Just having a quick read back
Golden your scan & obgyn apts are Rileys 'original' due dates haha how mad!! From LMP it was 18th July, 12wk scan put him 4 days ahead to 14th
ahhh 14th is only like 2 wks away omg im so excited for you guys!!! I was mega excited for both our 12wk scans
Omg i know the feeling about a mis-shapen Vag after giving birth
apparently it goes back to normal a short while after but pelvic floor muscles should be done straight away or as soon as your able to..! Ooh that reminds me, has your perineal massage oil arrived yet Iak?
Golden, my Ectopic was back in July/August 2013, Riley was just under 13 months old.. Unplanned pg but we wouldve kept it, tbh it probs wouldve ripped us apart as a couple as we werent getting on great.. But nature took care of it before anything else was considered! I started having very light pink spotting days after i found out inwas pg, like 3/4 days later under 6 wks i think, but i was having just really achey period cramps randomly throughout the day, lasting for about 20mins each time & then half hr after the pain stopped i started bleeding, but it stopped looking pinky & went to browny but with fibre bits in, just like fresh prune juice! But because the pain wasnt specific to the side the Ectopic was on my Dr wasnt fussed, just assumed miscarriage & said no to a scan..! Thing is, i was working, noone knew i was pg & i needed to know what was happening as if i suddenly was gonna gush blood, work would not of known what to do! So after me pestering my Drs for nearly TWO weeks!!! Finally, the new lovely lady Dr said i needed to be seen & know where i stand, i was nearly 8wks at this point, the Mat hospital did a Vag scan which was sooooo painful
i had Riley with me crying in the pushchair as my sisters back had gone & she couldnt have him, i still remember it clearly the scan lady saying she had detected the pg but it wasnt in my Uterus, i just freaked because suddenly i instantly was scared of having an operation & not that i was about to lose my baby & my right tube! The mass was huge apparently & there was blood in my tube, do it couldve ruptured st any moment! Eek! They shouldve operated that night but Riley wasnt picked up until nearly 7 from me in hospital & the Op was fone the following day. First time ever having being knocked out for an Op & the post op fas in my tummy & ribs was horrible, SO wasnt really that supportive tbh but he was glad i was ok & not innlife threatening condition etc but he just didnt get it why i was so upset, i was so devastated for ages after like months & months.. Id randomly just feel sad & start crying! I wasnt fussed on having another baby either but its weird as if that didnt happen, i probs wouldnt be pregnant now with baby girl. Its ok, it doesnt bring up bad memories as such, i like to see it as an awareness to others as its sometimes very much overlooked :-/
Mass post sorry lol
floored me that did! I did one at work few wks ago, luckily i was wearing a panty liner lol!!
