Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[jessilou]

Congrats Laura, so happy for you !!!

 

[mommysylvia]

I really feel that FF moved my cross hairs because now they have 6 previous temps ...I think if I had charted more pre-O temps my O day would be 19-20. So now time is just dragging along. I had a rocky chart but now it kind of has a good rise

 

[froggyfrog]

I can't remember, where were your chs before?

 

[mommysylvia]

They were on cd19 now they moved to cd22

 

[mommysylvia]

Okay I took this test this morning and I see a faint line. What do you ladies think? Top is yesterday and bottom is today

 

[WunnaBubba2]

I see the white/grey line Sylvia. Fx it is the start of a BFP and not my eye failing me

Will you continue to test daily?

 

[froggyfrog]

I see something. Like pam said it's grey. What color is it irl?

 

[mommysylvia]

I seen a very faint pink that's why I tweaked and darkened it... Even the pink control looks dark. But now I checked it and its very light purple.

Yes I will test daily I have my 50 cheapies lol POASaholic

 

[Megs555]

Hi there ladies its been awhile since i was able to come on this thread since i got my BFP. what a roller coaster ride i have been on I need some advice from anyone with experience or knows of these things happening. Sorry for the long winded question but I wanted to make sure I got all the details in there. Thank you in advance to anyone able to shed any light or advice!



I found out i was pregnant in March and I had an early ultrasound to find out dates as i don't have a last period date, I went off the pill and my periods have been all over the place.

So the ultrasound a couple weeks ago showed two sacs with nothing else yet and my hcg levels were at 38,000 and I went back for more blood work 2 days later and they were 35,000. So i had to go back a weeks later and they were 21,000 and the doc said they are going down very slow which is strange so i went for another ultrasound yesterday because they think I'm miscarrying. They saw 1 sac with the fetus inside measuring at about 6 weeks with no heartbeat and the gestational sac was an irregular shape, I read that it can still be too early and that since i am having a vanishing twin syndrome that could explain the slow drop in HCG. But the ultrasound tech said she doesn't think ill see a heart beat even if i come back in a week or two..

I am a mess and I have had to deal with a possible miscarriage now for a couple weeks and I wanted to know if anyone has had any experience with vanishing twin syndrome, dropping hcg that turned out to have a normal pregnancy? And if anyone wasn't able to see the heart beat at 6 weeks and saw it later?

 

[froggyfrog]

Have you had any bleeding? I'm sorry your going through this, being in limbo like that has to suck. When is your next scan?

 

[Megs555]

I have had non bleeding, no spotting, no cramping. I have read a lot about vanishing twin syndrome too and one of the symptoms is falling hcg which mine are but very slowy. and all the while they have fallen a fetus appears and the other sac is gone. I had already accepted the worst scenario and then I saw my little peanut and i have hope again but I'm terrified of getting my hopes up

 

[froggyfrog]

You might get a faster answer on the job on the pregnancy thread. Sticking together until we give birth. Those ladies can maybe share how early they saw a hb. How many weeks were you when the baby was measuring 6 wks?

 

[Megs555]

thing is I'm not sure how far along i should be because i missed jan period cause i stopped the pill recently and i got my first really faint positive at the end of feb and definitive positive in march.

 

[froggyfrog]

That's all confusing then. Did your dr confirm what the tech said?

 

[froggyfrog]

I'm really not sure how to advise you. It seems like your dr wouldn't be so vague, and try to figure out what is going on

 

[Megs555]

I have been waiting for my blood results and what the doctor said about the ultrasound from yesterday, they are exceptionally slow today.. And my doctor doesn't seem as concerned as i would like right now I also have posted in the pregnancy and first trimester forums but i remembered this one has lots of experienced ladies so i thought i would give it a shot here as well.

 

[laurac1988]

Kegs I'm sorry you're going through this.

Same thing happened to me and I lost the baby, but it really does seem to be 50/50. Lots of women go back a couple of weeks later and see a healthy baby, but the same number of people lose their babies.

I'll keep you in my thoughts and keep hoping for the best for you xxxx

 

[Megs555]

what exactly happened to you laurac1988? the HCG the no heartbeat at 6 weeks? the irregular shaped Ges Sac?

 

[laurac1988]

I didn't have HCG bloods done so I don't know what my levels were like.

I had a scan at 6+4 and there was a sac, yolk sac and very VERY tiny fetus. Then had another scan at 7+4 and there was the same and the sac looked irregular. Lost the baby that night.

Like I said, though, it really is 50/50. For every woman who lost their baby there will be one that just had a slow starter

 

[Megs555]

Im so sorry to hear that, I will be asking to go back in the next two weeks and if by then i haven't bled and there is still no heart beat i will accept the worst. Thank you for sharing your experience