They're going to stay in and have to be taken out! Plus my cervix was nice and long at my last appointment and as of today I have no signs of preterm labor.
I wouldn't put a boy in pink or even purple though (that's for him to decide when he's older) so will have to avoid pink for now
Like seriously, no asking how I'm doing or the baby or anything? Plus what a question! We now live 45 minutes by car from Copenhagen and would either have to drive back and forth (which would be insane!) or sleep on the camping grounds (like I'm going to do that at 24-25 weeks pregnant) in a little tent plus find a cat sitter for those 3 days. She doesn't even like that type of music and never goes so extra weird question.
She did end up coming that Sunday and didn't really ask anything except how much the stroller and car seat costed, generally how much baby stuff costs and the like. Plus what happens at the 2 scans you get here and when you go to the midwife. She even got into what vitamins to take for TTCing and why and she's not going to TTC for at least 2-3 years
I think the most personal question was if she could see all my maternity clothes DH and I didn't buy much of it so told her there wasn't much to show. Not much interest when we told her about the results of those scans or anything that was about our baby. It was like she was doing research for when she starts TTCing and has a baby. 
And wow so exciting about your sister although it's too bad she needed a C-section. I feel you on wanting to avoid that situation, I'll be finding out at my 32 week scan if my placenta has moved up which would mean I don't need one, at least not a planned one. Will you be starting a childbirth class? I go to my first one with DH on the 12th (there are 3 courses in all).
I think DH and I just need to cut down drastically on how much we see her. I normally don't support abandoning childless friends because I know how that hurts having tried it but in this case, I think we need to semi-abandon her. She's really only about herself, I think it's because she was abandoned by her biological parents at age 3 plus was overprotected by her (hippie) adoptive parents which has left her an emotional mess and emotionally stuck at a much younger age I wonder how long her boyfriend is going to last and if he leaves her at one point, she's going to go into an emotional tailspin and go crazy like she did when her last boyfriend dumped her (although he was no loss as he was both physically and emotionally abusive) I can just imagine her calling us in that case and wanting to live in our house for a while which I just wouldn't be able to take, especially if it's after baby is born
Can you imagine this "woman" having kids??!! To make things worse, she used to talk about how she was looking forward to being an "aunt" for our child, she's not talking anyway that more. Anyway, I'm going to cut down on seeing her, we just seem to be growing further and further apart as the years go by. Hear you on the space issues but as long as baby is so young, you should be able to handle it for a while. But it can't hurt to continue looking at new places to live as it can take a while to find the right one.
But there are some benefits we have here like free health care. We also got our money's worth as we needed assisted conception to get pregnant and here if you're TTC #1 and have been trying naturally for 1 year or more, you get 6 free IUIs and 3 free IVFs. You do pay for meds yourself but the state starts helping you with that expense after a certain limit which we did hit when we started IVF #2. I mentioned I didn't like it but he said that I could take 2-3 days away at another time - like yeah right, I'm gonna do that as I'm planning on breastfeeding for at least 1 year Don't know if I should make it a big deal or hope he finds out once baby is here that it's not the thing for him to disappear for 3 whole days.
). I'm going to let it be for now and when it comes up again, try and negotiate to he can go to some other concerts instead since those are only 1 night. Don't know what's reasonable, 5-6 concerts (or nights away) a year and they can't be consecutive? But here's hoping he'll drop the idea himself by then.
I was only on Crinone gel for 15 days starting from ET and on (as my hormones were normal and they saw no reason for me to keep taking it). Hope someone else knows.
