@Pineberry I think that’s a good way to look at it. We started trying in June and I just assumed I would get pregnant immediately. I’m 30 and dh is 32 and we’re both healthy and work out regularly, but this is our 3rd month. I’m glad you’re feeling hopeful!!
Haha, I feel you. I totally thought I would become pregnant right away, too. But here we are, on to cycle 3. As you, we both live a very healthy lifestyle too, with a good diet & lots of exercise. And I was pregnant many years ago (ended in mc at 6 weeks, and me & the guy split up soon after that so that was the end of that story). So I know I can conceive. Just hope my guy’s spermies are all good. That’s really the only thing I’m concerned about.
Well, af showed up today so I guess we are on to cycle 4.
@Pineberry and
@jellybeanxx, I’d love to join in with you guys as I’m just one day behind. What cd do you usually ovulate?
Sorry AF came! Sucks when there is no sign of her and you get all excited and then booom.
But now you get to join us cool ladies in the October thread
I usually O between day 11 and 13! (thought it was 10-11 before but was wrong). I’m on the shorter side of cycles, 25-26 days, with the random 28 day here and there.
Alsoooo... I’ve come to the conclusion that I wanna take a more relaxed approach to all this. I want to get away from the "NOW NOW NOW, I need a baby right NOW" mindset and try to look at it from the angle of yeah it sucks I didn’t get preggy this month, but now I get to focus a little longer on my fitness and strengthening my back & pelvis (I love the gym, plan on continuing it even when Im preggo), saving up money and such. After all, I’m only 27 (28 in 2 months though). So still got a looot of child-bearing years left. And if I’m not preggy by end of this year, we’ll just do a simple, quick check on his sperm to see if all is OK there.