Hannah - Weclome
Pickle - you were having some spotting today? Is that usual? no
faces yet!
Loulou - LOL I'm glad you are getting some good BDing in. 3 days of dark readings? I would go crazy! When are you supposed to ovulate according to your normal charts?
My opk was pink yesterday morning and I think I ovulated by the afternoon. I got really, really tired and was SUPER cranky. I'm still quite cranky. That drop in estrogen really affects me sometimes.
Did not BD yesterday; I was a grumpy, sleepy, snarly mess. I laid in bed like a bump on a lump on a stump all evening.
I am just happy that I got true +'s and that I could read them!
They ended up going - by yesterday afternoon, but I still snuck in some
last night
and I didn't even have to ask!
Yay!!!!
Ok, so you're 2dpo? I'm officially 1dpo (I think), (fertility friend and ovufriend have yet to confirm that), but I'm going to trust the - opk's over a website lol. Are you feeling less grumpy, sleepy, and snarly today?
O time can be rough! The increased sex drive is great if you don't feel like a big pile of shit lol. That's how I felt last cycle, this cycle has been way better
Well the wait for O is over, and now we're officially in the tww...think rainbows and butterflies (positive thoughts
)...When do you think you'll break down and test? Or will you wait?
https://i967.photobucket.com/albums/ae151/dreambaby691/1383508796_zps7f9f2ec3.jpg
I got my smiley face and DH is not around and i don't know when he is coming back. I think that i will O tomorrow afternoon. Guess this cycle is a BL**DY WASH
. Good luck to the rest of u.
I'm sorry Dream! That totally sucks! Your DH goes away for work? Does that happen often? I hope he comes home for you soon!
I also got a positive opk this afternoon, I was so excited to see that blazing test line! We'll see what this evening brings with my OH, maybe I can sweet talk him into some
Wish me luck!
for positive opk, we might O the same day wooooohooooooo. Good luck hun. I am still up waiting for him and I have an early start tomorrow. No it doesn't happen often just this month. Oh well i m kinda sleepy now.
I hope you slept well
I hope the hubby makes it home for you! It'd be awesome if we were on the same schedule! My guess is sometime tonight that I'll o, but idk for sure! I kinda hope it's not til tomorrow cuz I couldn't talk my oh into and bd'ing last night (he was too tired...blah, blah, blah!!!) and I told him to wake me when he got up for some morning bd'ing before work, and he didn't! He's like a damn old man anymore, sleeping by 9 pm every night and too tired for
We're going to have a talk about this tonight, or I may just have a "headache" the next time he wants some lol (as long as that's not today or tomorrow, I'd have to say yes
). Ttc isn't easy with his full cooperation, this just makes it impossible! Grrrr...ok, I feel better, just needed to vent! Lol...onto
and having a good day
Thanks for listening, have a great day!
I can relate to that, my husband works from 630a til 9p, and he needs to be sleeping by 10p to even get 7h of sleep.
My advice?
Men are very simple, easy creatures sexually compared to women, and as women we have a tendancy to 'talk' our way into sex. With men, you have to physically seduce them lol. Just get naked and into bed with him and without words just use your body to turn him on. If I whisper anything, its 'don't worry about me, its okay to come quickly'
LOL who'd have ever thought any female would be actually encouraging her man to come quickly? but hey, real people sometimes dont have time for frills and BD is more business than pleasure if you dont have the luxury of time
Anywhoo, good luck with getting your man on board, I mean seriously is 10-15 minutes too much to spare?
Thanks for being so open about this! I got a kick out of reading this
If my OH knew we talked like this he'd be 50 shades of red
pissed and embarrassed! Time can definitely be an issue, and sometimes a very tough one to deal with!
10-15 mins? I'm not even asking that! LOL
...5 maybe 8
I don't have to tell him to be quick, I have to tell him he can stop after he comes. He usually goes pretty quick, but has the ability to "keep it up" and keep at it. Lately, I'll let him go for 1-2 mins after he comes and then I tell him he doesn't have to keep going, thankfully, I'm usually satisfied and he's relieved/tired and ready to stop
(This is so tmi haha)
And yes men are simple sexually!! Usually, I just have to cuddle with him and he's hard!! I guess sometimes exhaustion wins over tho, so I have to accept that a couple nights a month
I did tell him to start waking me in the morning before he gets out of bed, since mornings are his element, we'll see how that works!
Early. Crushed.
Pickle, I am so sorry!
I almost cried when I read this!!!
I was really hoping this was your month, and everything sounded different and promising, but it obviously wasn't meant to be this month
Keep your chin up babe, I know it's going to be hard to do right now, but stressing will make it worse, and our bodies do crazier things when they are stressed, and you don't need that! Have a drink to wash away the last cycle, then another to celebrate the new one...do something for yourself...I am a dork, so I curl up with a good book and get lost in it...I'm sending you a ton of virtual
and well wishes
I'm confused as ever today - only on cd10 and I started spotting today. AF just ended on Sunday. Wonder if it's possible this is just from bd'ing on Sunday night? I'm not sure what's going on
It could be a hormone imbalance that's causing this. I consulted Dr. Google
I'll try to copy and paste for you:
Hormonal Disorders
Hormonal disorders, such as polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS) and menopause transition, can cause estrogen levels to fluctuate. This fluctuation can make periods less frequent, stop them altogether, change their length and volume, become sporadic or cause spotting. During the transition to menopause (also known as perimenopause), estrogen production gradually decreases over a period of up to two years. During this time, your period may become lighter or more frequent. PCOS causes a rise in hormones called androgens and a decrease in estrogen, which stops ovaries from releasing eggs. This in turn stops the uterine lining from building up. When this happens, menstruation ceases to take place, but a woman might still experience light spotting.
Read more: https://www.ehow.com/about_5436938_causes-menstrual-spotting.html#ixzz2js9nemqL
I know this isn't really an answer for you specifically, but maybe have them test your hormone levels, just so you know. GL