The new Gender Specific Hopefuls thread (2014)

rhi, remember you from a ttc thread last year. congrats on new baby are you planning on ttc again soon?!

 

I thought I would stop at 2 but here I am thinking about number 6 maybe if I had had a girl already I wouldnt have my 5 boys which doesnt bare thinking about they are all fab and I couldnt imagine my life without anyone of them so im pleased I havent had a girl yet in that respect but I really hope if I do have number 6 its a girl my boys are dying for a sister although they were gutted when we found out harvey was a boy they spend so much time with him and love him to bits!!

I hope you get your girl but if not maybe think about a third xx

 

I would consider a third (in many years to come) but DH is dead set on not having any more. He'll be very happy with just boys and doesn't even want a girl particularly, he says if we're having one, that's fine, but if it's another boy he'll be more than happy, so not sure he'll change his mind either

 

Thanks for trying it out 30. I just thought it was neat that it gave you a percentage and thought maybe it would be closer than the Chinese gender chart!

 

You just never know what the future holds to be honest I never thought I would have 5 lol but here I am xx

 

Oh wow heyy

Yeah, we are planning on trying before the end of the year, hoperfully as baby is only 3 and a half months ATM

Have two Boys and I'm hoping to make number 3 a girlie

 

I tried that site and four of my five were wrong.

I hope you girls dont mind me joining you. I have been reading this section of the forum for ages but never been brave enough to post as I feel I will be judged given my history (for those that dont know I have a boy, girl, stillborn girl, girl, seven first tri loses, stillborn girl and eight further first tri loses). It goes without saying that obviously more than anything I want a sticky bring home baby but there is a part of me (big part) that wants a girl (I feel so bad for writing that). I know I am lucky that I have one boy and two girls with me already, so I know I seem greedy/awful/enter whatever adjective you want here. However, I should have Honey and Riley Rae here too, four girls and one boy, a house full of girls, pink, arguing over the bathroom and boys etc etc, that's (in my head) how life should be. Because of having two girls and one boy here, a boy would even things up and (in my head) that isnt how my life/our house should be. I am aware that sounds bratty.

I hope I made sense and you understand why I feel the way I do.

 

dont feel bad about it xx

 

No please don't feel bad, definitely no judgement in this thread.

 

Thank you for being kind to me, both of you.

That is exactly it mothertoboys. It feels silly as I dont know if my two angel girls would of been 'girlie' and I dont know if any other daughter would be either but I can pretend I dont feel this way.

Please include my two late loses, thank you

 

Thank you so much, it's perfect x

 

Don't feel guilty, you only want what you should have had . I would love another girl because I want my DD to have the sister relationship I should have. I know that I can't recreate the past and I don't want to live through her but the thought of having sisters in my home and seeing them have a relationship as teenagers/adults would feel very healing. I feel guilty for having a preference, especially as I have one of each and I sound so greedy, but the heart wants what the heart wants.

 

Thank you so much for all the support. I'll have a private scan this Thursday (because my grandmother is coming to visit me and I wanted her to see the baby) and I'll have another one the week after (the normal 12 week scan through NHS. What should I ask the person doing the scan? I know what kind of picture I want (the one that shows the nub!), but how is it called?

I'm no expert and I've been wrong many times, but in my opinion it looks like a girl, not a boy, taking into account the nub theory.The nub theory says the following:

 

welcome tasha! So sorry for all your losses. I would long for a little girl after losing 2 beautiful DD. FX you get a beautiful healthy and happy little girl!