Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[aidensmommy1]

FX for you Mary!! Im really hoping you're BFP is on its way!

Thank you so much hun! FX its IB, as its very abnormal for me to spot before AF, esp days before! FX soo tight! I had pretty intense cramping at 1 point but now I'm barely cramping at all again and still just scanty spotting. If it was IB, I'm sure id see a BFP by 13dpo so only 2 days left and I think we'll have a for sure answer FX!

I hope you see your BFP asap as well. You were right when telling DH that it can def take time. Many women TTC for 12 months or so before they learn their true O day and as soon as they learn, its only months before they see their BFPS (if they have no fertility issues that is). My point is, for many couples, it takes 6+ months alone before they learn their O day and get the BD timing right, u know? Thats why charting beforehand is always recommended. I feel NOBODY should have to wait longer than 1 cycle of TTC when you want something so badly... Even one cycle can be torture enough! Lol. I bet we'll all be seeing BFPs in no time. This thread def has a ton of sticky dust going around right now! FX!!!

 

[Wishing1010]

 

[aidensmommy1]

And although my temp dropped today, I'm waiting to see what it does tomorrow because my temps are still pretty stable compared to all the months, other than the long LP when I had a cyst but I KNOW I didn't have a cyst this cycle, as I was checked out for cysts via u/s. I'm so confused and extremely impatient right now! The stuff first thing this a.m was literally colored like very light pink lemonade and wasn't much at all and ever since ive only had a tiny bit of light pink or brown spots, less than the initial pink stuff when I wiped. If I didn't have the cramps, I wouldn't be so excited but the fact that I had def AF-type cramping and then the cramps subsided makes me wonder if it was more this time around...come on bfp!!! Hopefully we'll see my temp rise, even just a bit tomorrow and ill be hopeful still. Fc!

 

[Wishing1010]

Come on temp rise!!!!

 

[mommysylvia]

FX for you Mary!! Im really hoping you're BFP is on its way!

Thank you so much hun! FX its IB, as its very abnormal for me to spot before AF, esp days before! FX soo tight! I had pretty intense cramping at 1 point but now I'm barely cramping at all again and still just scanty spotting. If it was IB, I'm sure id see a BFP by 13dpo so only 2 days left and I think we'll have a for sure answer FX!

I hope you see your BFP asap as well. You were right when telling DH that it can def take time. Many women TTC for 12 months or so before they learn their true O day and as soon as they learn, its only months before they see their BFPS (if they have no fertility issues that is). My point is, for many couples, it takes 6+ months alone before they learn their O day and get the BD timing right, u know? Thats why charting beforehand is always recommended. I feel NOBODY should have to wait longer than 1 cycle of TTC when you want something so badly... Even one cycle can be torture enough! Lol. I bet we'll all be seeing BFPs in no time. This thread def has a ton of sticky dust going around right now! FX!!!

Yes that's what was really off about my cycle. I never ever spot before AF and I spotted 2 days before it came lol.

Were able to BD every other day its just getting the baby to stick is what's hard for me. He just doesn't like me in so much pain where I cry every month from the horrible stomach and back cramps. I never even have AF cramps when were not TTC so I know it has something to do with chemicals

 

[Michellebelle]

Yay for charting and getting a referral. I obviously hope you can get your BFP before then but if you get to a specialist it might just come sooner

Thank you! Got some other great news today. My test results all came back negative for any sort of cancerous cells, so we can continue to keep trying for a baby! Am so excited, I've been stressing about this for so long!

 

[Michellebelle]

And although my temp dropped today, I'm waiting to see what it does tomorrow because my temps are still pretty stable compared to all the months, other than the long LP when I had a cyst but I KNOW I didn't have a cyst this cycle, as I was checked out for cysts via u/s. I'm so confused and extremely impatient right now! The stuff first thing this a.m was literally colored like very light pink lemonade and wasn't much at all and ever since ive only had a tiny bit of light pink or brown spots, less than the initial pink stuff when I wiped. If I didn't have the cramps, I wouldn't be so excited but the fact that I had def AF-type cramping and then the cramps subsided makes me wonder if it was more this time around...come on bfp!!! Hopefully we'll see my temp rise, even just a bit tomorrow and ill be hopeful still. Fc!

I can't wait to see your temp tomorrow morning!

 

[melewen]

Michelle that's great!

Mary can't wait to see your temp tomorrow!

 

[WunnaBubba2]

That is wonderful news Michelle
I'm so happy that you are healthy and that you can continue to ttc. Having extra worries taken off of you helps a lot. Even if you think you are calm your body might still be tense and now you can enjoy and relax completely with no worries about your health.
Your BFP will be here in no time at all!!!

Mary, I hope your temp rises!!! It just has to. It has gone poorly with you for far to long and now that everything is starting to look up more good things are to come!!

HERE IS A TON OF DUST FOR ALL OF YOU! Share nicely

 

[aidensmommy1]

FX for you Mary!! Im really hoping you're BFP is on its way!

Thank you so much hun! FX its IB, as its very abnormal for me to spot before AF, esp days before! FX soo tight! I had pretty intense cramping at 1 point but now I'm barely cramping at all again and still just scanty spotting. If it was IB, I'm sure id see a BFP by 13dpo so only 2 days left and I think we'll have a for sure answer FX!

I hope you see your BFP asap as well. You were right when telling DH that it can def take time. Many women TTC for 12 months or so before they learn their true O day and as soon as they learn, its only months before they see their BFPS (if they have no fertility issues that is). My point is, for many couples, it takes 6+ months alone before they learn their O day and get the BD timing right, u know? Thats why charting beforehand is always recommended. I feel NOBODY should have to wait longer than 1 cycle of TTC when you want something so badly... Even one cycle can be torture enough! Lol. I bet we'll all be seeing BFPs in no time. This thread def has a ton of sticky dust going around right now! FX!!!

Yes that's what was really off about my cycle. I never ever spot before AF and I spotted 2 days before it came lol.

Were able to BD every other day its just getting the baby to stick is what's hard for me. He just doesn't like me in so much pain where I cry every month from the horrible stomach and back cramps. I never even have AF cramps when were not TTC so I know it has something to do with chemicals

USUALLY when ur temping, and have regular periods, the early AF crap doesn't happen BUT I think it did happen to me, again! As u said, I'm honestly wondering if ive maybe had another couple of chemicals due to my tube. My doctor said a chemical can happen just from the egg not making it through the tube so I'm wondering about that. Idk what else could randomly throw my cycles off so randomly! Ive always been regular since charting and then BAM, every couple of cycles something been messing up lately! Grr! I hope both of us figure out what the heck is going on with our wacky bodies right now! Darn hormones!!
If u cant tell, I have a bad feeling AF is going to come today due to the burning feeling I have in my belly (which I always get before AF) and although I wasn't able to temp right because I woke 2hrs early and my temp was only 97.45 so I have no clue what it would have been but I have a bad feeling that it was too low, regardless of the time. . We'll see how today plays out but I'm def not hopeful for this cycle anymore. We'll see how the next one goes!

I'm actually happy I didn't go for my 7dpo bloods this cycle now. They would have probably been off, seeing as my temps weren't very high and then I had a short LP. Hopefully next month goes better. I am still thinking this is all a good sign for me for the near future. I keep getting the feeling that the enzymes have opened ny tube and now my bodies trying to adjust to a working tube...u never know! FX my HSG gives us the answer to that ASAP. I'm going to be super demanding again, as jess suggested.

Hopefully this next cycle is the one for us both!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Thank you all for your support. I'm sorry to say but I think AF will be letting down alot of people when she pays me a visit today.... . Oh well, on to the next cycle. #23, geez, I never thought id be saying "cycle #23" while TTC. The HSG isn't long away though. I told dh even if there's a blizzard and offices are shut down for 7&8dpo, ill go for bloods 9dpo! Lol. Whatever gets my doc to do my HSG, I'll do if needed! I cant wait for the wondering about whether im infertile or not to go away. I need to know what my tubes doing!!!

 

[WunnaBubba2]

Ah I'm sorry Mary!
But you know me, I'm forever optimistic and will remain as such until you let us know af has arrived - which I hope she doesn't!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Thank u Pamela .

 

[Wishing1010]

No AF allowed, Mary!!!!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Well, I believe AF has showed . And I realized I'm NOT early! Lol. Remember I originally could have SWORN I oed on cd13 this cycle? Well it looks like I did. After I un-discarded the CD14 temp, my o day was switched and today is the day AF is due anyways lol. I wish I would have thought about all of this yest before I got excited lol.

So mommysylvia, I didn't spot early, it was just normal AF and my "fallback rise" (dip at 2dpo) had me and the charting app super confused. So in my case, I didn't spot 3 days before AF, thankfully, because as I said earlier, while temping, and with somewhat regular cycles, it's not normal at all to get AF early JUST because when temping, you pretty much know ur exact O day and LP. I wanted to share that I realized I oed 2 days earlier than thought and thats what messed with me this cycle so I know it wasn't a chemical. But my AF cramps have lessened so far...usually I have horrid cramps CD1 and I actually have hardly any today That has to be good, in some ways, for the new cycle(s).
For you before temping, if your cycles have diff lengths, for example it could be 24 days one cycle, 26 another, and 28 another, your oing dif days each of those cycles. Our LP length doesn't change so before temping and while having your cycle length change, it can be extremely confusing as to what's going on. I used to go NUTS before temping but it took me 6 cycles or so before I started temping myself. I wanted to see if it would just happen first, u know? But now that I've been there and said that, I highly recommend to start asap. I know you said ur going to and I'm not trying to pressure you. Just sharing all the info I can with you, still. I could probably write you a book /day! Lol. But hey, it'll save u from a ton of googling!!!

Good luck hun!!! I truly hope this next cycle is it for both of us!!!

 

[Michellebelle]

Awww, I'm sorry to hear that, Mary. I'm going to think really positively for you this cycle. Hopefully the HCG does the trick!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Awww, I'm sorry to hear that, Mary. I'm going to think really positively for you this cycle. Hopefully the HCG does the trick!

Thank you veryy much! And ill be thinking positive for you as well! Positivity is key! lol. I hope we all get our BFP's this cycle...i reallyyyyy do!!!! No again!!!!...Well for 9 months that is...

 

[aidensmommy1]

I am sooo very relieved to see that my cycle WASN'T messed up after all! I really was getting nervous about a LP defect but I now know that's not an issue, which is why I haven't been too anxious to get my bloods but my doc is insisting on it, ugh! I said earlier that I was happy I didn't go get it done due to this wacky cycle....now im even more happy cuz I would have gone on dpo 10/11 rather than 7/8 so I bet the results wouldn't have been quite as accurate as they will be this cycle. I'm going to OPK this cycle, as well as temp so I can double confirm O for my b/w. I only had 2 opks left this last cycle so I didn't test 8-10 days in a row, like I normally would have.

Anyway, I'm excited to see what the new cycle brings...FX FX FX!

 

[mdscpa]

Im very sorry got you Mary. I hope you get HSG done asap. Knowing if its still blocked or not would help you do your next move... FX

 

[TTC74]

Sorry Mary.

AFM - I am having my progesterone checked on Feb 15, and I have a consult scheduled with the fertility doctor on Feb 19. Based on my current weight loss pattern, I should get the okay on the 19th to get started on Femara on my next cycle (which should start within a few days of the 19th).

Fx!