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[Wugz22]

Nazz we are totally synced up! Our 5th month as well, and it looks like we are both on CD 18 and had a spike today! How did that happen?

 

[Wugz22]

And similar BD pattern! This has got to be a sign that it's both our months!

 

[Angel wings13]

Weird, negative opk. Hope I didn't o yesterday, we only dtd Wednesday! Supposed to last night but I fell asleep! Definitely will tonight though, just hope it's not too late! Yesterday's smiley was odd though - I didn't think the test line was as dark as control. I'm hoping I haven't O'd, maybe it just caught the start of a surge, and I'm still gearing up. Fx!

 

[Nazz4]

I hope you're right wugz! That is totally weird though, I didn't realize you started AF the same day as me until now! We plan on BDing tonight too, and hopefully tomorrow night if OH can handle it lol. He usually can't handle more than every other day so we'll see how my plan goes...

Oddly I haven't had O pain like I normally do. Only yesterday when I was stretching and this morning I sneezed and had the worst O pain ever, I swear it felt like the sneeze forced an egg out. Is that possible or am I totally bonkers?

Gratz on the crib Rose!

Angel and Wugz

 

[PDubs10612]

Congrats on the Crib Anake So exciting to get to start filling up the baby room I bet

Hopefully we get a few more BFPs this month

AFM, had my valve surgery for my heart and the pressure went from 100 to 15 on the right side so that should make a big difference in my energy and hopefully help with my metabolism and weight loss too....plus, safer for baby making now

Sore today, but mostly my throat from the big tube camera they shoved down there...on the popsicle/pudding diet and it feels like I'm getting over mono...taking it easy this month and won't do much until we see the fertility specialist on march 21st

I'm on on CD 55? and think I O'd on CD52, but we weren't trying this cycle due to the procedure, should get AF end of this week or soon after

 

[Angel wings13]

Got a positive opk smiley
This time the lines matched. I think I'm going to toss that other one out, it was only CD 9, and didn't look positive to me. Bd'd early this morning, and probably tonight in my future!

 

[Angel wings13]

Pdubs-- so glad your surgery was a success!

How long is recovery time?

 

[PDubs10612]

recovery is a few days for most things but no dtd for a couple weeks since they went in through the groin and it will be quite core for a while...and pretty bruised

 

[AnakeRose]

Glad your surgery went great PDubs!

I'm finally starting to feel human again. Aside from still being really tired, I feel like myself finally. I need to get out to the grocery store, but my legs won't move lol

 

[Nazz4]

So, my little BD plan didn't work. OH told me to go to bed last night and when he felt like it he would come wake me up, sure enough I wake up at 6 am and he is in the other room playing video games... Then when I went to work this morning I made him a to-do list for the day, and when I got home from work at 5 pm he was STILL asleep!!! Needless to say I was so frustrated with it on top of having a bad day at work. AND THEN he told me that when I ask for sex it turns him off... But a few months ago I would hardly ever ask him for it, and he hated that too... so I give up, I'm done. Probably not pregnant again, and I honestly just don't give a s*** because I'm in such a bad mood. Sorry for the rant ladies, but I don't really have any friends I can talk about all this stuff too I'm gonna go have a nap.

 

[AnakeRose]

So, my little BD plan didn't work. OH told me to go to bed last night and when he felt like it he would come wake me up, sure enough I wake up at 6 am and he is in the other room playing video games... Then when I went to work this morning I made him a to-do list for the day, and when I got home from work at 5 pm he was STILL asleep!!! Needless to say I was so frustrated with it on top of having a bad day at work. AND THEN he told me that when I ask for sex it turns him off... But a few months ago I would hardly ever ask him for it, and he hated that too... so I give up, I'm done. Probably not pregnant again, and I honestly just don't give a s*** because I'm in such a bad mood. Sorry for the rant ladies, but I don't really have any friends I can talk about all this stuff too I'm gonna go have a nap.

that's what we're here for girl

 

[confetti83]

Pdubs hope you have a short recovery I am happy everything went well now rest and charge youself for some serious baby making ;-).

Nazz I had quite a few episodes like yours once I literally broke down crying cause my opk was positive for long and he told me either I was crazy or lying. He was tired worked till midnight and when he saw me waiting for him he gave up . He felt also that it was getting forced.

 

[FTMommy01]

Glad to hear everything went well pdubbs!!

Sorry to hear your having a rough time nazz I hope things get better for you!

There should be a lot of BDing going on for most of you this should be the fun part! lol Im on CD 15 today and no positive OPKs yet, most months I do not O until around CD 20-CD25 though ughhh hate waiting! Its nice to have the digi OPKs though takes so much guessing out. I also have a big tube of preseed to use this month, once I see my OPKs start to get a little darker I will start using that.


Hoping for some BFP's this month!!

 

[PDubs10612]

So, my little BD plan didn't work. OH told me to go to bed last night and when he felt like it he would come wake me up, sure enough I wake up at 6 am and he is in the other room playing video games... Then when I went to work this morning I made him a to-do list for the day, and when I got home from work at 5 pm he was STILL asleep!!! Needless to say I was so frustrated with it on top of having a bad day at work. AND THEN he told me that when I ask for sex it turns him off... But a few months ago I would hardly ever ask him for it, and he hated that too... so I give up, I'm done. Probably not pregnant again, and I honestly just don't give a s*** because I'm in such a bad mood. Sorry for the rant ladies, but I don't really have any friends I can talk about all this stuff too I'm gonna go have a nap.

I totally know how you feel Nazz! OH does that to me all the time...never goes to bed with me due to his later work schedule and is always too tired to have sex unless its the weekend...sleeps in super late and never seems to be able to help out with chores, and always seems to be my fault we never dtd as much as we used to...I know I just get moody sometimes but it makes me feel like if we had a child I'd "be on my own" and that he won't change...makes me want to stop trying sometimes but then we have such wonderful days and I remind myself it won't be like this forever and things will get better...stay positive

 

[PDubs10612]

Thanks everyone for the support, whether it's surgery, relationship problems, or general life frustrations you ladies are always here Positive Vibes bring Positive Moments so come on BFPs for my ladies!

 

[Angel wings13]

2ND positive opk, but had a little temp spike...however, normally my temps are over 98 post-o ...so I'm thinking my temp will go up again. Dtd yesterday and today. Hoping I can get another session before o!

 

[Nazz4]

Thanks guys I'm lucky to have you all! I'm feeling a lot better now. PDubs I know exactly what you mean, mine is on a later work schedule as well and it's the same story... He has been helping more with chores lately though since I've been getting really frustrated with it. I understand that it's a turn off to like "plan" sex, but if we're ttc then it's not going to happen without BDing at the right time... duh! But FF put my crosshairs in on CD 17 which luckily was the day we did BD so at least that's good! Now all I can do is hope and wait...

 

[AnakeRose]

Ugh, you're having trouble with your DH, I'm so frustrated with my mother in law!!

She had a major freakout (happens regularly) when she found out that I'd bought myself a glider rocker. Apparently she had an old rocking chair that belonged to her mom that she wanted to give us. I didn't even know about this chair and I've never seen it. Apparently she's pissed off that I didn't run buying the crib by her before we got it. It was $150 off and they only had 5 in stock. I wouldn't have got it if I'd waited! Oh and she wanted to know why I haven't told her every single detail about my doctors appointments! WTH, I haven't even told my own mother that much information. There's no way I'm telling her that my mom went with me to my last sonogram, MIL would go ballistic!! And....she wants to see the baby name list and approve it before we choose one....where does she get off on that one!? There's no way I'm going to pass up a name because someone with that same name wronged her 20 years ago or something stupid like that. It doesn't help that my DH can't put his foot down when it comes to his mom. I'm just so fricken tired of trying to make her happy all the time.

Oh and we don't visit enough. Hello! we live in a different city and gas is $1.30/L right now (approx $5.00/gal). I haven't even been to MY parents home (again different city) since Christmas!

And she informed me that she wants to have a huge family get together in the middle of September to introduce the baby. I'm going to have to put my foot down on that one if she brings it up again. It's not her baby and I'm not parading it around for her amusement.

I just want to scream!!!

Sorry I think this is a hormone day.

 

[Angel wings13]

Wow, rose I can understand your frustration! Sounds like you have the "typical" crazy monster in law! My own mom can be a bit crazy, but in a different way.....she is always asking me if I remember this or that for one if my boys- or if I called and did "this" yet, etc,etc.... Uh, I put my big girls pants on a loooong time ago! Even with our new house, which Jay is painting the living room thus week - I was telling her about some last minute stuff that came up, and that our plans to get the keys to the new house Friday was going to actually happen Saturday - she says "figures! Not even in yet and already you can't keep your word! "then chuckles..... Uh, our lease begins on MARCH 15, the gut was nice enough to give us a free 2 weeks, but my 6 yr old got the stomach flu and I had to keep him home from school Friday, which changed my shift, and worked out so that instead of Friday evening, weed get the keys Saturday morning. Who cares? We silk weren't going to begin moving and painting till this week! Ugh!

 

[Angel wings13]

This darn phone! Sorry for the typos!