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[phoebe]

Just hope they catch him, this isnt the first time Taxi drivers have done this to people. Gages mate left same night club and a Taxi driver tried to attack his mate, but he got away....

Told Gage 3 times last night via text not to get in one on his own, but he's young think nothing is going to happen to them cos they Male

They offer councelling and hope he takes it x

I hope he takes the counselling too hun, my god poor soul. this is so bloody horrific. I know from experience how fucked up (excuse language) it is for a woman to be sexually assaulted, but a young man................. jesus christ. I had heard of this happening to men but jeeez it totally knocks u sideways to hear of it. I pray they catch the fucker and string him up.... wow i am sooooooooooo angry now. Wish i could offer more help or right words hun. Wish these were real hugs xxxxx

 

[poppy666]

Thanks Phoebe means a lot He'll get through it xxx

 

[mothercabbage]

couldnt have put it better myself phoebe...poppy for gage x

 

[phoebe]

I hope so too. With u and his brothers i am sure he will be alright xxx I was only thinking earlier i must have a catch up with u and see how u have been doing within urself lately. Then this............................ my heart and prayers are with u and urs right now, just know that ok xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[coral11680]

oh no poppy poor gage, what sick W anker that did it, hope he gets locked up for good!

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

OMG?!? Pops! I was wondering where you were.....

Can't believe it, I simply have no words.........

Well maybe I have got words..........Sick twisted f*****g w*****r. I echo Phoebe's words, agree with MC that she put it better than I could. xxxxxxxx

 

[pk2of8]

OMG!!! HUGE poppy for you and son gage (and whole family). what an awful ordeal. you must be exhausted right now! poor baby! how old is gage again? 17? omg, i'm always so afraid for stuff to happen to my kids, and now you're living it! what a horrific nightmare! brings me to tears thinking about it...poppy luv, will be praying for you all and special prayers for gage to recover. i hope he accepts the counseling too.

 

[coral11680]

by the I love the names Lilyann and Ella. very cute, dislike Simon There ia boy in Ryan's class and his a little S**t!
Tink I try not to tell too many people the names I like you always get unwanted opinions. Nice "friend" not! I like lots of names but so far me and DH both like Keira, probably Keira Rose.
I told you all the story of my SIL when I was pregnant with Ryan didn't I? before I knew it was a boy I told her I wanted Kayla for a girl. (she was pregnant too and didnt know the sex either). She told me "isnt that Sandy's dogs name?" (DH and her cousin) I said well, I dont care I like the name. She said well. "I wouldnt want to be named after a dog!" cheeky cow!!! anyway I found out it was a boy and decided on Ryan or Kyle, ended up calling him Ryan Kyle anyway guess what she named her daughter........KAYLA!!!!! what a sneaky bitch! by the way this SIL is still yet to congratulate me even though all the rest of the family have on FB and she is on there all the time! She is a cocaine head and I'm not looking forward to seeing her. (she's 42 and still lives with MIL)

 

[pk2of8]

g'morning sweeties. wow. hard to know what to say, in general, now. .......

you know, i hope jenn is ok...haven't seen any posts from her for a while either, and mommyV, TTC, and DM. hmmm....seems we have quite a few ding dongs who've been MIA on and off.

well, so i'm leaving off the soy this cycle. wait and see what the doctor says about anything. i'm really excited for my appt on tues...really hoping it will finally lead to bfp for us.

my kids father is a total twat too girls. he sees my kids once/month, IF that. and that ONLY b/c that's what the court order says now and b/c he's engaged so trying to keep up a good impression for his very young fiance. phoebs, all my kids have his last name, and i don't believe it would have changed how custody proceedings went if they hadn't. here in US, i think the issue is more of who's listed as father on birth certificate rather than who's name they carry, then they consider his involvement in their lives and the role he's played. if he's been very involved, then it's harder to get sole custody. but my kids live with me...my ex has "shared parental responsibility" with me, but I am considered the "primary custodial parent" for living arrangements and such. it's complicated. i wouldn't accept it any other way. my ex is one of those that talks big about wanting the kids and has tried to take them away from me, but he only does it so his parents maintain sympathy and keep paying for everything in his life for him and to make me look like a b*tch for "taking his kids away from him." pfffttt. whatever. the dick doesn't want them and never has. sorry...ANYway.... i say that about the birth cert b/c one of my sisters had a "one night stand" with a guy she knew in college and ended up pregnant from it. she had my beautiful and adorable identical twin nieces but, right after she got pg, she started dating this amazing guy, and they ended up getting married. the "sperm donor" didn't want anything to do with my sister for the pg or responsibility or anything, esp after he found out it was twins, so my sister decided to put her husband's name on the birth cert as father. legally, there's NOTHING the sperm donor can do in the future to sue for custody w/o getting a dna test first, and for that, he'd have to get a court order as well. so that's why (at least here in the states anyway) it's more important what you put on the birth cert as father than for the surname anyway. i've known some women who leave it blank.

but phoebe, hun, as far as your dreams go sweetie, i think it's completely normal for you to be worried about what will happen and such. and you know our dreams are how we work out what's bothering us. it doesn't necessarily mean that you don't feel secure in your relationship, but we all have those little underlying fears and worries, or subconcious concerns that we never really talk about. especially during pg, i think all of that gets worse. so try not to put too much stock in it luv. you know your oh better than anyone sweetie. don't let the "what ifs" overwhelm you hun. we can't live that way or we'd never get anything accomplished

 

[pk2of8]

oh yes! love the names Lilyann and Ella too!!! how SWEET!!!! tink, one of my nieces' name is Lilly Anne...precious!!!!

 

[coral11680]

hi PK

yes was wondering where Jenny, Mommyv DM were etc

 

[pk2of8]

hi coral

sorry it's rainy and yucky there...we're having the first really nice weather weekend in a LONG time!!! beautiful and SUNNY and WARM!!! this is why i LOVE florida!!!

 

[pk2of8]

oh man, my old company wants me and dh to come back and do contract work for them on saturdays. UGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH. we asked them for this REALLY high (like ridiculously high) pay rate, thinking they'd never agree and we would be able to just turn it down at that point, but they just emailed us yesterday saying they've agreed to the rate and want us to start now we're not sure what to dooooo!!! i really hate the place. it's so stressful and the people there have been so mean to me. plus now we found out dh can't do the work until he gets his therapy license registration here in florida started at least and i DO NOT want to do the work by myself. so we started that process for him yesterday, but uuuuggggghhhhh. it's a lot of money.

EDIT-- it would mean working EVERY saturday. no more sleepin' in or lazy days on the weekend. that's why dh and i were going to do it together. we could switch off saturdays (but then we'd never see each other ) or we could split the caseload and go together and do it in half the time. but it's a lot of money. a LOT of money for 1 day of work.

 

[caz & bob]

girls how are you all hope your having a good weekend well chines for tea tonight woopp and my son is sleeping his nans again tonight woopp x x x

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

Keira is beautiful Coral, and I love Keira Rose seems we are all working along the 'flowery' girls names your cheeky SIL, just shows you eh? My 'friend' who got mouthy last night is a bit of a coke head also, kept going on about me taking her to get some 'bag' righto.......yeah I'll just spend my evening driving her about stone cold sober and pregnant to buy her a fix.... The more I'm talking about her today, the more I'm deciding never to go out with her again she's alright for a coffee and chat in the day time, but I think I'm gonna give nights out with her a wide birth

PK, yeah I'm wondering about our missing Ding Dongs also. Think Mommyv popped on briefly last week/week before, but I'm pretty sure I almost missed replying to her and then she disappeared again. I wonder If DM is keeping away because of the situation with Amy? I hope they are all ok What a dialemma with this job, I would have to sway towards doing it I think if the money is that good, even if its just for a while. I'll be thinking of you Tuesday for your appointment, make sure you update us. x

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

:wave: Hey Caz, Chinese? mmmm I could eat that. Think I might have to make do with some chips and curry sauce though, gotta save some money for that 'big spend up' tomorrow at the baby show x

 

[poppy666]

Thanks ladies Gage home now and having a bath

Ok just done my OPK for this afternoon and used 2 different makes, so what you all think??

Will read back in a bit see what ive missed x

 

[pk2of8]

oh i forgot about Coral's name Keira Rose...that's sooo pretty!!! awwww girl names are so fun to think about!

thanks, tink...yeah, i think we're probably going to do it. i think it will be torture for a while, but it won't be permament for sure. just a temporary thing until the company hires somebody full-time, which i hope would be sooner rather than later. well, we're still not decided, but i think we're leaning towards doing it. i'll defo update you girls. tues/thurs i'm still working in the evenings, interpreting for a college class in addition to my full-time work during the week, so that's why it's hard for me to get on during the week. by the time i get home, i'm just so flippin' tired. and now we're thinking about this other work as well! we must be crazy!!!! but we're going to buy a house soon and we're talking about specialists for the ttc issues and our insurance doesn't cover very much, so the extra money (even if just for a little while) would really come in handy for that. well, and just for myself, if the money meant we could renew our disney passes, i would be on i grew up going to disney frequently since we lived in orlando, and now it's been almost a year since the last time we went. i know it sounds so spoiled, but it's hard to adjust and we miss it. boo, i'm so silly. i'm really in a good mood today. dh and i just got back from a run (i haven't done that in over a month!!!), and it's BEAUTIFUL outside today and dh just told me he wants to take me shopping and out to an expensive dinner tonight since we missed Valentine's b/c he was sick! yay!!

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

Pops, which one is the control line on the strip? the other OPK looks a day or two off positive. Is that how they look in real life? for you all xxxxxxxxx

 

[pk2of8]

oh no popples!!!! i shows positive and one shows negative!!! that's why i'll only use one brand from now on. with the pink/white ones you have, do you usually get a dark line when it goes positive?? i know you've used those before. obviously your blue strips are more sensitive than the pink one...

glad gage is home...hope he rests up hun