*** January Jellybeans 2015 *** - join & chat here :) 132 so far!

[Soanxious]

it's same way as my other mc..im heartbroken x

 

[Kiwiberry]

it's same way as my other mc..im heartbroken x

Awwww I am really sorry to hear this. I hope you will be ok sweetie.

 

[Mummy to be x]

Devastated.. just gone to loo and started bleeding im gonna leave this page.. devastated!!

take care girlies x

I'm SO sorry this is just so unfair, can you go and get checked out? Things could still be ok. I'm praying for you xxx

 

[mrs.humphreys]

Devastated.. just gone to loo and started bleeding im gonna leave this page.. devastated!!

take care girlies x

I'm so so sorry Hun xx

 

[Gem13]

Hi, I'm due on Jan 1st with baby number 2. Am very excited and can't wait to have the 12 week scan

 

[Kiwiberry]

Hi, I'm due on Jan 1st with baby number 2. Am very excited and can't wait to have the 12 week scan

Congrats sweetie, and welcome to the group!

 

[Mummy to be x]

Ladies I've just received my dating scan letter it's on the 16th June! I'm feeling positive now, I never received my appointment with my previous pregnancy that sadly ended in a mc. So this maybe a sign that this is my sticky! x

 

[SMandel22]

Devastated.. just gone to loo and started bleeding im gonna leave this page.. devastated!!

take care girlies x

Keeping my fingers crossed for you that it's just normal spotting!!! Hope your little one holds on!!

 

[Soanxious]

my tests are lighter

 

[SCgirl]

Sorry to hear that soanxious. Hope you can take some time to take care of yourself (and maybe have a large glass of wine!). Are you going to follow up with blood tests to confirm? Have you ever had your progesterone checked with the recurrent chemicals?

 

[SCgirl]

I got worried last night when I just felt "off"- like my symptoms disappeared. They're coming back though. Still no blood, sovthis is the farthest I've made it! Hoping the 4th bfp is the charm. I'm scared to death of my first scan- it's going to be a long 6 days! (Going on 6w1d) what if the progesterone is prolonging a doomed pregnancy? Dh is much more optistic than I.

I am exhausted. Yesterday evening food started to seem unappealing to me- there is nothing I want to eat. Actually, all I want is a large glass of red wine (its 8:45am here!), but thats not happening. When I do eat, it doesn't settle well. I'm also getting dizzy spells. Anyone else in a similar place?

 

[xMissxZoiex]

I've started to miscarry, bleeding started a few hours about and already in so much pain.

You all made me feel welcome in the short time I was here, thanks for that. we are no longer going to pursue pregnancy but I wish all of you the best for the future.

So sorry for you!!! praying u get ur rainbow soon!

Thank you, we won't be pursuing pregnancy again, I've had 6 pregnancies 5 ended in miscarriage 1 in stillbirth. Me and my husband are going to move away we bought a perfect family house two years ago lots of spare rooms a huge garden but I can't stand to be here in a family house as a couple. We are going to look for a little cottage near the sea and try be happy just the two of us.

Have the investigated why ? My mum was the same she had me with fertillity drugs after trying 10 years then said she didn't want to try again and my sister surprised her 6 years later

It's impossible to get a doctors appointment here within two weeks and by that time it's too late. I've even been to A&E with one if my other miscarriages and they sent me home to wait it out. I've had fertility treatment which resulted in my angel baby boy. This pregnancy was a surprise, you can't get so much as a blood test here before 6 weeks.

 

[SMandel22]

How do I deal with this???

My in-laws are hoarders. Not the gross kind where the house is filled with empty pizza boxes and shit. But they are shopping addicts. So the house is filled with clothes, computers, cell phones, more clothes, shit from the dollar store, and whatever else you can think of. All of it's brand new, in boxes or bags and stacked in every room from floor to ceiling. (Except their bedroom and their master bathroom.) Generally, that's not a safe environment for a little kid, but that's not even my issue. My issue is the cats. They have 5 of them. Maybe 6, I can't remember. And since their house is filled to the brim with stuff, when the cats get sick or something and puke/crap on the floor, no one can get to it to clean it up, so it just stays there. Imagine this building up over 10-20 years. So when you walk into the house, the smell literally throws you back a little. And it burns your eyes!!!! The last time we were there, I lasted 5 minutes before I had to excuse myself and wait outside. Clearly they are used to it so it doesn't bother them. But this can't be safe in any way. So I told DH that our child will not be allowed in their house until after they get it together. He agrees 100%. But, we're stuck on how to tell them. I have to go to NY when the baby is about 2.5 months old for my BFF's wedding, and I wanted to be able to drop the baby off with them for the wedding night so that they can get in as much time as possible while I'm up there. It helps me out with a sitter and it allows them some alone time with the baby. But this won't happen unless that house is cleaned out and the carpets replaced and whatever else needs to get done to make it a safe environment. (I don't care for all the stuff in the house as clearly LO will still be an infant at the time so he/she can't get into anything. It's the smell and chemicals in the air that have built up for years!!!) How would you ladies handle it? Personally, I would just come right out and say it. I'm fairly blunt when I speak. I don't sugarcoat shit. DH on the other hand isn't looking to insult his parents. And I understand that. But I feel that no matter how we tell them, they will become defensive and upset. I mean, who wouldn't? We're pretty much saying unless you invest a lot of money into cleaning up your house, your grandchild will never be allowed into it. But, I need to do what is best for my child. THAT is my number one priority.

 

[Soanxious]

Can my name be removed from the bfp list please x

 

[Mummy to be x]

Can my name be removed from the bfp list please x

 

[Mummy to be x]

How do I deal with this???

My in-laws are hoarders. Not the gross kind where the house is filled with empty pizza boxes and shit. But they are shopping addicts. So the house is filled with clothes, computers, cell phones, more clothes, shit from the dollar store, and whatever else you can think of. All of it's brand new, in boxes or bags and stacked in every room from floor to ceiling. (Except their bedroom and their master bathroom.) Generally, that's not a safe environment for a little kid, but that's not even my issue. My issue is the cats. They have 5 of them. Maybe 6, I can't remember. And since their house is filled to the brim with stuff, when the cats get sick or something and puke/crap on the floor, no one can get to it to clean it up, so it just stays there. Imagine this building up over 10-20 years. So when you walk into the house, the smell literally throws you back a little. And it burns your eyes!!!! The last time we were there, I lasted 5 minutes before I had to excuse myself and wait outside. Clearly they are used to it so it doesn't bother them. But this can't be safe in any way. So I told DH that our child will not be allowed in their house until after they get it together. He agrees 100%. But, we're stuck on how to tell them. I have to go to NY when the baby is about 2.5 months old for my BFF's wedding, and I wanted to be able to drop the baby off with them for the wedding night so that they can get in as much time as possible while I'm up there. It helps me out with a sitter and it allows them some alone time with the baby. But this won't happen unless that house is cleaned out and the carpets replaced and whatever else needs to get done to make it a safe environment. (I don't care for all the stuff in the house as clearly LO will still be an infant at the time so he/she can't get into anything. It's the smell and chemicals in the air that have built up for years!!!) How would you ladies handle it? Personally, I would just come right out and say it. I'm fairly blunt when I speak. I don't sugarcoat shit. DH on the other hand isn't looking to insult his parents. And I understand that. But I feel that no matter how we tell them, they will become defensive and upset. I mean, who wouldn't? We're pretty much saying unless you invest a lot of money into cleaning up your house, your grandchild will never be allowed into it. But, I need to do what is best for my child. THAT is my number one priority.

I think in this situation you can't really say it in a nice way Hun, I'd just come out with it, it's your child's health at the end of the day. I'd just say it nicely and maybe offer your help to clean the place? Or get hubby to do that because cat poop is dangerous to pregnant ladies xx

 

[SMandel22]

How do I deal with this???

My in-laws are hoarders. Not the gross kind where the house is filled with empty pizza boxes and shit. But they are shopping addicts. So the house is filled with clothes, computers, cell phones, more clothes, shit from the dollar store, and whatever else you can think of. All of it's brand new, in boxes or bags and stacked in every room from floor to ceiling. (Except their bedroom and their master bathroom.) Generally, that's not a safe environment for a little kid, but that's not even my issue. My issue is the cats. They have 5 of them. Maybe 6, I can't remember. And since their house is filled to the brim with stuff, when the cats get sick or something and puke/crap on the floor, no one can get to it to clean it up, so it just stays there. Imagine this building up over 10-20 years. So when you walk into the house, the smell literally throws you back a little. And it burns your eyes!!!! The last time we were there, I lasted 5 minutes before I had to excuse myself and wait outside. Clearly they are used to it so it doesn't bother them. But this can't be safe in any way. So I told DH that our child will not be allowed in their house until after they get it together. He agrees 100%. But, we're stuck on how to tell them. I have to go to NY when the baby is about 2.5 months old for my BFF's wedding, and I wanted to be able to drop the baby off with them for the wedding night so that they can get in as much time as possible while I'm up there. It helps me out with a sitter and it allows them some alone time with the baby. But this won't happen unless that house is cleaned out and the carpets replaced and whatever else needs to get done to make it a safe environment. (I don't care for all the stuff in the house as clearly LO will still be an infant at the time so he/she can't get into anything. It's the smell and chemicals in the air that have built up for years!!!) How would you ladies handle it? Personally, I would just come right out and say it. I'm fairly blunt when I speak. I don't sugarcoat shit. DH on the other hand isn't looking to insult his parents. And I understand that. But I feel that no matter how we tell them, they will become defensive and upset. I mean, who wouldn't? We're pretty much saying unless you invest a lot of money into cleaning up your house, your grandchild will never be allowed into it. But, I need to do what is best for my child. THAT is my number one priority.

I think in this situation you can't really say it in a nice way Hun, I'd just come out with it, it's your child's health at the end of the day. I'd just say it nicely and maybe offer your help to clean the place? Or get hubby to do that because cat poop is dangerous to pregnant ladies xx

We live 600 miles apart. So neither one of us could really help. I think you're right that no matter how we approach it, it's not going to be too nice. Ugh! Think I'll just let hubby handle this one.

 

[mrs.humphreys]

Afternoon, well I've managed to hide my bump again, super hot here today & went out with some of the mums from school for lunch & none of them guessed! Yay but then when I got home I've had my letter through for my dating scan 5th June I'm thinking that may be abit soon depending on the dates I'm given at my scan on Monday! But at least for now it's another date to look forward too haha. How's everyone feeling? I've had a few dizzy spells today but the sickness has been bearable & I've managed to eat something so that's an improvement in yesterday xx

 

[Pix]

My Gummie bear has a heartbeat!! Just got back from my scan and all is perfect! I bawled. Only a handful of weeks then I can feel completely in the clear. (Gotta figure out how to shrink an image to post it.)

Milestone down. *whew*

(((( hugs )))) to the mamas with losses. Nothing is harder. I'm so sorry.

 

[sunshine85]

I'm so bloated I wore my maternity pants to a conference today. TIM ALERT:anyone else having bad diarrhea. My stomach cramps so bad I think I'm having a miscarriage, but no bleeding-just diarrhea. I have no other symptoms. I sometimes wonder if I'm really pregnant.

Same here on the diarrhea cha cha cha! Ugh the stomach cramps killing me.