I'll try and post this again, this is the 4th time now, why wont it post for heavens sake?!:
Coral, yeah I wasn't massive on that section either. My plan with mine was to feed laying down in bed, maybe doze a bit whilst feeding. Then I'd sit up and wind them and put them back to bed. I co-slept with my first, and regretted it massively, he wouldn't sleep on his own at all. So really, I say ignore that section, she know's her BF stuff but the sleeping stuff is way too relaxed if you want a bubba you can actually put down on their own. I also quite like G. Ford who she slates

Whilst I think her routine's ARE too rigid, using them as a guide and aiming for similar timings etc really helped mine to settle x
You might see my eldest today Coral, he's going to the fete with DH dad. Please excuse the state of him

he sat in his PJ's all morning, then got up 1 min before DH's dad was coming to get dressed. He went out wearing a creased tee, and hair all dorky, with crusty bits of esterdays hair gel in it

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