African or African-Americans TTC

Thanks for all the compliments on the ultrasound pic.

Chiles, Good luck with your appointment.

Christy, Maybe you could get a blood test just to be sure.

Welcome, Jehovah! Hopefully you’ll see a BFP soon.

Welcome tp2tasha, thanks for your encouragement what a wonderful story. Congrats on your baby boy!

i'm okay.... i feel like i have waste enough time, enegry and money this cycle..... maybe in a month or so,but i told myself not to worry about it... maybe then af would show?!?!?????:shrug::dohh:
 
hi newbies :)
sorry that i have been so caught up on myself that i didn't even say hi.... thats not the normal thing for me to do.... welcome 1 welcome all :)
 
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Hello everyone. Is it okay if I join? Hubby and I have been TTC for 6 cycles now. I'd love all the support I can get, and I'd love to offer some as well.

you have came to the right spot. the ladies here are wonderful.... if they can hang in there with me you will be just fine lol :hugs:
 
Hello ladies. I just found this thread and wanted to come and encourage everyone. I was unable to get pregnant with my ex as well as my current hysband for a total of 6 years. It was then that i decided to go to an infertility clinic only to find out that because of my weight i had PCOS(which threw off my ovulating) and was a diabetic(throwing off my hormones). My Dr then had me lose a total of 50lbs which still made me a big girl lol. At that time I was put on Clomid to help assist in obulating and get nice big healthy eggs to produce. On my first cycle of clomid and i do admit to using preseed this cycle as well and i was blessed with a BFP. I am currently 31weeks+5 days. I know that prayer plus work is endeed what got me my blessing. I use to pray and just want it to happen when now i see that God needed me to fix some things about my self to help ensure my babys saftey. This is my case and i know everyone has a story. I just want you all to be encouraged and not to give up. I dont know you all but i do feel love for all of you. I want every one to have a chance at being able to feel a mother's love! Be blessed!

i want you to know that your story has truely blessed me this morning :) God bless you and thank you for sharing :)
 
Hello ladies. I just found this thread and wanted to come and encourage everyone. I was unable to get pregnant with my ex as well as my current hysband for a total of 6 years. It was then that i decided to go to an infertility clinic only to find out that because of my weight i had PCOS(which threw off my ovulating) and was a diabetic(throwing off my hormones). My Dr then had me lose a total of 50lbs which still made me a big girl lol. At that time I was put on Clomid to help assist in obulating and get nice big healthy eggs to produce. On my first cycle of clomid and i do admit to using preseed this cycle as well and i was blessed with a BFP. I am currently 31weeks+5 days. I know that prayer plus work is endeed what got me my blessing. I use to pray and just want it to happen when now i see that God needed me to fix some things about my self to help ensure my babys saftey. This is my case and i know everyone has a story. I just want you all to be encouraged and not to give up. I dont know you all but i do feel love for all of you. I want every one to have a chance at being able to feel a mother's love! Be blessed!



WELCOME


Getting in shape (physical, emotionally & mentally) is very important when it comes to conceiving. I as well incorporated healthy eating, no stress, and exercising into my routine and was blessed with a BFP... Of course I used a few extra tricks lol.....but my nurse states that i'm healthy as a "horse" I dunno I thinks its a compliment.:winkwink:

Thank you for the words of encouragement. I see we are neck n neck (im 33 weeks)

good luck
 
Welcome JehovahsGrace.

tp2tasha thanks for sharing! I could stand to lose about 15-20 pounds myself and honestly I have not been eating properly or exercising as I should so you really do have a great point about getting your body right before getting the BFP. I too am taking the delay in my BFP as a sign that I need to do more to get my body right and I'm trying to get back into my workout regimen. Anyways congrats to you on your pregnancy.

christylove - when is your doctor's appointment again? Hopefully it's soon - you really need to get to the bottom of what's going on with AF!!

AFM: Not much new - hubby went away on business until Saturday night so just trying to find ways to kill time until he gets back. We DTD the last 2 nights although it doesn't really matter cause it's too soon for me to get a positive OPK yet. I have an appointment scheduled Monday afternoon with a new high-risk Ob/Gyn. I'm going to talk to her about what happened with my loss last year and get her opinion on how to handle a future pregnancy. I'd like to have a good Ob in place by the time I get pregnant. I have another MFM specialist in mind to go to if things don't work out on Monday so we'll see how it goes.
 
Have any of you ever had a laparoscopy? I'm scheduled to have one next week, and I'm a little anxious about what to expect. My pre-op is on Tuesday so I'll be sure to ask lots of questions then, just wondering if any of you have had the procedure done.
 
Thanks for welcoming me ladies. I will be starting Femara when aunt flow comes.
 
Hello ladies its been all while..all is well with me and I hope all is well with you all too. Welcome to all the new ladies, i hope you all feel at home on this thread!:hugs:
 
Welcome JehovahsGrace.

tp2tasha thanks for sharing! I could stand to lose about 15-20 pounds myself and honestly I have not been eating properly or exercising as I should so you really do have a great point about getting your body right before getting the BFP. I too am taking the delay in my BFP as a sign that I need to do more to get my body right and I'm trying to get back into my workout regimen. Anyways congrats to you on your pregnancy.

christylove - when is your doctor's appointment again? Hopefully it's soon - you really need to get to the bottom of what's going on with AF!!

AFM: Not much new - hubby went away on business until Saturday night so just trying to find ways to kill time until he gets back. We DTD the last 2 nights although it doesn't really matter cause it's too soon for me to get a positive OPK yet. I have an appointment scheduled Monday afternoon with a new high-risk Ob/Gyn. I'm going to talk to her about what happened with my loss last year and get her opinion on how to handle a future pregnancy. I'd like to have a good Ob in place by the time I get pregnant. I have another MFM specialist in mind to go to if things don't work out on Monday so we'll see how it goes.

that is a good question???? still trying to see when i can take some time off.... i used up my pto hours:|
 
Good Morning ladies and God bless... hope you all had a great weekend!!!!!! :)
 
Hey ladies - had my doctor's appointment today. It went really well - I actually really liked her and think that when I do get pregnant I will move forward with her as my OB. She said sooooo many things that really made me feel good. She would monitor me VERY closely and also gave several options of things they would do this time around like progesterone shots, starting me on baby asprin (if needed), doing a stitch (if necessary), seeing me every 2 weeks until I am past the 24 week mark, putting me on bed rest if there are signs of preterm labor, measuring the length of my cervix, testing for bacterial vaginosis frequently, etc. I mean she really alleviated a LOT of my fears. The other thing that I REALLY liked was that she took a LOT of time with me and didn't seem to be rushing me AT ALL. We talked for about 30 minutes and she took time to explain things and also drew pictures, etc. to make it easy for me to understand. I actually feel a lot better now having found someone who I think will take my concerns seriously and who will work hard to ensure that all possible avenues are explored to prevent another loss. She did some blood work to see if I have a Lupus coagulant (?). She will get back to me with the results on that. Now if I can just get preggers!!!
 
Hey ladies - had my doctor's appointment today. It went really well - I actually really liked her and think that when I do get pregnant I will move forward with her as my OB. She said sooooo many things that really made me feel good. She would monitor me VERY closely and also gave several options of things they would do this time around like progesterone shots, starting me on baby asprin (if needed), doing a stitch (if necessary), seeing me every 2 weeks until I am past the 24 week mark, putting me on bed rest if there are signs of preterm labor, measuring the length of my cervix, testing for bacterial vaginosis frequently, etc. I mean she really alleviated a LOT of my fears. The other thing that I REALLY liked was that she took a LOT of time with me and didn't seem to be rushing me AT ALL. We talked for about 30 minutes and she took time to explain things and also drew pictures, etc. to make it easy for me to understand. I actually feel a lot better now having found someone who I think will take my concerns seriously and who will work hard to ensure that all possible avenues are explored to prevent another loss. She did some blood work to see if I have a Lupus coagulant (?). She will get back to me with the results on that. Now if I can just get preggers!!!

i'm so glad that you where blessed with a good doctor:) i here so many ladies that dislike their doctors:) God bless you and baby dust to you :hugs::hugs::hugs:
 
Hey ladies - had my doctor's appointment today. It went really well - I actually really liked her and think that when I do get pregnant I will move forward with her as my OB. She said sooooo many things that really made me feel good. She would monitor me VERY closely and also gave several options of things they would do this time around like progesterone shots, starting me on baby asprin (if needed), doing a stitch (if necessary), seeing me every 2 weeks until I am past the 24 week mark, putting me on bed rest if there are signs of preterm labor, measuring the length of my cervix, testing for bacterial vaginosis frequently, etc. I mean she really alleviated a LOT of my fears. The other thing that I REALLY liked was that she took a LOT of time with me and didn't seem to be rushing me AT ALL. We talked for about 30 minutes and she took time to explain things and also drew pictures, etc. to make it easy for me to understand. I actually feel a lot better now having found someone who I think will take my concerns seriously and who will work hard to ensure that all possible avenues are explored to prevent another loss. She did some blood work to see if I have a Lupus coagulant (?). She will get back to me with the results on that. Now if I can just get preggers!!!

That's great! :thumbup: I can see how not liking your doctor can be stressful. Now you don't have to be concerned about that.
 
Mrs.October, that is great you like your OB. Once you get pregnant that will be one less thing you have to worry about.
 
Hi Ladies! I'm probably a new face to most of you, however I used to frequent this board when hubby and I were TTC our daughter.

I just wanted to introduce myself again. I have a 9 month old baby girl, and am currently on the fence about having another. I want my baby to be a "baby" for awhile before we turn her into a big sister. But the baby phase went by so fast it left me longing for another.

Oh, I also wanted to share with you all what assisted by DH and I in getting pregnant. And that would be Instead Cups. Don't know if you've heard of them, I found out about them on another TTC board. I put one in after DH and I BD'd, kept it in overnight, repeated that every other night for about a week. Mind you, DH and I had been NTNP for three years before we finally were pregnant.

Dust to all you ladies that are TTC, I know what an emotional rollercoaster it can be.
 
Hello ladies,

Mrs. October, glad you like your doctor.

sincerevon, glad to hear from you. Wow time has flown by can't believe she is 9 months already.

Have a good day ladies.
 

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