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. They also have a sister clinic about 20 miles from here with an awesome fertility doc as well and thats probably the one ill be choosing. They were the best while I was pregnant with Aiden and they were much more advanced at their facility compared to the one I normally go to to see my regular OB. The only other place we are thinking about is "Boston IVF". Ive read alot of good things about them and they're def a top choice BUT I need to make sure they take my insurance first. I'm sure they will. I'm going to keep researching success rates and particular doctors in those practices and hopefully I will find the one who can make our bean extra sticky our first try . I read for a women under 35, in general its about a 49% chance of IVF working for someone who has never been pregnant and for someone, like myself, who has carried one child to term, those odds go up even higher. That's def a good chance and as long as I'm doing everything possible to boost those odds on my end, there shouldn't be too much going against us. FX! I'm almost 26 and DH 25 so we def have the age factor on our side, Which is great considering our time frame. Had I of known I had IVF available over the last year, I would have already done however many rounds it may have taken. The pressure is going to be on while we're praying the 1 & only round works. I'm going to do my absolute best to just relax when the time comes though. The factors that can affect IVF from succeeding over 95%of the time are things that the doctor doing the procedure doesn't quite do right or chromosomal abnormalities, usually due to improper fertilization or a weak egg, and the other 5% is uterine related. I know mine wouldn't be uterine related and thats why I'm so very obsessed with finding the best doctor around to do the IVF for us. If I find a doc who's a PRO at the fertilization process and if we have them transfer 2 embryo's instead of 1, I feel in my heart that at least one of them will have a huge chance of attaching correctly. The odds go up when you transfer 2 embryos. Not by a whole lot but with two, there's more chance that at least one will have no chromosomal abnormalities and will be healthy enough to stick. Sorry for the rambling, if you cant tell, I'm still overly excited! My mind has been going nuts ALL DAY thinking about the process getting started! I wish id have 1 wacky cycle and O super early just so my 7dpo bloods can be done! Lol. Only 17 days or so and those bloods should be taken care of & we can go on to the good part. Again, sorry for blabbering, I'm great at writing short stories! 
. . Plus I really want you personally to get a better idea of your own cycles. It'll help a ton! Are u ATTC again or just NTNP for a few more months? Just wondering if ur temping in advance or if your ATTC this cycle too. Either way doesn't matter, just curious . 
Haha I love it! It definitely makes sense. I can't wait to hear what happens
GL!
This is what I look like right now! Lol. But Its probably still bloating from AF cruelly showing up on you. Some days, even before O, I bloat soo incredibly much but then I think to myself "I haven't even Oed yet!" so I ignore it but after O, its a bit harder to ignore since I'm looking for it lol. Ive noticed alot of the same twinges before O as I get after O, I'm just usually not thinking about it before O so I don't think anything of it. Also, twinges ur feeling could very well be ur ovaries getting ready to pop out an egg. I had twinges today and I wont be oing for 8-9 days. What CD are u on? We wont know until ur temp rises but if this is going to be one of ur 26 day cycles, odds are good that u are in ur fertile period OR if its going to be a 30 day cycle, u may be about to enter your fertile phase. I have a gift at helping people pin-point their fertile days. I've been obsessing over everyone else's cycles to keep my mind off of my own for so long now, lol. After u tell me what CD ur on, ill see what info I have for you
PS, if ur past CD12, there's a chance O could have occurred as well and could be causing the bloating. This is if your looking at a 26 day cycle. Now that u'll be temping, ull be able to tell if you have O'ed and you wont be wondering if a test was correct or what not because ur temp will drop when AF comes if ur not pregnant. If it weren't for temping for me, there would have been quite a few cycles where I would have sworn I was pregnant even tho the tests and AF said not pregnant. I just FELT and looked pregnant (kinda like how I'm feeling now) but because my temp is low, I know there's no way I'm pregnant and its just hormones messing with me. I hate to see you torture yourself wondering about last cycle for so long. I really feel so bad because I know how it can be. Your taking the right steps temping and then you won't be tortured by the mix signs and everything in the future, except for after O of course, as the TWW is never really easy. There's nothing worse then having the confusion of a past cycle continue to taunt you. If I were you, id think of this cycle & temping as a fresh start to TTC and focus on the future cycles and what you can do to up your own personal odds and dont let urself hold on to past cycles. Dont take that wrong. Ive been in ur shoe's & just want to help. I like to look at every cycle as a new, fresh shot at a BFP. I don't think I could get through TTC month after month without that mind frame. But anyway, I'm pretty positive u O'ed late last cycle, causing a later AF due date because you said your cycle length differs, which means ur O day is def differing as well. O day each cycle is key to determining when AF will truly be due. In my opinion, you had a normal cycle last month, just lots of cramps. You may have even had an annov cycle last month, as that can cause random spotting and late or early AF as well. There's many possibilities but again, temping will solve those questions. I'm veryyy interested in seeing how ur first temping cycle goes. Ill be chart stalking, if theres a link for it! I cant wait to see if I estimated ur O days right and such
TONS AND TONS OF BABY DUST TO YOU HUN!
Also mommysylvia, did u count CD1 as the first day u had a light "flow", whether it was super light or heavy? Just wondering how u marked last cycle or when u marked it as a new cycle I should say. I know u had some spotting but then u had some light bleeding... Did u count the light bleeding as the start to a new cycle? My doctors and everything I've read says that CD1 is the first day of any sort of flow, rather than just spotting. Clearly many women spot before AF and that confuses many women on when to mark it as a new cycle, especially with the chance of IB so again, just tying to help u get things in order, if you need the help that is.
I will be sharing it with y'all soon! Thank you so much for the info ❤
no way I am paying out of pocket if I don't have to! I feel very strongly you'll have a BFP soon
