Thanks Phoebe, sorry to put such a downer on here today, but I just had to do something......
The infection was caused by Group B Strep, some women carry it in their vaginas/rectums. The NHS doesn't test for it roteinly, I dunno about the states. You can get tested by getting a kit such at this one: https://www.mumstuff.co.uk/acatalog/Group-B-Streptococcus-Screening-Test-Kit.html#aDL0001 Just thought I better add something positive... xxxxxxxxx