Lol, well I didn't test 8 or 9 dpo, caved 10 & 11.... Now I'm holding out. Til friday. Pretty sure af will arrive by then. I don't have cramps, but I have weird pressure, same thing I had with my last pg, although I had it 2 months ago too...
Like my uterus wants to fall out or something. The doc did say to expect a weird af - like opposite. Normally I cramp severely just before, and for cd 1-2....hopefully I won't cramp at all! Also I always start by brown spotting, then within 10 hrs of that af comes on heavy for 2 days then tapers off.
Fx for no cramps and light af!