Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[WunnaBubba2]

Congrats on the weight loss TTC74
I was doing tons of reading online about progestrone because my periods got lighter and shorter as well. I never got tested because I found myself a BFP first. Just wanted to say that it doesn't normally mean you have a problem.

Glad you are getting tested just in case. Fx for you

 

[aidensmommy1]

FX and tons of
Are you in the heavy snow hit areas at the moment?

yes and it sucks! There's soooo much snow out there!!!!

 

[mdscpa]

Hoping to see another rise tomorrow Mary. I got so excited of today's temp that i dont want to jinx it....

FX for a

 

[WunnaBubba2]

Keep safe and warm Snshine and Mary (and anyone else).
Xxx

 

[Jrepp]

You guys keep safe.

Mary did you have your bloods drawn?

Quick update on me: fainted Sunday night and called the doctors office yesterday and they told me I neededto come in for an evaluation. I went to Ob intake and they started an iv. 3/4 of the way through the first bag I started vomiting and 1/2 way through the scond bag I almost fainted walking to the bathroom. I'm talking extreme dizziness and falling to the ground but not losing conciousness. They gave me Phenergan via iv to stop the vomiting and let me take a nap before sending me home.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Jess, feel better! You are really having the roughest pregnancy. I'm so sorry your going through all of this. Your doing a great job making sure you and your LO are healthy though. I had a feeling you'd be in there for IV fluids when u described how sick you felt from the start. Thank goodness for those fluids! I'm still praying this m/s wears off for you, & SOON!

And no, I sadly didn't make it for my bloods due to the insane blizzard here. The governor ordered everyone off the roads and such. Looking out my window today, I still can't see anything but white, everywhere! Soo, I guess I have to wait ONE more cycle for my HSG. Maybe there's a reason all these barriers keep getting in the way of my 7dpo bloods. By the time my HSG will be done, it should be ALMOST exactly 1yr since the first one so FX super tight that thats more than long enough for the enzymes to work! I'm still going to TRY and get my HSG done this coming cycle but I'm pretty sure she'll say "well, I want to see how your bloods come back first." She makes me mad. Clearly I DO have tubal issues so I dont see why she wont just let me deal with that part first! I keep waiting for her to recommend me to a specialist but I really really have been thinking about just calling around and finding a RE on my own. I feel they will know MUCH, MUCH more then my OB will ever allow herself to know. She doesn't open herself to anything new...she's 100% textbook and that drives me INSANE! I am 100% sure that everything will work out very soon, I truly feel so. In Dec I said I was feeling good that a BFP would be coming within the next few months, lets see if that feelings correct

 

[Jrepp]

Can you demand the hsg?

 

[aidensmommy1]

Can you demand the hsg?

I have and I can't seem to get what I want! Lol. She calls me back with her own little plan and makes me fall for it everytime. I'm so sick of it and plus now she isn't going to help me by saying I NEED the HSG so that my insurance will cover it for sure and so thats another reason she's being a jerk about it. I told her I WILL PAY IF NEEDED! But idk, dh and I were talking and we think we may have someone else do our repeat, someone more qualified when it comes to infertility. Hopefully it'll work out soon. I KNOW it'll be done by March, without a single doubt. By that point, IF I do have the same doctor do the HSG, I'll walk in there with the every bit of the money right then and there ($1000!) and that should get her to hear me demanding for it, finally! I always thought doctors were suppose to do what WE want, since we are the paying "customers" but this doctor is making me feel EVEN LESS in control of my fertility and I dont like it. I feel as though I should at least be able to have the say in when and what procedures I get done, u know? She could at least let me feel somewhat in control when it comes to treatment options but so far everything I say, she wants different. It truly feels like she just wants me to do IVF and thats that. Yeah if I had the funds for it this month, id love to do IVF but i don't have the funding right now and she knows that. Ugh. Too bad I don't have you here, with the pregnancy hormones raging through your body, you'd probably get this damn woman to listen!! Lol

 

[pitbullmomma]

I said I wouldn't come on here this time, not because you girl's aren't wonderful you truly are! Just that I didn't want to symptom spot this time around. We were all gun-ho for temping, but then the thermometer broke and I just felt aggravated and not in it. Work has been a stressor both on me and daddies, but we managed to try once in the beginning of January. Now I'm 10 days late, I am convinced I'm pregnant, but I just took a test and nothing. Nada. Negative.

I'm mad.

Can it still be negative midday at 5 weeks? Maybe I'm nuts and I'm not preggers, but I'm for sure convinced. I did drink a big drink before testing (I know I shouldn't, but I'm thirsty). It was a Clearblue test, not digital just normal blue dye which I hate but was all the store had. Any encouraging stories?

Here are my symptoms to date:

Stretchy, abundant, sometimes clear sometimes opaque, CM
High CP
Exhausted
Craving bland food (I have a huge sweet tooth, and don't want any sweets)
Pressure, dull cramping, flutters
Waking up at 4:30 every morning to pee
Weird dreams
Thirsty, thirsty, thirsty
Bloated

NO sore bbs, but occasionally they itch and burn.

I feel defeated, ugh.

Baby dust all around!
I've miss you ladies

xoxo,
Jill

 

[melewen]

Pitbullmomma not gonna lie, those were definitely my early symptoms! My heart beat so hard at night too when I was trying to sleep.. and my back was super itchy and I had a stuffy nose. But those things could happen for any reason so of course we don't want to symptom spot too much. Hrmm... I have definitely heard of people not getting a BFP until weeks later but I think that is rare. How long is your longest cycle over the last year?

 

[melewen]

Oh and have you seen the movie Two: The Story of Roman and Nyro? Or that's generally what the title is. I saw it on Netflix a couple days ago and loved it! It's about a gay couple using a surrogate to have their twin sons. I def cried.. pregnancy hormones omg

 

[pitbullmomma]

Mel - My longest cycle in the past year (besides with my two M/Cs) has been 45 days. My average is 42. Maybe my urine was too diluted? I just feel like I'm pregnant! Ugh. So frustrating.

And no, I haven't seen that movie! I totally should though We used to watch The New Normal before it was cancelled

 

[melewen]

Hmmmm call your doc and see what they say. They gave me a day to come in for tests if you haven't gotten AF by then. And yes you'll love the movie!!

 

[aidensmommy1]

I hope you get an answer soon pitbullmomma!!! Your symptoms sound great! Hopefully you happened to O late, still catch the egg, and its just too soon to show FX!!!


AFM, I am watching "Little Women: LA" and one of the women just had a chemical pregnancy and the way she talked about her feelings had me balling like crazy!! As most women who have m/c's of any sort, we all feel an abundant amount of pain and although its been 18 months since I had mine, listening to her talk about it made soo many emotions come over me. I haven't been so emotional about it in awhile. DH even started tearing up as she was talking to a friend of hers about it. Poor woman. I see shows/movies like this almost every day but for some reason this particular episode really got me. Maybe because she's been trying so hard as well and her best friend fell pregnant as she had her chemical...i can relate to that 100% so maybe that's what really got me. Anyway, ive been emotional all day. The bubbly feeling has subsided for now. Ill know within the next day or two if I'm likely out. I get very snappy the 2-3 days leading up to AF and I get this weird pins and needles feeling in my shoulders. Its weird, but I'm not feeling them yet and hopefully won't! I'm actually still feeling a little hopeful and normally I start to feel out by 9-10dpo. I'm crossing my fingers sooo tight that my temp stays up tomorrow and beyond. Also, I'm going to test with wondfo tomorrow and then on 12dpo if my temp is still up, ill test with frer again. FX FX FX!!! So there's my goodnight recap of the day

ooh I missed a big part of my day! We have an apt waiting for us for 32 days from now!!!! yay! We are very, very excited to be back on our own and our future landlord is a very nice guy and his wife is awesome too. They're actually family friends and are giving us a great deal. Everything is slowly starting to fall in place and I just have that feeling a BFP is soon to follow, when the extra stress lets up. Soo exciting!!! My prayers are definitely being answered, one by one.

 

[LeasMommy12]

Hi ladies i am new here! im on my 3rd week of waiting, and testing bfn. last test was monday .. fx for all of us in the wait!

 

[cutieq]

Ooooh Mary things are lining up. That BFP is coming!!

 

[mommysylvia]

Hey ladies I'm back.... Lol
Well as some of you know the witch or what I suppose was AF got me 4 days ago. Well it was very painful the first two days then yesterday it was normal then it stopped by night time. Now I didn't bleed all day today but I had the worst dull backache ever! Now at 1030pm I started bleeding again but its thick creamy cm with super dark maroon almost black colored blood. Has anyone experienced this? Its quite weird for me. I usually just bleed for 3 days only bright to slightly darker red but its soooo dark

 

[WunnaBubba2]

Jill
I agree that you should try and give your doc a call and see if they are willing to do bloods for you. I know you've had positive HPT before but every pregnancy can be different so you might not get one now? FX for you guys

Mary
I am so over the moon happy about your apartment!!!! New car, new apartment and that is just the beginning. I'm sure your BFP is really going to be just around the corner!!!!

LeasMommy12
Welcome hun, I hope you don't have to wait much longer for your BFP!

Mommysylvia
Your cycle truly sounds very very weird to me. I have never had af like that before! Is there another dr you could maybe see other than the place where you got crappy service and no help??

 

[mommysylvia]

Not until my insurance goes through. I might be visiting the city where I live soon hopefully this weekend so I have a better chance at those hospitals....my husband doesn't understand he thinks I'm always over exaggerating because the docs always say everything is fine. Well this time I SERIOUSLY think something is different about my body. I know periods vary from month to month but this is really off. All the pain, super dark blood, yesterday I was having heart palpitations, dizzy spells, and nausea at the same time!! I had to lay down and try to breathe through it for 20 minutes. Idk....its pretty crazy

 

[WunnaBubba2]

See men can sometimes become so detached during ttc because they don't have the physical stuff happening to them except getting their groove on.
I don't mean to sound mean or offend anyone with this.
So he doesn't get his period every month and doesn't know your body the way you do.
Please take care of yourself though! If you don't feel well before you get to another hospital please see a Dr if you can. Did the hospital ever tell you about the bloods to see if you were pregnant? I think you said they did take bloods?