November Fall Testers (107)... (22) BFPs! Here we are! Find your TTC/Buddy!

[lizlovelust]

bfn again this morning wth... my temps still high anf no af

 

[lizlovelust]

https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test-gallery/my-pregnancy-test71588

see bfn im sure af will show tomorrow

 

[tmcrowe]

https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test-gallery/my-pregnancy-test71588

see bfn im sure af will show tomorrow

I'm sorry hon, hopefully she keeps face away!

 

[lizlovelust]

I just dont get it, I know two eggs dropped and we bded perfectly , amd my temps high. I just dont understamd

 

[tmcrowe]

AF arrived this morning for me... until next month ladies!

Good luck to all!

Good luck next month!

 

[tmcrowe]

Crystal / Liz - I'm keeping my fingers crossed for the both of you! Sending all the I possible can both your ways!

Liz, i'm so sorry you're having a difficult time. If only our minds would allow us to wait the full 2ww to see if AF is going to show her face or not. We all find out comfort different ways, seeing that bfn breaks my heart, and i'm sure it does the same to you guys. Lot's of hugs too all

As for me, I totally got my O date wrong. I can't believe I did that but I guess that's what I get for not fully charting. I keep a calendar etc, and we did indeeed Bd'd at my highest fertile day, so that's a great sign. However, I am actually only 12dpo today. I woke up this morning with mild cramping and when I went to the BR ( tmi warning ) when wipping I noticed a scanty amount of pinkish discharge mixed in with my CM. Nothing so far since, and that was several hours ago. I am due for AF Tuesday. I am still cramping a little. Feeling really nauseous, and when dh brought me coffee, I absolutely could not drink it. Hmm.. not sure yet ladies. AF is always on time, and I NEVER spot before. I guess only time will tell, because I am too afraid to see another bfn..

 

[Dantz]

I'm 12dpo, AF was due either yesterday or today and so far I keep getting bfn's. I was sure she would show her face this morning (she always comes in the morning for me) due to my gas (sorry) yesterday, but so far she hasn't. My boobs are so sore, which is also a sure sign of AF for me. So weird. Part of me wishes she would stay away but another part of me wishes she would hurry up and get here so I can try again asap. I never thought I'd say that it took us more than 6 months to conceive ='( Five has always been my lucky number. Ugh. How long did you all wait to go to the doctor?

 

[tmcrowe]

I'm 12dpo, AF was due either yesterday or today and so far I keep getting bfn's. I was sure she would show her face this morning (she always comes in the morning for me) due to my gas (sorry) yesterday, but so far she hasn't. My boobs are so sore, which is also a sure sign of AF for me. So weird. Part of me wishes she would stay away but another part of me wishes she would hurry up and get here so I can try again asap. I never thought I'd say that it took us more than 6 months to conceive ='( Five has always been my lucky number. Ugh. How long did you all wait to go to the doctor?

Hi there,

It took my sister and brother-n-law a little over a year to conceive with their first. They were getting so discouraged and really giving up. They started to not let it take full control of lives anymore and just "DTD" and if it happened, then Yay! They conceived in less than 2 months once the stress died down from trying for so long. Also, they had found out once they were pg that one of the biggest reason that could have contributed to them not conceiving in the time they were trying the hardest was because her husband had been in an accident was constantly having to have MRI's done and all the pain killers...

Best of luck to you.! By AF not showing her face yet, you still have a very good chance!

 

[Dantz]

I'm 12dpo, AF was due either yesterday or today and so far I keep getting bfn's. I was sure she would show her face this morning (she always comes in the morning for me) due to my gas (sorry) yesterday, but so far she hasn't. My boobs are so sore, which is also a sure sign of AF for me. So weird. Part of me wishes she would stay away but another part of me wishes she would hurry up and get here so I can try again asap. I never thought I'd say that it took us more than 6 months to conceive ='( Five has always been my lucky number. Ugh. How long did you all wait to go to the doctor?

Hi there,

It took my sister and brother-n-law a little over a year to conceive with their first. They were getting so discouraged and really giving up. They started to not let it take full control of lives anymore and just "DTD" and if it happened, then Yay! They conceived in less than 2 months once the stress died down from trying for so long. Also, they had found out once they were pg that one of the biggest reason that could have contributed to them not conceiving in the time they were trying the hardest was because her husband had been in an accident was constantly having to have MRI's done and all the pain killers...

Best of luck to you.! By AF not showing her face yet, you still have a very good chance!

Thanks for that. I know the pain killers might have affected this cycle, and I'm trying to keep that in mind. It's hard to believe that not trying would help us, though, because we never used birth control before we decided to "try" so it should have happend by now. If it doesn't happen in December, though, we will go back to that. So, FX that you're right. And you're right, I'm not technically "out" yet for this cyle. Just hard to stay positive when that one lonely line is staring back at you. Thanks for the encouragement =/

 

[tmcrowe]

I'm 12dpo, AF was due either yesterday or today and so far I keep getting bfn's. I was sure she would show her face this morning (she always comes in the morning for me) due to my gas (sorry) yesterday, but so far she hasn't. My boobs are so sore, which is also a sure sign of AF for me. So weird. Part of me wishes she would stay away but another part of me wishes she would hurry up and get here so I can try again asap. I never thought I'd say that it took us more than 6 months to conceive ='( Five has always been my lucky number. Ugh. How long did you all wait to go to the doctor?

Hi there,

It took my sister and brother-n-law a little over a year to conceive with their first. They were getting so discouraged and really giving up. They started to not let it take full control of lives anymore and just "DTD" and if it happened, then Yay! They conceived in less than 2 months once the stress died down from trying for so long. Also, they had found out once they were pg that one of the biggest reason that could have contributed to them not conceiving in the time they were trying the hardest was because her husband had been in an accident was constantly having to have MRI's done and all the pain killers...

Best of luck to you.! By AF not showing her face yet, you still have a very good chance!

Thanks for that. I know the pain killers might have affected this cycle, and I'm trying to keep that in mind. It's hard to believe that not trying would help us, though, because we never used birth control before we decided to "try" so it should have happend by now. If it doesn't happen in December, though, we will go back to that. So, FX that you're right. And you're right, I'm not technically "out" yet for this cyle. Just hard to stay positive when that one lonely line is staring back at you. Thanks for the encouragement =/

That is completely understandable, and you seriously gave me the chills. My sister would say the same exact thing. NEVER before been on BC, her and her husband had been together since they were 16 and never really "not tried" meaning they used the pull out method as a source of BC. So she too was feeling it wasn't ever going to happen for them. I can't say that they fully stopped trying, but she tried so desperately to put her mind somewhere else during the 2ww. I hope this help comforts you to some degree. I understand it can be quite frustrating when you're doing everything by the book.

 

[luna_19]

sholi

Liz sometimes everything is perfect and you still don't catch the egg. We've had 12 chances at it with great timing and still haven't gotten lucky. At least you know the clomid works for you, there's always next month.

 

[Dantz]

AF just showed up. Moving over to the December thread.

GL to the rest of you ladies

 

[Mmmoreos]

So I'm trying desperately to stay away from the frer sticks. I think I need to hold out until Tues/Wed as I'm not sure when I ov'd this month (as its the first month we didn't faithfully track ov like maniacs)

Question ladies - when is the best time of day to poas of the first response early results tests? I've looked up lots of conflicting advice - can anyone help?

Mmm x

Ps Dantz - gutted for you x

 

[hopeforbfp]

Dantz I think the rule of thumb is to see a doctor after its been 1 year. I started seeing a doctor after almost 11 months due to the second miscarriage.

So sorry to all the ladies the witch got. Hang in there Liz your temps still look great. Crystal I still see a line.

 

[Dantz]

Dantz I think the rule of thumb is to see a doctor after its been 1 year. I started seeing a doctor after almost 11 months due to the second miscarriage.

So sorry to all the ladies the witch got. Hang in there Liz your temps still look great. Crystal I still see a line.

I know, but for a healthy young couple that hasn't gotten pregnant after almost 5 years of not preventing it and after 6 months of perfect timing, we just want to meet with her for peace of mind. I realize that she probably won't do a whole lot seeing as it's "only" been six months, but I won't know unless I go in. I've NEVER had a bfp. not a faint line, not a dark line, not a chemical, not a miscarriage, NOTHING. I'm scared to death that something is wrong with me and I'm not willing to wait til it's too late to find out, no matter how crazy I look or sound.

 

[luna_19]

dantz
There's no harm in going to the Dr at this point. I first went at about 7 months (the start of my 8th cycle), my Dr was really encouraging and said to come back if it hasn't happened in a few months so we could start testing and have everything ready to go if we have to go to a fertility specialist at the 1 year mark so we went back last month at about 10 months and started things going

 

[Sholi]

I first went privately at 4/5 months, then dh had an sa at 8 months, also privately. Was referred by the gp at 10 months so i would have the appt by the year, which is when docs agree to have you seen by a fertility specialist.

Liz i've taken chlomid three times, this time the first 100 mg dose. It didn't work the first two times, so just be patient if not you'll drive yourself mad.

 

[lizlovelust]

sholi I know clomid worked for me, the doc confirmed two eggs to drop!

 

[echo]

Dantz, I know how that feels. 6 years NTNP, 4 years TTC, one chemical 2years ago. Last time I went to my doctor and told them how long, they just told me not to worry, I will get pregnant. Then I still had to specifically request some tests and they didn't do them even though they said they would. When I asked again, they said I needed a referrel to an ob for those tests (why didn't they tell me this before?). Then I lost my insurance. Currently waiting to hear from new insurance. Mu point being, I hope they don't do this to you. Put your foot down, unprotected sex for more than a year counts as trying to some doctors. I hope it is something simple, and you have answers and a BFP soon.

 

[Crystal5483]

So sorry to all those that the witch got today!!

I've been so sick today... Coughing hacking grossness! Super weak and urgent care was all booked up! Tea, soup and Popsicle diet... Oh yes.

I have only one FRER left which I may use tonight we shall see!