Betheney- I lost the quote I'm referring to but I'm sure you'll know what I mean.
Your loss of a twin you didn't know about is no less tragic than one someone had time to adjust to. Don't feel bad about grieving or sadness over the little one you've lost. I think anyone here would agree a loss is a loss regardless of how long you knew the little bean. Your tragedy is yours and cannot be compared to others. I know there are some ladies who lost one or both babies further along and I truly don't think they would ever say or even think that you have less to grieve about. I'm so happy you have as beautiful baby in there that is growing healthy and strong. But don't let anyone else (or fear of others feelings) dictate how you personally deal wih the loss.
Lovely scans ladies.
Mines tomorrow! But I've had really sharp pains today, not like I remember round ligament pains. But really when is there not SOMETHING to worry about?