good grief you up early today MC and i'm up WAY TOO LATE!!!
dh had me watching a horror flick with him and now i can't sleep!! plus i had a very busy, but exciting day!!!
(i'll explain in a mo...)
dang, i'm sorry i missed you poppy
i've been dying to get on all day and just had such a crazy day, this is the first chance i've had to bring up bnb. pfft. travel safe sweetie and i can't wait to have you back
tink, i'm sorry your dh was being a turd today (yesterday)...men. pfft. they just don't know what to let up sometimes.
puppy, i hope you had a lovely time celebrating your gramp's birthday
lew, that IS true about low pressure systems and labor...more women go into labor during hurricanes down here...
not long for you though!!
caz
i hope this is your cycle sweetie
damita, when is your FS appt hun? so excited for you graduating and all!!
i hope you find a job soon sweetie
coral only THREE more sleeps for you now!!!
hopes, don't pay attention to your MIL/SIL at all. terrible of them to not be supportive. if you go through labor without meds...awesome!! if you go through labor with meds or epidural...awesome!! either way, you're gonna get through it and have the most amazing experience and perfect ending!!
but don't listen to anybody who says it can't be done. just do your best, listen to what your body needs, and go with the flow. you can't go wrong that way!
i've done all of mine so far w/o meds, but who knows what this next one will be like
my mom did 7 out 8 labors w/o meds. i have 4 sisters... 2 had all c-sections due to complications/other medical issues. 1 has done all her labors w/o pain meds (3 labors-4 babies--1 set of twins) and 1 is a self-proclaimed "marshmallow" and chose the epidural right off the bat. her perspective is if you don't have to have the pain, then why do it? and i am proud of her just as much as i am of my sister who did it w/o meds and my sisters who've had the c-sections. going through the pg and giving birth is an accomplishment like no other. if your goal is to do it w/o meds, then go for it and don't let anyone dampen your determination b/c they chose differently. but stay open-minded too for your options b/c it is a world of "unknowns" until you're actually doing it.
it'll all be just fine.
afm, ...........................
hey girls!!!!!! guess what!!!!! i got my schedule today!!!! eeeeeeekkk!!!! whooohoooooo!!!!!! and i'll be starting bcp's THIS SUNDAY!!!! double whooooohooooo!!!!!!!!! lol
we were so busy with the new house today, i totally was not expecting to get anything about the schedule until next week some time, but i got an email from my nurse today. she said to start the bcp's on Sunday and i'll start lupron (this med is to stop ov from happening while your follicles continue to mature and grow) on aug 15th!!! earlier than i was expecting, so i am SO excited!!!! the rest of the schedule is pretty much the same...my dates for mock transfer and SHG (Aug 11--this is when the doc basically measures my uterus internally using a catheter and measures how far to place the catheter for the embryo transfer and and the HSG is a procedure where they fill your uterus with saline to check for abnormalities that would interfere with implantation) and baseline u/s and bloodwork (Aug 30--these are to measure my follies to make sure they are all small and no cysts and such before we start the ov stimming drugs) are staying the same. they will also draw bloods this day to check my estrogen and other hormone levels for the stimming b/c while they give me a specific dose to start with, i will have to go back to the office for bloods and u/s something like every other day b/c they have to monitor levels and size of follies very closely and will adjust meds up or down as needed. i will start stimming on Sept 2nd. Anyway, so stims continue until trigger shot (this is to actually trigger ov) but you have to go for egg retrieval (ER) the very next morning b/c they have to catch the eggs right before they are released from the follies. Then ER on Sept 13 or 14 (tentative). Then i will have to start progesterone and estrogen supplements along with baby aspirin, antibiotics and short-term steroids...some for the extra support but also to prevent infection, etc... Then ET (embryo transfer) 3-5 days after ER. Pg blood draw will not be until ER day +17 days. ugh. that's going to be sooooo difficult. extra long 2ww.
anyway, WOW. i can't believe we're getting this ball rolling so much sooner!!! yay!!! i am just SO excited. plus, the pharmacy called me today. they are running my insurance to see if they will cover any of it. the pharmacy said even if my ins won't cover things like the stimming meds, that it probably will cover the progesterone and stuff like that. i hope so. every little bit will help for sure! so she's checking into that for me and is supposed to get back to me by monday at the latest.
oh my gosh i can't believe this is all starting and happening!!! it's going to be so hard to actually "put our money where our mouth is" (pun intended ) now that we have this ball rolling...just not knowing how it will turn out and seeing our savings drop so dramatically, but i am just praying this will be it for us! ok, i know that was a lot to take in, so i'll put a simple schedule below.
anyway, we had carpets cleaned at the new house today. then it rained most all day, so we hung out at Barnes and Noble with the kids, but i found this PERFECT bedroom suite for dd3 on craig's list for $175!!! sleigh bed w/mattres, nightstand, dresser w/mirror, and desk w/hutch!!! natural light pine with flowers painted on the headboard, nightstand, etc. AWESOME!!!
so we went to pick that up right away and moved it into the new house. only 3 more bedrooms to go
i'll take some piccy's and post soon. so i'm exhausted but had a WONDERFUL day!
ok, so schedule:
July 10: start bcp's
Aug 11: mock transfer/sono HSG
Aug 15: start Lupron (med to prevent ov)
Aug 17: last bcp
Aug 30: baseline u/s & bloodwork
Sept 2: start ov stimming meds
night before ER: trigger shot
Sept 13 or 14 (tentative): ER (egg retrieval--this is outpatient surgery under full anesthesia)
day after ER: start prog/estrog etc
3-5 days post ER: embryo transfer day
17 days post ER: pg blood test (eeeeeekkkk!!!)
oh btw, all the stimming meds, lupron etc...all shots...3 a day i think. ugh. poppy, i'll be joining you in the daily jabs for a while...