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Moaning Minnies United!

Hm. That is weird Paris, I guess everyone is different. I think af is due for me on the 9th if I continue to go by 28 day cycles. My lp has been 12 days so 12 days from yesterday is... The sixth? Ugh. I hate calculating these things. I'll just wait and test with you on the 10th. :rofl:
 
haha okay :) are we gonna definitely hold out then?! Sounds good ;)

I so hope that when you come back you'll be seeing 4 lines paris! I think it just has to be out time now. I've spent so so so so so long now - or so it feels like. It's 8 months now. How dare my high school teachers say that if you even touch an unprotected trouser snake you can get pg :dohh:

Although I have spent hours on here today doing one thing and another and I looked in LTTTC success stories. One woman got her bfp after 14 years! She never gave up hope. And when her LO was 3 months she became pg with her second. It's beautiful! It kinda puts my moan into comparison I guess.

Charlie, I hope you don't mind, I added you as a buddy on my signature :blush: I just felt us girlies were all on here together so much and you've been so supportive :hugs:
 
No I don't mind! I've wanted to add you, but thought you might mind. :haha: we're silly. Lol. trouser snake! I think if they had taught us as much as we know now about TTC while we're were in high school there wouldn't be as many oopsie pregnancies because girls would know what to watch out for and so would the guys. It's frustrating that all they tell you is to just wear a condom. Makes me mad. :growlmad:

Definitely! Let's both hold out to test until the 10th. :thumbup:
 
Quiet thread!

:wave: HI LADIES lol

Hope you both had a good weekend :flower:


Countdown is on for me! One week until vacation time :dance: and then two weeks until we start TTC again! :wohoo: It's coming so fast...

Can't wait until I see both your BFPs! Are you both feeling any type of symptoms yet or are you just not symptom spotting this month? :dust:
 
Hey sorry girls MIA!

3dpo for me. No symptom spotting and I'm sticking to my guns. After the fake 'IB' last month I could get my bfp and not count it as a symptom until after af is due :D testing on the 12th... When will you get back paris?

I bet you're so excited for your hols now paris :) and for ttc again too! Hoping the sun will do some wonders for the next cycles eggy... Vitamin D must be good for something ;)

I completely agree charlie. If you taught everyone about ewcm, ovulation and when to look out for it they'd at least realise not to risk it then... Because let's face most of us in our teens thought it would never happen to us. I know we did when we were 16 :blush: However maybe not tell everyone the WHOLE truth... Like how pre-cum can't really get get you pg, the pull out method works and that having sex on your period is gives you about as much chance of a bfp as flying.

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Haha. Yeah. Sorry I've been gone too guys. Been keeping myself busy so that I don't symptom spot. Hubby has been driving me nuts by watching nothing but star trek. Ugh. :wacko: I wish I was joking. :haha: my new video game comes out tomorrow so that will be a good distration. :) I'm 5dppo today. Woohoo!

Paris you should come here on your next vacation. Lol.

It's almost time for you to test D!
 
Hiya ladies!

I'll be leaving for our vacation on Feb 6 and returning Feb 13... so looks like I'll be back the day after you test D. I'm so excited to see your two lines! You better post a pic :flower: You too C!

Star Trek? :haha: Your hubby sounds funny lol Does he watch it while sitting on the kitchen counter? :haha: JK.

Which video game do you play, C? I don't play them myself but my DH plays Madden on PS3. He doesn't play alot but he does enjoy it when he does. lol

I'd definitely visit California if I don't get a BFP soon! lol Starting to get a little nervous about trying again but excited too. I guess I just can't shake the feeling that if I do get my BFP, something will go wrong again. Must. Think. Positive. Must. Think. Positive.

6 days = me on beach :yipee:

You ladies have any plans for Valentine's Day yet? DH and I talked about it and we think we're going to go for a couples massage and maybe go see a movie. Nothing too fancy but he's definitely the type of man who thinks he doesnt have to have a "special day" to tell me he loves me. He think it was created by Hallmark :haha: He's lucky he's cute. lol
 
Paris! Positive thinking is in order here...

BFP + paris --> happy paris + baby

It's as simple and easy as maths! :hugs:

My OH loves his xbox. Gahh. It's fine but he's soooo intent on teaching me and I'm hopeless :dohh:

We've booked our holiday. If I get pg this month I'll be 24 weeks by then :haha: No matter I'll still look hot with a big belly and stretchies!

We never do anything valentines day really other than swap cards. Sometimes he cooks for me but he usually does anyway! It's coming up to our 4 year anniversary (obvs not marriage just since it's been 'official') so we'll probs do something then instead. Might have to steal your idea and go for a couple's massage. It sounds amazing. Maybe OH will get some massage oil and learn in time :rofl:

4dpo. No ss. Going out of my mind. Still only 10/11days until testing!
 
Ooh nice D! Is this the holiday to Spain or Cyprus? Either way, I am jealous!!! Hope you have a great time.

And of course, you'll be GLOWING by the time you are 24 wks preg. It's happening right now in that little belly of yours. I can't wait until you test! I'm living vicariously through you right now. LOL

Couples massage is great! You should definitely try it! DH and I first went last year... it's great because my work covers 80% of the costs, so we went for 80mins! It was heaven. I don't even know how 80mins went by that fast, but it FLEW by. DH and I were giggling because he had a woman massage him and at first, you lay on your stomach and they massage your back, shoulders, legs, arms...etc. Then they get you to flip over onto your back and they massage your head, shoulders, arms and legs again. We were hearing stories that some men "pitch tents" with the sheets, so DH was a little nervous he was going to. :haha: Sometimes, I am really happy to be a girl! I don't know how the heck they walk around with those things (trouser snake) dangling between their legs.

Haven't seen dakron in a long while... hope she is ok. She had me nervous with her nip testing and doctors appointments :hugs:
 
This is the one to spain :) can't wait but it seems ages away! I'm getting soo scared that there's something wrong with me now. I really want to see the second line this cycle, just to put my mind at rest. I know it's silly because we've only really had a chance for the past 2 cycles and they were only like one occasion accross OV but still :blush:

:rofl: you crack me up! 'pitch tent with the sheets' is probably the funniest thing I've heard this week! I love you girls! I'm glad you enjoyed it :) I bet it got you in the mood for your holiday too.

Only days left until you're in the sunshine now... What a perfect start to your next cycle. We're all gonna be autumn/winter mummys!

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Oooh Spain!! Are you going to be visiting any one that you know there or will it just be you two? (and lil growing bubba of course!) So exciting!!

Aww D :hugs: There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you. That second line is coming... just you wait! (only a few more days!) I know the thought goes through your mind, we all think that way... but stop it or imma slap you! :haha: You are perfectly healthy and you will be a great mom. :flower:

:rofl: "pitch tents" lmao. They massage REAAAAAAAAAALLY high up on your thigh... and it feels good so no doubt some men may "pitch tents". Thank god DH didn't. I mean, I would have laughed hysterically but I would have been mortified at the same time. Not to mention what he would have felt like! :dohh:

5 days to go and sunshine time. Getting excited :dance: By the time we are back, AF should be over and it's on with the :sex:! I need to get a BFP soon... I don't want to be TOO far behind you ;)
 
We'll be staying near to his grandparents who I absolutely love. His gma is amazing! I think she'll probably be the only one who would be really happy for us to have a baby... The others would but I think it'll take them a while to come around to it!

Thank you paris :hugs: means a lot from you because we've been in it together from the start! If I don't get it this month our cycles will be similar I think so we can test together next month :)

I'm still giggling about tent pitching now! I can see why and everything but oh my gosh :rofl: I'mma use that phrase on OH from now on I think!

What am I gonna do without you for that long?! Maybe if I can (although my willpower just isn't strong) I'll hold out testing... I can't imagine not having you as the first person to see a bfp. Although if I'm not duffed this month the witch will be in full flow for when you're back :(

I've been trying to think of ways to tell OH if we were. I saw probably the funniest article on yahoo answers, where a woman found some pregnant lady porn and played it to her husband. Then she asked him if it turned him on. When he said no she told him he should get used :sex: with a bump! I'll have to find it, I almost choked with laughter :haha:

Have you been temping this cycle?? :dust:
 
Your trip sounds so amazing! And it's so nice that you get along so well with his family. I'm sure you will have such a great time :flower:

Isn't it crazy? I think we met in August! You are definitely my favourite person on this whole site. :hugs: I'm glad we get to do this journey together. We're always here to support each other! It really can't get any better than that! The witch will NOT be in full flow when I get back. The witch isn't even going to be visiting you! Get that thought outta your head ;)

It won't be THAT long lol just a week! And the resort does have free WiFi and I'll bring my iPhone, so I can check in every once and a while. Just not sure how often though! LOL It'll probably be before I go to sleep or something. I'll definitely be checking in to see your BFP! Gosh, I'm so excited for you.

:rofl: Pregnant lady porn! :haha: Now that's is a good way to tell your man your having his baby LOL That is too funny!!! Are you wanting to tell him in a sweet way or a goofy way? There's a thread on here somewhere where ladies were giving ideas on how to tell their man... I'll see if I can find it. Some of them had really great ideas! You can always just test with OH and then he'll know, when you know! Then you have to rush on over here and tell me. :blush:

I have been temping this cycle... supposedly it doesn't mean much after a mc because your temps can be all over the place, but mine have been pretty normal. I had positive opks on January 22 and 23, and FF confirmed that I O'd on January 24! So technically I'm 9dpo right now lol but we weren't trying so I won't be testing. I'm expcting AF on Wednesday. It's weird that I am actually hoping she shows! LOL Normally I just want her to stay away. But the sooner she shows and then leaves... the sooner I can finally be back to TTC. It's been a long month... I'm glad January is over. Ready to move on a start new!
 
Hey ladies. Sorry I've been gone. I've been distracting myself from this tww with video games and baby sitting. I finally got a job interview at a Wendy's! Wooo! Not the greatest job in the world, but it's something to do while I'm waiting for my little bean. :) plus I'll have more money for baby things. :haha:

Spain sounds amazing D! You're so lucky! We could never get to Spain unless hubby was sent there. Lol. We'll have to wait until he's out before we can do any sort of traveling.

Paris- its good that you confirmed that you ovd! So awesome. And we're practically in-sync with our cycles. So if I don't get my two lines this time we can test together next cycle. :thumbup:

I'm kind of frustrated because I've been looking at pregnancy charts and so many of them have temperature dips at 5 or 6 do and I haven't had any! Lol. Makes me feel out. :mad: I'm 7 or 8dpo today and my temp just keeps rising like it always does. Laaaaame!
 
@ paris - Wow, august! That seems so long ago when I still though that I could get pg with the pull out! :blush: It's gonna be great seeing our lil bubbas together on here :)

Make sure you relax while you're out there. I want this bfp sooo badly now but I just feel out. Last night it was so weird. For the first time I had this really weird strong maternal type feeling but now I just feel like it's gone again. I know that sound stupid but I let it get in my head that I could be... Which is always dangerous.

I really wanna test without OH. I want to have the moment where I'm a little used to it and have it as my secret to tell him. He'll be so excited but we'd both be terrified!

The witch will come soon enough. Glad your temps are going well already. You'll get your bfp next month sweetie I can just tell :) I hope she's not too nasty to you while you're away.

@charlie - good luck at your interview... They terrify me so I try not to leave jobs that often!

You're definitely not out yet hun... Positive attitude remember??! You're gonna bet your :bfp: and we'll all celebrate. I think comparing your cycle to other ladies is the worst thing to do! Your body is different chick, so you are still IN!!!



I had a load of cm yesterday which was promising but it's cleared up more today which makes me a bit down. But I'm not out until the witch shows so that's something to hold onto. I said I wouldn't ss but to be honest other than that and one session of cramping, 6dpo - not much else!

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dakron - I'm thinking of you sweetie and hope that wherever you are you're doing well! :hugs:
 
D, I agree. It'll be so cute that we can go from TTC to being mummies! :hugs:

I felt really out the month that I got my BFP, it could really be a good sign! All the feelings that you are getting could mean something. Don't let yourself feel down. You might be feeling down for nothing! And why waste all that energy, eh? Save some energy so your body can make that baby! ;)

Well, if you really want to test without OH, I suggest you start looking to pregnant lady porn :haha: JK. Any idea on how you will tell him?

I really hope I get my BFP again. I was really lucky to get it on first try last time... I'm not sure if I will be so lucky this time! But we will try. I'm definitely going to hold out on testing though. *yeah right* :dohh: Seems like no matter how many times I say that, I don't do it. lol

Good luck at your interview C! Congrats for going out and looking for a job. I'm sure you'll enjoy it and will probably make some friends!

C -- I'm starting to think that charts really don't tell you much. The month I got my BFP, my temps SLOWLY rose... almost to the point that I didn't even think I ovulated. Now this month, I had a big temp dip at 6dpo and and this morning I got a triphasic warning. LOL! DH and I did BD during my OV time (3 days and 2 days before which FF says is "Good") but both times we used pull out so I HIGHLY doubt I'm pg. We were pretty careful. But if we had been trying, I would definitely be all excited right now because of my chart (which would be pointless) lol. :haha:

Don't put so much stock in your chart, is what I am trying to say lol
 
I don't think you're out D. :)

The interview went alright. I always think fast food interviews are so funny for some reason. Lol. He said that my availability was good and that it was good that I had some fast food experience from when I was 16. He had one more interview to do and then he'd choose from there. Hoping he'll choose me. I get so bored sitting around the house all the time. Us with a little extra money I can finally continue violin lessons. :)
 
Hey D -- here's a few threads with some ideas on how to tell OH you're pregant ;)

Some are cute!! I like the one the belly idea. "Hi Daddy!" lol

https://www.babyandbump.com/bfp-announcements/209861-fun-ways-tell-your-partner-youre-pregnant.html

https://www.babyandbump.com/trying-to-conceive/618139-any-cute-ideas-tell-dh.html#post10686923
 
Yeah, I'm starting to not put too much stock in temping now. It's good for finding out when you ov, but after that it's pretty useless. Lol
 
Haha thanks paris :hugs: I wanna make it so special but I know I'll just blurt it out... That or I'll be too scared to say anything! I've kinda got a little idea of making him dinner (as he's usually the cook) and call him into the kitchen saying I'm cooking a little something for us and need his help. Then I'll ask him how long a buns take to cook. It's a bit lame but I think he'd appreciate it :haha: I could put the test in our oven or something.

You can hold out paris! We'll be cheering you on. The way I see it is that if you don't test until you're late there's less chance of seeing a negative!

Charlie, it's so awesome that you play violin! I've always wanted to learn :haha: but never had the confidence because I'm usually rubbish at musical stuff... Hoping you get the job.

I don't really know anything about temping but I do know you're not out!!

8dpo :dohh: only 5/6 days until the witch gets here, or alternatively 8 days until testing... Preferably the latter. I will get through this wait!

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