Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[aidensmommy1]

Chart still looks stellar. Still testing BFN.

It looks like ur chart turned somewhat triphasic 4 days ago and many say they got BFPs on the 5th day of a triphasic pattern so maybe that's the case for u...? I hope so!

Also, it looks like ur temp usually drops for AF by 13dpo at the latest so lets hope it stays up tomorrow and that could def be a good sign! What type of test have you been using?

FRER with FMU.

You still have a shot . Maybe u implanted at 10dpo or so and its too soon. U know? I always keep Jess in mind with her 13dpo bfp. And u can look in the FF gallery under pregnancy charts and u can type in that the first test was negative on 12dpo and the first positive was 13dpo and u will find many charts where women got later BFPs. I stalk those gallerys like crazy! Lol

 

[mommysylvia]

Well its 6dpo and my chart doesn't have any BIG dips yet, which is very unusual. I have a feeling that less stress this cycle may have to do with my higher temps so far this TWW. Now lets see if it rises again tomorrow or dips more. Idk why I like looking at my dang chart so much! Lol. I heard temps may be all wacky my IVF cycle so I'm going to temp but not read too much into it.

Only 2 days left until we try a wondfo Sylvia! And ur chart looks GREAT at this point! FX it keeps up with this beautiful pattern!

I wish I had wondfos...I only have Walmart cheapie since I'm not able to order the ICs lol. Thank you, and don't worry I always love staring at my chart too!! As far the rectal pain its a different kind of pain than constipation. It radiated all the way to the bottom of my spine that's why I jumped... I never have a pains to go rr just during thats because Ive had hemorrhoids after my son. Hopefully it means something more! Also last night before I went to bed I had light brown almost beige cm just a spot...do I mark that as spotting on FF or just ignore it?

 

[Michellebelle]

I'm out. temp drop this morning, and then AF showed up.

I am excited to finally schedule a fertility appointment. I tried to schedule yesterday, but I just had to leave a voicemail. Hoping to get answers and a plan!

 

[mommysylvia]

I'm out. temp drop this morning, and then AF showed up.

I am excited to finally schedule a fertility appointment. I tried to schedule yesterday, but I just had to leave a voicemail. Hoping to get answers and a plan!

Aw I'm sorry Michelle, but its great that you're going to have a fertility appt! Fx for you BFP this cycle

 

[mdscpa]

Sorry the got you Michelle but i'm glad you're seeing a specialist.... FX for a next cyle.....

 

[Michellebelle]

Thank you! My DH is going to get a SA as well, so we should have a plan of action soon.. Whether that means me taking supplements or him giving up coffee.

 

[mdscpa]

Did he went for SA in the past already? Or is this the first time? DH never gave up his coffee i did when we started TTC'ing.... We both took supplements before and after my 2 failed clomid cycles... Maybe those helped us we don't really know for sure.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Well its 6dpo and my chart doesn't have any BIG dips yet, which is very unusual. I have a feeling that less stress this cycle may have to do with my higher temps so far this TWW. Now lets see if it rises again tomorrow or dips more. Idk why I like looking at my dang chart so much! Lol. I heard temps may be all wacky my IVF cycle so I'm going to temp but not read too much into it.

Only 2 days left until we try a wondfo Sylvia! And ur chart looks GREAT at this point! FX it keeps up with this beautiful pattern!

I wish I had wondfos...I only have Walmart cheapie since I'm not able to order the ICs lol. Thank you, and don't worry I always love staring at my chart too!! As far the rectal pain its a different kind of pain than constipation. It radiated all the way to the bottom of my spine that's why I jumped... I never have a pains to go rr just during thats because Ive had hemorrhoids after my son. Hopefully it means something more! Also last night before I went to bed I had light brown almost beige cm just a spot...do I mark that as spotting on FF or just ignore it?

Even if its just a spot, id mark it on FF for ur own notes It could possible mean something at 5dpo...fx!! And esp if it happened after that pain u had, maybe u had early implantation..? FX FX FX!

 

[Michellebelle]

Did he went for SA in the past already? Or is this the first time? DH never gave up his coffee i did when we started TTC'ing.... We both took supplements before and after my 2 failed clomid cycles... Maybe those helped us we don't really know for sure.

He hadn't. He needs to schedule that today! We were waiting to see what happened this cycle first before scheduling, since we don't think insurance will pay for it.

 

[aidensmommy1]

I'm sorry the mean witch got u Michelle . I'm really excited for ur appt tho! That could def be what you need to point u two in the right direction. I really hope u see ur BFP soon hun. You could also mention an HSG to the specialist, if they don't on their own, because 40% of unexplained female infertily issues are due to a slight blockage of the tube(s) and this blockage can and usually will be pushed through with the dye during the HSG. Plus for some reason, an HSG can up ur odds by 25% for 3 cycles after the procedure. This was something I recommended to Daphne as well and I truly believe it helped her. Do u feel it played a role for u Daphne?
Also, I wish u the best of luck for ur dhs SA! Mine goes for one on Thursday to make sure they won't need to do "ICIS" during IVF. I'm praying both of our hubbys have some of the best swimmers out there! Mine could def cut back on some coffee as well! I switched to one cup of Decaf a day about 7 months ago and I'm very proud of that since I always had a coffee glued to my hand before then, lol. Again, I'm so sorry the witch got you! I am excited for your update after seeing the fertility doc now though GL hun!

 

[mdscpa]

Ok, FX he got great .... When we seen a specialist, first she asked was for my DH to get his SA done before focusing on me... She then listed the things she needed for me, like CD3 bloods, HSG (glad i have Mary mentioned it before), follicular studies etc. When all came back normal she thought i may have WEAK OVULATION. And that's when we tried Clomid as per her advice. Unfortunately, it was unsuccessful even though i was responding good with clomid.....Then a month unmedicated still no After that cycle we tried to continue the supplements we got months ago before going back to her and that's when we got our surprise .

FX all you guys need are supplements....

 

[aidensmommy1]

Did he went for SA in the past already? Or is this the first time? DH never gave up his coffee i did when we started TTC'ing.... We both took supplements before and after my 2 failed clomid cycles... Maybe those helped us we don't really know for sure.

He hadn't. He needs to schedule that today! We were waiting to see what happened this cycle first before scheduling, since we don't think insurance will pay for it.

Dhs insurance wont pay either. I wish he could use mine since he's doing a procedure with me! Lol. If only... Around here they told me it'd be $100. Is that similar to where u live? Where are u from btw, if u dont mind me asking..?

 

[mdscpa]

DH's insurance didn't cover it here as well but we only paid SAR 50.00 or USD 13.33

Mary, your DH's SA is so expensive!!!!

 

[TTC74]

SA is over $200 in my area! And, of course, insurance won't cover it.

 

[WunnaBubba2]

Chart still looks stellar. Still testing BFN.

Still keeping my FX for you hun... as long as there is no AF I'm hopeful for BFP's for you ladies

I'm out. temp drop this morning, and then AF showed up.

I am excited to finally schedule a fertility appointment. I tried to schedule yesterday, but I just had to leave a voicemail. Hoping to get answers and a plan!

Grrr.... stupid old hag, so sorry she got you Michelle!

Glad to read about your appointments and hope that they are able to shed some light for you and that your BFP is not far off now!!

 

[melewen]

Speaking of supplements, I read the book Making Babies the month we got our BFP. It's written by one of the top fertility specialists who says that most fertilitu doctors are very short sighted and offer simple prescriptions that don't really take into account the specifics of the couple.. Especially with ivf it is too often prescribed (except in Mary's case obviously it is the perfect thing!! And most cases with tube issues) as it makes the doctor a ton of money BUT a lot of times fertility issues can be caused by a simple infection or too low of a CM pH. It was super interesting and it includes a really in depth quiz for you and dh to figure out what type you are.. I took the supplements recommended for my type (and pushed for thyroid medication, also recommended for my type) and boom, a few weeks later, ! It's worth a shot I WAS taking so many freaking supplements that I had to take two huge pill organizers on our vacation but it was all enzymes and coq10, vitex etc. It's amazing how individual supplements can be so good for so many fertility issues and most of us in the ttc world aren't aware of them! That surprised me since we all try *everything*!

 

[mdscpa]

Oh, BTW the supplements we took were Fetilaid products. DH was already taking them 2 months prior to seeing a specialist so we're not sure if it really helped him or not still he got an awesome numbers. For me, i'm not really producing good amount of CM but when i took these meds i produced a lot.... The cycle i got i had 13 days of EWCM.... yay.... but i should warn you that the first 2 cycles i'm taking these products i had spotting few days before which is not normal to me that's why we stopped and went to specialist.


https://www.fairhavenhealth.com/ttc-boost-bundle.html

https://www.fairhavenhealth.com/male-fertility.html

 

[Jrepp]

Hi ladies. Sorry AF found you Michelle.

I just wanted to chime in about SA. Mary, your hubby's sa should be paid by your health insurance. They would bill it under your name. Also, check around and see if anywhere has free sas. I found one place here in Denver that offers them free once a month and then forwards the results to your doctor.

 

[froggyfrog]

Me and dh are covered under the same insurance, and my obgyn actually ordered his first one and it was covered under my name like jess said. Then after that at the re it was covered under his name.

 

[mommysylvia]

Well its 6dpo and my chart doesn't have any BIG dips yet, which is very unusual. I have a feeling that less stress this cycle may have to do with my higher temps so far this TWW. Now lets see if it rises again tomorrow or dips more. Idk why I like looking at my dang chart so much! Lol. I heard temps may be all wacky my IVF cycle so I'm going to temp but not read too much into it.

Only 2 days left until we try a wondfo Sylvia! And ur chart looks GREAT at this point! FX it keeps up with this beautiful pattern!

I wish I had wondfos...I only have Walmart cheapie since I'm not able to order the ICs lol. Thank you, and don't worry I always love staring at my chart too!! As far the rectal pain its a different kind of pain than constipation. It radiated all the way to the bottom of my spine that's why I jumped... I never have a pains to go rr just during thats because Ive had hemorrhoids after my son. Hopefully it means something more! Also last night before I went to bed I had light brown almost beige cm just a spot...do I mark that as spotting on FF or just ignore it?

Even if its just a spot, id mark it on FF for ur own notes It could possible mean something at 5dpo...fx!! And esp if it happened after that pain u had, maybe u had early implantation..? FX FX FX!

Hopefully!! Fx!!! Thank you ma'am

Oooo I had my first pregnancy related dream during my nap lol I had a dream that I took a hpt and it immediately turned dark pink within seconds and I started feeling "her" move around in my stomach