Af due Thursday, caved and tested this am. BFN.
shouldn't have tested at all. Should've waited to see if AF showed up.
Now im discouraged and crying ... this is torture. If I hadn't mc'd, we'd be finding out the gender soon. I don't know if ill ever stop crying, unless I get another BFP...
good luck to you guys!
I can safely say we all get discouraged when we see that BFN! I ha a blighted ovum in April 2010 and ever since the. I have been trying to get pregnant but no luck yet. I say keep your head up and have faith because it takes a strong woman to continue on trying and an even stronger woman to go through all her emotions and still have faith to move on but never forget where she came from. Good luck to you and how many dpo are you?
Thanks to both you and freakles for the support. this forum makes me feel a bit less alone.
as far as dpo, its all a bit of an estimation, which makes it worse
I had my d & c on Dec 14th, to stop the bleeding.. then got AF on Jan 7-10 (kind of short for me...by a day or so, i just assume its bc my body getting back into the swing of things.) I dont chart and i havent used an opk, so who knows if i even ovulated? i used some app for my phone (called "my days" period and ovulation calendar) and it predicted id be ovulating probably around Jan 21, and most fertile between jan 16-21. Probably not the most accurate method, especially after a miscarriage, but i wasnt quite ready to dive into charting bbt, or opks... we Bd 4 of the 6 "fertile days." and a few other times before and after the fertile days...but i suppose this wasnt the best approach.. I did have some crampimg on the 19-21st of this month..so hopefully i did O?
since then i have had some seriously dry and itchy nipples (sorry if TMI) and ridiculous insomnia (probably nerves or anxiety about the wait or depression?) a bit wet feeling down there...and as of the past day or 2 ive been a bit crampy too. probably AF coming....maybe not?
i have been a bit woozy too, but not sure if its all in my head? i usually get nauseaus if im hungry, ive noticed.
just so tired of being sad, as im sure you guys can appreciate. any advice would be awesome.
I hope you guys all get your BFP this month!!! Its apt to happen soon right? Just gotta stay strong