New Year 2012 babies

[Kimbre]

maria i am the same way. i wont test wont test then i do and convince myself its just early....ugh!

 

[schoolteacher]

I got AF yesterday! oh well.x

 

[MariaF]

ST -

Im due tomorrow or saturday. Feeling very crampy so she'll sure be here just in time for the weekend And we have a busy one so that's even worse.
Just 3 months left till our 2 year TTC mark....I don't know why but this thought makes me really sad

Sorry for the rant and not much positivity, girls

 

[Rivetkitten]

ST... Sorry about Af.

Maria: I think it's that time of the year really. The incoming arrival of the 2 year mark has been difficult.

Ao30: I stopped taking the soy.. After 2 months at the higher dose, it didn't make me pregnant at all so I just don't think it worked. I never got any of the symptoms any of the girls spoke about (Pains etc) except increased EWCM... I don't think ovulation is my problem. I don't know what is. I just don't think we're meant to get pregnant.

Anyway...it's all over now. I know that this month is over and I know we won't TTC from here now. I'm really sad about it

 

[Traskey]

For all on this thread.

for those who have bfn or on the way

for LTTC, the suckiest thing on the planet. I know it's not good grammar but I felt it rather fitting in the circumstances.

I'm not sure who these people are that miraculously get a bfp but i'd love to know how they do it.

AO, for a sticky bean.

 

[MariaF]

Kitten - why are stopping TTC? Are you actually going to use contraception or just stop the active trying?

I know - that's exactly how I feel - I don't see us with kids, it's like it's not meant to be
Trask - yep, especially if they had BD once in the month, just after af or just before af and STILL got a BFP which they didn't even want

 

[Traskey]

Maria, would they refer you for IVF/ICSI? Seems like they've tried all the other options.

 

[MariaF]

Yep, we've just had free NHS referral (everything so far has been done privately because Sussex had no funding). So our first free FS appointment is next friday. Good news is that it's with the same Dr who we saw privately So he should know all our history and realise that IUI/IVF is the only option for us.

Ive already had 1 IUI and I don't mind having 2 more of those. But Im not mentally ready for IVF yet

 

[Traskey]

Oh, that's good news. At least you won't have to go through all your history and you won't feel anxious with a strange doctor.

Good luck for next week. I understand how you feel about the IVF, it's a difficult step to take.

 

[Rivetkitten]

MariaF... Contraception... We're just not going to bother actually trying any longer. My husband isn't really overly interested in sex tbh. He makes a huge effort for us ttcing but after O'ing there usually isn't any to be seen until the next month if he can help it. He's never had a huge sex drive. When we don't try, we can just mill along and weeks can pass without The likelihood of us ever getting pregnant is very slim. We've never used contraception in our entire marriage before we TTC'd, never had a scare...never had an accident.

 

[lissa110]

Rivet- Im sorry to hear about you stopping ttc, hopefully it will be a break and then maybe a baby will just happen.

I am actually showing more signs that match other pregnant symptoms so I am just going to follow the chart which says I am at day 14 I will probably get a test next week or so.

 

[MariaF]

Oh Kitten, I'm so sorry I though may be there was a reason (like medical) why you had to stop hence the thought about contraception. Do you know, I'd love to also just stop. I really hope we do get referred for IVF for sure and ill know that we don't have a chance without it. At least then we can hopefully stop "trying"! I'm sick and tired of pills, supplements, BBT, pee sticks, injections, blood tests nearly monthly and worst of all the daily drama of symptom spotting!

All I want now isn't a BFP but one month (yes, just the one) when I can go back to pre-ttc me - carefree, happy, free! Have sex if and when we want to and just stop worrying! Its so emotionally draining!
But knowing what an addict I am when it comes to ttc I'm sure ill be trotting to the pharmacy on monday for more opk's

 

[schoolteacher]

Rivet- Im sorry to hear about you stopping ttc, hopefully it will be a break and then maybe a baby will just happen.

I agree rivet-they say it happens when you least expect it........may just take longer with your partners low sex drive. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[schoolteacher]

Hey girlies! How are we all? I managed to get over AF arriving fairly quickly thankfully as its so draining to be upset. The last time I was really upset was when the possibility of us all having 2011 babies went by. I'm dreading still not being pregnant by our 1 year wedding anniversary as it will just hi-light how mcuh time has passed in total before and after being married with no success!
xx

 

[MariaF]

ST - I was like that. I was hoping to get a BFP for our 1st anniversary.... That was a year ago. Our 2nd wedding anniversary is on Monday and it still hadn't happened... May be for the 3d one?!

I sure hope you'll get yours zoo! Still a couple of chances for you

CD1 for me today...

 

[Traskey]

OV for me today.

I've hit my weight loss goal so am now eligible for IVF/ICSI. Just two more weeks to wait until we get to the FS again and they write that letter!

 

[MariaF]

WHOA! Well done Trask You must be so proud!

Looks like it's appointment time for a few of us - ST on Thursday, me on Friday and you in 2 weeks! Hopefully it'll bring some good news soon

 

[Traskey]

Yay, I really think we ALL deserve some good news soon and fingers crossed!

 

[schoolteacher]

OV for me today.

I've hit my weight loss goal so am now eligible for IVF/ICSI. Just two more weeks to wait until we get to the FS again and they write that letter!

Woohoo!!!! that is brilliant Traskey!!! well-done you! What a brilliant feeling to know that you are now eligible!
I just need to lose one flippin stone-come on me and my lazy butt! lol!x

 

[Armywife84]

Dear 2011,

I've got 3 more cycles to conceive a 2012 baby. My husband is deploying Sept. 10. Let's try to work together on getting me a bean at the end of this cycle or the next 2.

Although it means no more trying naturally for a year, it also means I can start saving deployment $ to fund IVF. But having to wait for a year is going to be torturous, when my biological time clock started ticking 2 years ago!!

I know I'm asking the near impossible here..but please, please, please, give me a before my husband leaves for Afghanistan!!!