Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[SarahLou372]

So its around 48 hours since I got the smiley face now isn't it? So why am I still testing positive on my cheap opk this morning then... shouldn't I have ovulated already by now...?

Im sorry im so confused

 

[cutieq]

So its around 48 hours since I got the smiley face now isn't it? So why am I still testing positive on my cheap opk this morning then... shouldn't I have ovulated already by now...?

Im sorry im so confused

don't be sorry. it's all so confusing. none of us are experts. we're all in this together just trying to figure it out.

I really don't use any opks with my smiley but I would guess you've ovulated because you're at 48 hours.

Daphne used both. Hopefully she'll pop on and help you out!

 

[SarahLou372]

I missed it then the OH has a bad tummy bug and not bed since CD 12

Its now CD 16 and he just asked me if I want to try and

.. Im so down that it seems like some force above don't want me to be a mummy, he had to be so ill on my 3 important days of the whole month now its all over and he sort of ready to go again What!!??

Gutted that's me out

 

[cutieq]

I missed it then the OH has a bad tummy bug and not bed since CD 12

Its now CD 16 and he just asked me if I want to try and

.. Im so down that it seems like some force above don't want me to be a mummy, he had to be so ill on my 3 important days of the whole month now its all over and he sort of ready to go again What!!??

Gutted that's me out

I'd personally get one last one in there if she's willing. Our bodies are funny. I wasn't expecting to ovulate for another 5 days and if I relied on the tests and apps, I would've totally missed it.

 

[SarahLou372]

Im hoping to get one last bed in to try for this month. Its hard not knowing if im going ovulate or if I already did

All I can do is try and time will soon tell...

 

[cutieq]

Im hoping to get one last bed in to try for this month. Its hard not knowing if im going ovulate or if I already did

All I can do is try and time will soon tell...

I can't remember. Do you temp?

 

[SarahLou372]

Im hoping to get one last bed in to try for this month. Its hard not knowing if im going ovulate or if I already did

All I can do is try and time will soon tell...

I can't remember. Do you temp?

No I don't temp because I always forget to take it before I get up tried it before Here's a Picture of the test with the packet... it looks like the 4th example down to me But CD 14 got my Solid smiley.. yet I get this positive today at CD 16 unless im about to ovulate and Ive caught the surge at its highest

 

[cutieq]

Im hoping to get one last bed in to try for this month. Its hard not knowing if im going ovulate or if I already did

All I can do is try and time will soon tell...

I can't remember. Do you temp?

No I don't temp because I always forget to take it before I get up tried it before Here's a Picture of the test with the packet... it looks like the 4th example down to me But CD 14 got my Solid smiley.. yet I get this positive today at CD 16 unless im about to ovulate and Ive caught the surge at its highest

I see why you're confused. You got in some BD (met a lady on here that ONLY had sex 4 days before O and still got a BFP) and between your opks and the digital, i'd say o definitely happened or is on the verge so I'd get another in if I could but I think you have your bases covered

 

[SarahLou372]

If I ovulated CD 14/15 then his sperm from CD 12 should still be alive?? Surely?? And If im about to ovulate im not sure it will be but if we were to try and bed tonight to insure incase I ovulate CD16/17 the n its still a good chance...?

We been using this fertility Lubricant and hopefully its helped keep his sperm alive a little longer https://www.conceiveplus.com/ Plus my cm was like water/EWCM on CD 12

 

[Querida87]

Sarah - I get your sonfusion. Based on my temp I'm O-ing today, but my equate opk isn't giving me a solid positive.

June - hang in there!! The hasn't shown yet and that's what's important.

cutie - Idk how you can be so calm! I'm freaking out wondering if the hysteroscopy if gonna affect anything since my temp says I O today.. I only see blood when I wipe and it's not much then..

Jess - glad you're feeling good with your plan. Thanks for the advice. I am on an antibiotic, JIC, since they were digging up in there three days in a row & I probably will skip bd today and tomorrow, as long as my bf doesn't mind waiting. I should probably go do some housework to soften him up. Little does he know that I bought two gender neutral outfits already and hid them, in hopes of giving him an early Christmas present. I'm gonna try to hold off on telling him until I get an ultrasound. Then I can fill an American Eagle gift bag with the framed ultrasound, the framed hpt, and the outfits (one for a single bean, two for twinkies) and have it delivered to his work. I wish it were 12DPO instead of O day so I could test!!

Get ready ladies! In about 8-9 days I'm gonna start POAS and uploading pics for you all to help me squint!

 

[SarahLou372]

Im not sure about the cheapie because yesterdays cheapie was negative at CD 15 yet Clearblue was positive CD14

Regardless I need to ask you ladies an opinion please, So some of you may know my OH has a bad tummy bug and we not bed for 3 days so far.. will be 4 today if we don't bed.... Now I had two flashing smiley faces on CD 13 as I tested twice in that day and then CD 14 got my solid face in the morning.

We only bed on CD 3,4,6,7,8, Twice CD 10 and once CD 11 & 12... So Im guessing by my ovulation tests I could of ovulated CD 14-16?? What are the chances I could still conceive?? Even if I ovulated today? Would his sperm still be alive from CD 12 it was around 11pm at night we bed on CD 12.. cm was watery and lots of it and we are using a fertility Lubricant conceive plus https://www.conceiveplus.com/

I know I keep going on but with me having pcos and wanting a bundle of joy for so long it really stresses me and gets me down my OH got the bug around this time

 

[Querida87]

Sarah - I hope you get in another BD today, for your own sake. From what I read, sperm (esp. those which make a girl) can survive up to 5 days in the womb waiting for the egg; and I believe using those special lubricants may help with sperm longevity as well. I think you have as good a chance as anyone, but (If you want a boy) make sure you orgasm and your partner releases deep inside you tonight. Female orgasm temporarily makes the womb more alkaline, which is beneficial to male sperm - which are fast swimmers, but weaker than the slower female sperm. And releasing the sperm closer to their destination obviously means they reach the egg faster and have more strength for fertilization. I am in a similar situation. I don't have pcos, but I do have some small ovarian cysts. I haven't dtd since Tuesday and today I O'd, but because I had a hysteroscopy to remove my mirena yesterday, I won't be able to get in another round before my fertile days are up. It can be agonizing to wait. I'm having a lot of trouble not blowing all my money on stuff for a baby that doesn't exist yet. All I can do is hope there were some strong girl swimmers waiting for the egg and that it sticks on implantation day. Meanwhile I satisfy my poas addiction staring at other ladies' sticks! lol. FX for you hun!!

 

[Querida87]

I'd like to invite everyone, esp those who are 3DPO or less to join me in my tww thread that I just started. Cutie , Bug, and Loola have already sounded off!! IDK how to share a thread, but the name is: EVERYONE 3DPO-O-DAY WELCOME. I thought it would be fun for those of us who are hoping to receive our BFP's on about the same day to have a special place to talk.

 

[Querida87]

I'm freaking out! Added to the tmi symptom I mentioned yesterday, I am nauseated this morning and have bad heartburn. I think I'm getting the flu. Also, my temped dropped back down to my baseline of 96.9 which leaves me doubtful about this cycle. I'm 2DPO today...

 

[cutieq]

Que I wouldn't worry at 2dpo. Implantation hasn't even happened yet. Could be a fallback rise

 

[mdscpa]

Dani, i really think you are 2 dpo today.... FX for a sticky bean....

Brianna, no need to freak out at 2 dpo. Some women get dips at this stage and they call it fallback rise.... Temps that you most likely need to consider post-O are from 8dpo onwards. FX for a this cycle.

 

[Querida87]

Thanks ladies! This cycle caught me by surprise, being my first time charting and Having O the same day the Mirena was removed. If I get my BFP this month, I'd be thrilled. If not, I would very likely be testing again on Christmas Day!!

 

[cutieq]

Yep. I agree. 2dpo. Gonna start the progesterone tomorrow

 

[Querida87]

My dr told me he didn't think I would need progesterone cream, but that was before I knew where I was in my cycle. Now I'm thinking I should get some JIC to help line my uterine. What do you think?

 

[cutieq]

Brianna, I haven't heard anything negative about using it.