking of you.

 

[LadySosa]

Oh, Amy. (virtual hug to you). I'm so, so sorry.

 

[ERosePW]

Today's beta is 284, so it tripled in 48 hours, which takes a load off.

(this feels like a really crappy time to be posting that )

 

[booger76]

Amy - I'm so sorry to read your post. My thoughts are with you and your DH.

 

[beaglemom]

Today's beta is 284, so it tripled in 48 hours, which takes a load off.

(this feels like a really crappy time to be posting that )

That's great, Erin.

We have to be able to celebrate our wins...even while sympathizing with people who are going through a rough time. That's why we are all here...to be there for each other through the whole process.

 

[booger76]

Erin - Beagle said it perfectly. I'm glad your beta number is progressing so well.

 

[jkb11]

Amy, I'm so sorry. My heart is breaking for you. We are here to listen. Love and prayers you.

 

[jkb11]

Erin- congrats on your results! Days like today remind me of what a roller coaster ride fertility can be. But, remind me not to lose hope! Erin, I'm Glad to see your victory in this step!

 

[kfs1]

Amy - I'm so, so sorry for you. I hate this process and hate that you're having to go through this right now. Take some time to think things through. Much love and hugs.

 

[kfs1]

Congratulations Erin. I'm over the moon for you.

 

[terripeachy]

Amy-I too am really sorry you have to go through this but I do agree with whoever said to get another scan and see what it says. Maybe baby is just growing a little slower. It can't be the first time for someone to have this happen and I still think one week difference isn't that bad. it's the best I can do from here.
Sorry to be so all about me today when I really have no major issues going on. My apologies to all.

ERose- good news on your beta today. Enjoy every second.

 

[eabwhab]

The baby stopped progressing. I should be 7 weeks and 5 days today and it is still only measuring 6 weeks and 1 day. They think the progesterone is stopping the natural miscarriage process and when I stop taking it, I will start bleeding. They would prefer for me to have a D & C done this weekend. It's still my choice but I'm just so confused and sad.

I am so sorry. I had exactly the same news today. I am supposed to be 7w2d but I was measuring one week behind and of course no hb. It is devastating....

 

[moni77]

So sorry Amy and Eab. That is really devastating.

Erin - great numbers - if we knew you hadn't only had one in there we would be talking multiples!!

Yes, my scan was rescheduled for tomorrow morning.

 

[beaglemom]

Erin - is there a chance the egg could split? Or is that almost impossible after a freeze?

Terri - there is no need to apologize for needing to vent. Everything you are feeling is important...no matter how small the issue. Sometimes we just have that little pesky negativity bug & we need help getting rid of it.

eabwhab - I am so sorry you are going through the same thing.