Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[aidensmommy1]

I am getting so excited for everyone. I had some spotting with morning eeeks. Nothing since but we will see. Hopefully it is implantation. I will wait three more days before I test if no AF. I am hoping we all get BFP. If I start AF then I will start temping and go from there.

Fx!!! I had spotting with my daughter from implantation THE DAY I got my BFP... Yeah, that was a bit scary! Lol. But my fertility specialist said All women has a "puddle" of blood build up when implantation occurs and many women don't actually see any of the blood and the body absorbs it but 30% of us do see the spotting/bleeding from it. So if u get the urge to test, it's still possible for a BFP sooner then a couple of days. A lot of people will say you can only get a BFP 2 days after IB but I'm living proof that it can happen After a BFP too Also I had my IB at 10dpo so your pretty close in your cycle to where I was when I got it. Fx you won't have to learn about temping and get that big fat positive beforehand! But make sure you post a pic of your test for us to gaze at

 

[Michellebelle]

7 little follicles growing. 3 that are 14, 1 that is 12 and 3 that are 10.

I do 3 more days of menopur then back on Friday to see when to trigger. Hoping for some good, healthy growth between now and then!

 

[froggyfrog]

That's a lot of good sized follies michelle. Are yall just bding?

 

[Michellebelle]

Yup! Keeping it simple. As simple as can be with all the meds haha

 

[aidensmommy1]

Those really are some good size follies Michelle! Mine were between 12-15 just a few days before triggering and most of the follies seen ended up being mature and everything. I have a good feeling that at least 1 of those follies will be your sticky bean! Fx! (Let's just hope you don't end up with quadruplets though! Haha)

 

[Countdown28]

Well that was short lived lol. AF arrived today. Cd 38 so technically on time.

 

[froggyfrog]

Countdown, I never got deep into temping because my Temps were always all over the place, which I now blame on my thyroid. But I did do opks every month. I think relying on an app doesn't give you a fair chance to concieve. I have seen so many people join our group over the last few years that didn't temp, and Mary talked them into it, and when they started and learned their true cycle they got pregnant. If temping doesn't work out for you, or your schedule doesn't allow for consistent temping, I would definitely at least use opks. I prefer the clear blue digital ones, just because it takes the guess work out. But I would definitely add something to you app.

 

[aidensmommy1]

I'm sorry AF showed, countdown .

Now we know though that my "guess-timate" of you having a 12 day LP was probably right since u had O pains on CD24 so in a normal 32 day cycle for you if you make sure you BD at least every other day between CD16-22, you'll have good chances of catching that egg. I made your fertile window a day longer for you incase O occurs a little early or late. If you aren't ready to start temping, you could try that schedule this month but without temping I'd probably go with an 8 day fertile period and BD from CD16-CD24 just for safe measures incase you happen to O a little later again and so you have the best odds no matter what . Do you know if you'll be temping yet? it won't let you know you've Oed until after O happens but it confirms O occurred & it's handy to use OPKs along with temping, at least for the first few months while you learn your usual O pattern. Plus it'll teach you whether you have s healthy LP and what not. Plus it's fun! No matter what you chose to use as a technique this cycle, I wish you a ton of luck and baby dust! I hope this crazy road of TTC ends quickly for you and you get your sticky bean in no time!! Fx!

 

[aidensmommy1]

I just saw your post Chelsey lol

I did talk A LOT of women into temping over the years and all the ones that didn't have an underlying issue of some sort got their bfps anywhere from 1 to 4 months after temping because they were able to BD until they saw that temp rise to confirm O has truly passed. Most women are off on their O day due to apps and such and so temping can def make it happen much quicker for a lot of couples. I know I was off on my O day before I started temping and I used a fertility app as well. It's def a helpful at home TTC tool!

 

[TTC74]

BFN at 9 DPO foe me. I know there is still time. I was just hopeful for an early BFP this month - Father's Day and all.

 

[aidensmommy1]

I'm sorry you didn't get an early BFP Angela But my hopes are high that you'll see your BFP still.. Maybe you'll get a BFP by Friday/Saturday, JUST in time to share the good news for Father's Day fx!

 

[Countdown28]

Fingers crossed TTC.
Thank you Aidensmommy! When should I start temping? After AF? Also to be honest I have lived a pretty in healthy lifestyle eating out almost twice a day everyday. When I finally saw EWCM it was a week after I cut out all fast food but a pizza on Saturdays. So I am wondering if that's why I O'd so late. This was the first time in a long time Since I had seen EWCM.

 

[aidensmommy1]

That could def be the reason for you Oing late. Making changes in your diet can def change your cycle up at first. That's probably exactly what happened this past cycle.

As for temping, I usually don't temp during AF and then when I'm only spotting i start temping then. I temp vaginally just because it gives a more accurate temps but if your more comfortable taking your temp by mouth, that's ok too . The only reason I suggest vaginally is because some of us are "open mouth" breathers which can potentially affect your temp a little bit. I started out temping by mouth and although it worked pretty good for me, vaginally is just a tad bit more readable.

 

[TTC74]

This morning's test. I'm unsure if there is anything there. I will say that my temp went up a tiny bit today and I have dry cm (which is a pregnancy sign for me). Also, I was very emotional this morning.

 

[TTC74]

Guys . . .

 

[TTC74]

I can't wait until later/tomorrow to see if I get a real line! Here is the negative of the wondfo (since the pic doesn't really capture it that well).

 

[Michellebelle]

I feel like I definitely see a line on the wondfo! I hope my eyes aren't just playing tricks on me. Excited to see more tests!

 

[froggyfrog]

I think I see something fx!

 

[TTC74]

Hcg - 3. I took an FRER and it looked pos IRL. I'm crushed.

 

[froggyfrog]

You had betas drawn?