Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[Lost7]

How frustrating TTC74!!

 

[melewen]

Angela that's so frustrating :/ I'm sorry

 

[willowtree24]

Willowtree, It could be early pregnancy bleeding.... I always try to remain hopeful! But in my years of experience, usually when I saw red blood and watery cm, it was AF on the way BUT everyone is different, thats for sure!
BTW, how do u track O? If this is AF, that means you oed later than expected, since you said your 5 days 'late'. Our cycles go off of when O truly occurred that month and thats what makes AF come "late" or "early" on us. Why can't we all have the same cycles?! Lol. Do you have regular cycles or do they differ by a couple/few days? I think tracking your BBT (temping) would help you greatly. My specialist told me that over 80% of women who go in seeking help with infertility couldn't correctly identify their fertile period so not knowing the correct O day is one of the top reasons couples struggle to conceive, u get what I mean? Temping is super easy and it truly is the absolute best way to track O from home. And, we are all chart stalkers on this thread and we looove to help with reading the charts and everything while your learning or need help. Just something to think about trying . Quite a few women from this thread alone got their bfps cycle #1 of charting temps...it truly is a helpful tool! I'm sorry for the book! And even if you guys BD every day, the charting would still help you to know for sure when AF is truly do and such. Most women don't ovulate on day 14 like doctors like to tell us, nor do we have the same LP length. I just know it always kept me sane to know these things because when you O later or earlier, that makes AF later or earlier and then we end up in limbo waiting, u know? Anyway, if you decide to give it a try and need some advice, me and all of the ladies on here would be more then happy to help Good Luck! I def hope this is your cycle but if not, keep your faith! I think you'll be seeing your BFP before you know it! FX!

Hey !! Thanks for the reply. Well I had cramps tonight too but no blood only pinkish watery when I wiped so I went from loads of cramps and thay when I wiped to nothing in half an hour. That's it no cramps or blood now when I wipe feel normal apart from feeling sick again. So I'm really hoping. I usually track ovulation every month using opks however this month I didn't use them I think I ovulated later than I thought like you said. I usually have 29 day cycles af on the day. So if I ovulated later means I'm not as 'late' as I first thought. Last time I was pregnant this happened but I'm trying not to get my hopes up. If af does come full blown I will have a look at temping and this chart you maybe have to explain how I get that on here as I'm utterly useless at technology haha. Baby dust you way !!! We shall see our BFPS soon !

Ooo, if your having pink spotting, that could def be a good sign! I'm crossing my fingers for you! Many women on here have spotting for sometimes even a few weeks and are pregnant with a healthy LO. I had pink spotting 7dp3dt-9dp3dt or 10-12dpo, and so far so good! That was the only time I experienced spotting colored that way too so if its out the norm for you, it could be a good sign! Anything out of the norm could possible be a good sign Def keep us posted! I hope AF stays far away!! FX!

Well that's good news ! Last night I slept 4 hours couldn't sleep and had cramps last night but no blood. Today I put a liner on and it filled with watery pink stuff there's no bright red blood like my usual period. It's strange. I feel really ill now just dint feel like doing anything. Is there a chance then this is my period? I only get pink watery blood when I wipe. I wouldn't say I've had no where near a normal af for me I defiantly wouldn't of counted this as a typical af. Baby dust !!! Where are you in your cycle ? And how are you feeling ?

 

[WunnaBubba2]

I'm so sorry Angela! I hope af still won't show though

 

[Michellebelle]

Angela, that is so frustrating! My doctor had me do one 14 dpo no matter what. I hope your temp skyrockets tomorrow, you get a BFP and can throw that in their face!

 

[TTC74]

Angela, that is so frustrating! My doctor had me do one 14 dpo no matter what. I hope your temp skyrockets tomorrow, you get a BFP and can throw that in their face!

While I am not anticipating that, it would be a dream come true!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Willowtree, It could be early pregnancy bleeding.... I always try to remain hopeful! But in my years of experience, usually when I saw red blood and watery cm, it was AF on the way BUT everyone is different, thats for sure!
BTW, how do u track O? If this is AF, that means you oed later than expected, since you said your 5 days 'late'. Our cycles go off of when O truly occurred that month and thats what makes AF come "late" or "early" on us. Why can't we all have the same cycles?! Lol. Do you have regular cycles or do they differ by a couple/few days? I think tracking your BBT (temping) would help you greatly. My specialist told me that over 80% of women who go in seeking help with infertility couldn't correctly identify their fertile period so not knowing the correct O day is one of the top reasons couples struggle to conceive, u get what I mean? Temping is super easy and it truly is the absolute best way to track O from home. And, we are all chart stalkers on this thread and we looove to help with reading the charts and everything while your learning or need help. Just something to think about trying . Quite a few women from this thread alone got their bfps cycle #1 of charting temps...it truly is a helpful tool! I'm sorry for the book! And even if you guys BD every day, the charting would still help you to know for sure when AF is truly do and such. Most women don't ovulate on day 14 like doctors like to tell us, nor do we have the same LP length. I just know it always kept me sane to know these things because when you O later or earlier, that makes AF later or earlier and then we end up in limbo waiting, u know? Anyway, if you decide to give it a try and need some advice, me and all of the ladies on here would be more then happy to help Good Luck! I def hope this is your cycle but if not, keep your faith! I think you'll be seeing your BFP before you know it! FX!

Hey !! Thanks for the reply. Well I had cramps tonight too but no blood only pinkish watery when I wiped so I went from loads of cramps and thay when I wiped to nothing in half an hour. That's it no cramps or blood now when I wipe feel normal apart from feeling sick again. So I'm really hoping. I usually track ovulation every month using opks however this month I didn't use them I think I ovulated later than I thought like you said. I usually have 29 day cycles af on the day. So if I ovulated later means I'm not as 'late' as I first thought. Last time I was pregnant this happened but I'm trying not to get my hopes up. If af does come full blown I will have a look at temping and this chart you maybe have to explain how I get that on here as I'm utterly useless at technology haha. Baby dust you way !!! We shall see our BFPS soon !

Ooo, if your having pink spotting, that could def be a good sign! I'm crossing my fingers for you! Many women on here have spotting for sometimes even a few weeks and are pregnant with a healthy LO. I had pink spotting 7dp3dt-9dp3dt or 10-12dpo, and so far so good! That was the only time I experienced spotting colored that way too so if its out the norm for you, it could be a good sign! Anything out of the norm could possible be a good sign Def keep us posted! I hope AF stays far away!! FX!

Well that's good news ! Last night I slept 4 hours couldn't sleep and had cramps last night but no blood. Today I put a liner on and it filled with watery pink stuff there's no bright red blood like my usual period. It's strange. I feel really ill now just dint feel like doing anything. Is there a chance then this is my period? I only get pink watery blood when I wipe. I wouldn't say I've had no where near a normal af for me I defiantly wouldn't of counted this as a typical af. Baby dust !!! Where are you in your cycle ? And how are you feeling ?

I wish you all the luck & baby dust you can get! My fingers will stay crossed for all of you ladies!

As for me, I'm actually newly pregnant. 9 weeks tomorrow. After 24 months of actively TTC, we did a round of IVF and luckily, first time was a charm! We feel extremely blessed, as I honestly thought itd never happen for us. (I have tubal blockage). I'm here rooting for you ladies until every last one of you get your BFP's! I have my fingers, toes, arms, and legs crossed for all of you! Good luck! FX this is your month! Have you tested yet?

 

[aidensmommy1]

I would think it was comical if I weren't so irritated. I drove 20 mins to RE's office for a beta test only to be told "we only do them after a positive hpt or when AF is a week late." HELLO?! You couldn't have told me that when you scheduled the appt so that I could've just called in?! It's not like I'm already irritated from the procedure not working and irritable due to PMS!

Ugh, that's so freaking irritating! I agree, they could have told you this in the first place! I hope you end up with a surprise bfp, I really do. You deserve it! I'm sorry you had to deal with this crap today. Sometimes I feel like doctors don't understand how much we already have on our shoulders and they could be a little more supportive/helpful. I hope you feel a little better soon, Angela.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Michelle, my heart truly goes out to you and I seriously admire your strength right now. You will have your rainbow before we know it and I cannot wait! I hope your feeling okay, both mentally and physically. You'll be in my prayers, always.

 

[Lost7]

Don't hate me
I couldn't handle it any more!
I woke up full of sickness and heartburn today so I tested

9dpo.

Mixed results really, FRER looks like I can see a line at 8 minutes into the test, IC looked negative until 10 minute mark then developed what looks like to me - an indent
What ever it is - I don't think it has colour anyway. You might see different but my eyes are quite bad

FRER have been giving me awful faints / evaps / indents in the past so I can't take it at will - if that makes sense. I'm sure if enough of you squint though you can see what I'm talking about.. I always cover the back of the test too so not to get a false indent - if that makes sense.

Now I've confessed - please don't hate me

I will still do the live test on Friday as planned - I won't test tomorrow - I promise!

 

[ab75]

I think I see something on the frer but definitely see it on ic xx

 

[Lost7]

Thanks hun, Do you think the IC has a pink line though?

 

[WunnaBubba2]

I think I see something too... I saw something on your 7 dpo (??) test as well. I hope you are getting your BFP

 

[Lost7]

I think I see something too... I saw something on your 7 dpo (??) test as well. I hope you are getting your BFP

Really? What on the video? My goodness!
Thanks hun - fingers crossed!

 

[WunnaBubba2]

You posted pics of them, not sure what your dpo was though. I really hope this is it. I feel this desperate need to see you ladies on here join us in the birthing thread!

 

[Lost7]

Aww thanks hun, Ah the pics - were like 6dpo
Just been back to look at the test, hours after the timeframe and the IC looks like the line is like extra white now... Don't know what that's all about

 

[WunnaBubba2]

I either have line eye or I still see something on that IC

 

[Lost7]

I either have line eye or I still see something on that IC

It looks white though? I have no idea any more

 

[WunnaBubba2]

My 9dpo test had a white/grey line on it and then on 10 dpo it started to go pink and the digital confirmed pregnancy.

Don't discard the white line as nothing just yet. Not to get your hopes up but I like to think positive until af shows which I always hope doesn't happen

 

[Lost7]

My 9dpo test had a white/grey line on it and then on 10 dpo it started to go pink and the digital confirmed pregnancy.

Don't discard the white line as nothing just yet. Not to get your hopes up but I like to think positive until af shows which I always hope doesn't happen

Thanks hun! Just a little concerned I always get some kind of lines on them, the other month was so cruel, it looked a lot darker than this then AF came!

Roll on Friday

This is a pic of last months IC